Places To Meet Swingers In Carlifornia

California swingersMore and more people today are adopting a swinger’s lifestyle because of its many benefits. If it you have just found out about swinging and you want to live a swinging lifestyle, you probably don’t know the places where you can find swingers. Being in the same environment with fellow swingers makes everything easy for you. This is because you all want the same thing; hence, it will not be hard for you to find exactly what you need. However, as a newbie, you probably don’t know where to start. You should start by knowing the places to find swingers in California. Although there are many California swingers, you should not expect to meet them in the streets. There are specific places where California swingers meet to have a good time. Some of the places where you can find swingers in California include;

1. Swinger clubs

One of the best places to meet swinger is in the swinger clubs. Here, you will get to listen to your favorite music and enjoy your favorite drink as you wait to have a wonderful time with a swinger of your choice. While in a swingers club, you will not miss someone that you find attractive to spend some time with. If you are a shy person (too shy to approach other people), it is highly likely that you will be approached by someone. Choosing to go to a swingers club is very wise decision since you will be entertained as you wait to meet a new person who will bring more excitement. There are plenty of swinger clubs in California. You will not miss a clubs California swinger clubs that you will instantly fall in love with.

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2. Swinger resorts

california swinger resortThere are many resorts in California where you can meet swingers. Therefore, if you are generally bored with life and you need a place to relax, a California swingers resort will be perfect for you. These resorts provide a serene environment where swingers can freely interact and enjoy each other. Since the environment in a California swingers resort is more relaxed compared to that of a swinger club, it’s a good place to go to if you want an environment that is different from that of a club.

3. Swinger parties

Swinger parties are usually organized from time to time in California. A swingers’ party is also an ideal place to meet fellow swingers. The parties take place at different locations. If you are interest with California swingers, you should check the location of the next party and attend.

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How to Find a Great Local Swinger Party

swinger partyIt is always good for you to look for a local swinger party where you can attend and share your experiences with other swingers. Remember you may think you know a lot, but after you interact with other people you will end up discovering that there are some things you are not conversant with. In the swing lifestyle there are also many types of adventures such as threesomes and foursomes which you may like to have a party introduced to your couple. After you take bold steps and attend swinger parties it will be very easy for you to access other partners. For you to attend the parties you need to look for ways on how to find local swinger party in your area of residence. A website such as is very necessary for you in such a case. The following are benefits of making use of in your struggles to find local swinger party:

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Making use of the website will save your time of locating a swinger party in your area

Visit the local swinger party section in the website where you will have a chance of accessing a lot of clubs which are meant for swingers. In case you want to see if a given club in your locality is meant for swingers you can easily know after you visit the website because it will list the clubs and parties that will be held in the club.

The party section updates the list of local swinger parties regularly

swinger partyIf you want to access a list that is updated you will really enjoy as a regular visitor of SwingLifeStyle. The administrators of the website take time to update the lists regularly so that they will enable different swingers access to information in good time for them to plan in advance. This is necessary for them to avoid cases where a swinger can end up being caught unaware on what he will be required to do for him to be able to attend a given party. As a swinger for you to benefit more out of the website you need to subscribe for services offered by the website such as newsletters which will be emailed to you regularly.

Different swinger parties will tend to have some variations on the type of facilities that will be available. For you to avoid cases where you will be disadvantaged you need to try and check on the facilities available in individual venues where the swinger parties will be held for you to prepare well. In your preparation you should remember to carry all that will be required for you to attend the party, in case there are some requirements indicated by the organizers of the parties.

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What Divides Nudists From Swingers?

What Divides Nudists From Swingers?

There has always been a huge confusion between swingers and nudists. To break it down, a nudist is one who enjoys hanging around without clothes, whether in public or at their private residence. On the other hand, a swinger is one who basically has sex, but without demanding for money.

The Difference

swingers beachNudists are actually supported, by an organization, The American Association for Nude Recreation – AANR. This organization was developed in 1931 to give rights to the nudist recreation and information of such communities and places around the world. For instance, you can find a nudist park or resort, which lets children enjoy swimming while naked. The association strictly forbids having sex in such places that have received the mandate. However, there are some resorts that are ‘adult only’ and surprisingly, or rather obvious enough, they are not supported by the AANR. Everyone knows that anything or slogan that states ‘adults only’ has some X-rated content with them. If you go to the ‘adult only’ nudist resort, as they call it, you could find people having sex.

