In modern, busy lives, many relationships get spoiled because a person is unable to please his/her partner in bed. Sexuality is one of the most mysterious and hidden subjects among couples. Thus, you need to make some sincere efforts to spice up your sex life.
For most couples, it may seem confusing and complicated, but here are a effective tips on how you can reignite the fire, and increase the heat in your bedroom. These tips will help you enjoy an exceptional sex life.
Before you even start making any attempts to spice up your sex life, you need to bring back the romance. Contrary to popular belief, romance is not just about spending a lot of money buying gifts or planning dinners. Your partner would love to see you be imaginative, thoughtful and creative.
After being in a relationship for a long period of time, it important that you still spend time “wooing” your partner. From time to time, your partner would want to be ‘wooed’ before getting seduced into bed. If you want to make your sex life interesting, you need to focus on intimacies like touching and kissing in a sensual manner.
Moreover, there are some people who think that a kiss is always a prelude to sex. However, the primary objective of kissing your partner is to let him/her know that you care, and strengthen the bond. It also heightens the intimacy level. Although kisses not always lead to sex, your partner would enjoy his/her sex life more when you build an intimate relationship.
Subtle Suggestions about Your Desires
Most people crave the need to fulfill their partner’s sexual desires. It is not easy for some to decipher their partner’s longings and desires. Thus, helping your partner to satisfy you but giving your partner some subtle suggestions about likes and what you want to explore. Your partner will love you more for this gesture. Communicate to your partner what you like the most when you’re in bed, and it will do wonders for your sex life. Like every other thing in a relationship, even your sex life needs an open line of communication.
When you’re in bed, the best way to please your partner is to do something completely wild and unexpected. You may try to recall a fetish or fantasy your partner told you some time ago. You should always take a chance with something your partner won’t forget for a very long time. It is important to quit a regular cycle, and try something new. This will definitely spice up your sex life.
Try to be Versatile
Trying the same positions and having sex at the same speed in bed, can make your sex life dull and monotonous. You should be versatile, and keep changing pressure, speed and position.
It will make a lot of difference to your partner’s sexual experience. Whether you’re having intercourse or indulge your partner in foreplay, versatility will make it quite unexpected. Thus, it will revive your partner’s senses.
Turn Yourself On
There are some people who take a lot of time to get horny or turned on. Your partner would love if you can take some pressure off him/her. It will also allow your partner to get to important acts straight away. Being halfway there’ will allow your partner to try many new things. If you’re already aroused, it can be a good thing for your partner.
Getting rough sometimes can be the best thing for your sex life. In some situations, you should let your partner know how badly you want it. In simple terms, you should try to bring out the beast in your partner, and let him/her know that you’re completely enjoying yourself.
Sometimes, your partner just wants to lean back, and watch you take control. You should let your partner just lie down, and do the rest. In fact, this may be your partner’s ultimate fantasy. Let him/her rest and have all the fun.
These were some tips about how to spice up your sex life. With these simple tips, you can reignite the spark in your relationship, and enjoy having intercourse with your partner even more.
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