Now these people are swingers and not nudists. They engage in sexual activities freely with friends or strangers. That automatically gets them out of the nudist bracket.

The Thin Line

The only slight similarity between the two is that they all walk around naked in public. Generally, people believe or rather it is a taboo to show of your nakedness to any one of the public, that is the probable reason why people believe swingers and nudists are similar.

nudistsGenerally, you can find a nudist at a swinger club, but a swinger can never be allowed at a nudist resort or park. Although you might hardly differentiate a swinger from a nudist when you see one, you can know the difference in terms of the display. Sometimes, a swinger might not necessarily be naked, but they will dress in a provocative manner of denoting their desire for sexual acts. Swingers are only getting naked so that they can seduce other people. On the other hand, nudists strip down and walk around naked because they want to be ‘free’. Some claim that taking their clothes off makes them feel liberated. Their target is not to display off their nudity to strangers or friends, rather, they just want to get naked and walk around with less weight. So the main thing to note about nudist is that they never have sex in public, unlike swingers.

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Hustler Hollywood Locations – SwingLifeStyle Members Enjoy 20% OFF

With many Hustler Hollywood retail stores, this article will help find the best locations
for those shoppers in different parts of the city. Through their remarkable products,
they have managed to attract not only shoppers in California but also other parts
of the US thus gaining a higher reputation.

How do you choose a Hustler Hollywood near you? (bottom lists all stores)

Hustler HollywoodFirst, it is important that you do your research through their website, Hustler Hollywood store locations, to get information that you need prior to making a decision of the place where you would like to buy the products that they sell. Through this research over their site, you will get all the information that you need to make the best choice as you look
for their products at the store nearest you.

The prices of the products that they sell also depends on the genres of products that they offer. You need to know about the prices prior to making a choice of the store where
you would like to spend your money depending on what you need. You should
compare the prices prior to choosing a Hustler Hollywood near you where you
would like to buy the products that they offer. It is essential to read the reviews of the people who have ever bought their products prior to making a choice of the Hustler Hollywood to visit. The good news is that ALL the retail stores enjoy 20% off just by saying “I am SLS” upon checkout.

Hustler HollywoodFinally, it is important that you seek help from shopping experts or friends who have experience with the different Hustler Hollywood store before choosing one where you would like to do your research. In the end, this should help you choose the best products
that you need as you shop from this amazing retail store. After all some swinger couples enjoy shopping with others.

What great Genres of products do they offer?

The following are some of the products that they offer:

1. All Time Pussy Pleaser

You will get all typesof pussy pleasure ranging from old to the new arrivals. Through their products, you will have an opportunity to make the best choice.  These includes Ultimate Bondage Kit, 7th Heaven Platinum Rabbit Pearl, The Original Magic Wand Vibrator,
Universal Pussy Pleaser and Universal Toy Cleaner among many other new pussy pleasures.

2. G-Spot Vibrators

Hustler Hollywood also sells different types of G-Spot Vibrators that depends on
your taste and preference. Some of the highly rates G-Spot Vibrators are Silver Bullet, Butterfly Kiss, and Rabbit Tip Attachment among others. They are available in different types, shapes, and sells at different prices.

3. New Hustler Pussy Strokers

Hustler Hollywood also stocks new hustler pussy strokers that ranges from the Asian, American and even African pussies. They are Hustler Pussy Collection – Asian Pussy, Hustler Pussy Collection – Barely Legal Pussy, Hustler Pussy Collection – Choco
Pussy, and Hustler Pussy Collection – Creampie Pussy among many others. You will have an opportunity to choose the best from the collection.

4. Clit Vibrators

They have new clitoris vibrators and these include Coco Licious Love Ring Finger Vibe,
Rabbit Tip Attachment and Karma Vibrating Egg. They also have new other products that you can buy from the online platform.

5. Hustler Porn Movies

You will have an opportunity to buy the top selling new releases in the market and the week’s most popular movies at the best prices. These are Hustler’s Big Busty POV, Dana Vespoli’s Lesbian  Extreme, Interracial Family Affair, Hustler’s Wanna Jack In My Box?,
Hustler’s Barely Legal #140, Mike Adriano’s Buttsluts #2, DP Domination  and Daddy’s Favorite. This means that you also have an opportunity to choose the best products depending on your choice.

What are the  locations throughout the US?

Hustler HollywoodThere are many other outlets across the US for the people who would like to
make the best choice when buying. These cities includes New Yolk city, Chicago,
Houston, Phoenix, Dallas, San Diego and Indianapolis among many other

Below is a listing of the Hustler Hollywood stores near you!

California Locations

Hustler Hollywood | Sunset Blvd
8920 Sunset Boulevard
West Hollywood, CA 90069

Hustler Hollywood | San Diego
929 6th Avenue
San Diego, CA 92101
(619) 696-9007

Florida Locations

Hustler Hollywood | Fort Lauderdale
1500 East Sunrise Boulevard
Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304

Kentucky Locations

Hustler Hollywood | Lexington
2240 Elkhorn Road
Lexington, KY 40505
(859) 231-6969

New Orleans Locations

Hustler Hollywood | New Orleans
111 Bourbon Street
New Orleans, LA 70130

Missouri Locations

Hustler Hollywood | Berkeley
9802 Natural Bridge Road
Berkeley, MO 63134

Nevada Locations

Hustler Hollywood | Las Vegas
6007 Dean Martin Drive
Las Vegas, NV 89118
(702) 685-6969
Ohio Locations
Hustler Hollywood | Monroe
1038 Lebanon Street
Monroe, OH 45050
Hustler Hollywood | Cincinnati
16 E. 7th Street
Cincinnati, OH 45202
Larry Flynt’s Hustler Express | Cincinnati
411 Elm. St
Cincinnati, OH 45202
(513) 421-0369
Tennessee Locations
Hustler Hollywood | Nashville
1400 Church Street
Nashville, TN 37203
Washington Locations
Hustler Hollywood | Tacoma
8001 S. Hosmer Street
Tacoma, WA 98408
(253) 536-0269
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Why Women Love Anal Sex

Anal sex used to be for the sexually daring, but it isn’t anymore. It has become very common in bedrooms around the world since most women love it. The women enjoy it because it feels so amazing. It gives them a totally different as well as intriguing sensation than regular sex. To make the anal sex even more pleasurable, you should play with her clitoris while you are in the act. Buying her a sex toy may help you enhance the experience even further. If the sex is so good, it is possible for the woman to have an orgasm.

anal sex Some women like anal sex because it is naughty. Just like some women like putting on handcuffs and school uniforms as a way of making the sex act more fun, some of the find anal sex to be one of the best ways to spice things up. The fact that is it is forbidden makes it more delicious as well as tempting to the women. It is a little scary when you think about, just like having regular sex for the first time as a virgin, but it is quite exciting if you get used to it. To avoid the pain and accidents that might be associated with it, use lubricants.

During anal sex, the penis hits the nerve endings that are found around the anus. This causes them to be extremely stimulated and chances of the woman having a full body orgasm are high. Mostly, the women who offer to have anal sex are those that are most comfortable with themselves, their bodies or with asking for what they need from their partners. Most women have tried at some point and it resulted into either pain or pleasure. Those who had pleasure will usually prefer having it as opposed to regular sex.

anal sexIf a woman tried anal sex and it is was painful, she may be unwilling to try it again. If you are a guy and you also like anal sex, you will have to be prepared to convince her into trying it again. Even though the first time may be a little painful, if she opens to it a second time and other subsequent times, it may end up being pleasurable and satisfying. It is very important to prepare the woman properly if she complains of experiencing pain during the act, for instance by going slowly, using lube and not pounding her so hard.

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Cuckold Relationships

Cuckold RelationshipThere are a wide range of reasons for a couple to involve in a cuckold relationship.

In some cases, the man is the one initiating this lifestyle, maybe as part of a sexual fantasy of seeing his female with other men. He mentions his fantasies to his woman partner, who reacts to it by accepting the change in lifestyle.

Other men become attracted to the cuckold lifestyle when they age and lose sexual stamina. Take for instance, a husband who in his 50s is unable to please his partner sexually. In order to keep his woman sexually satisfied, he agrees to become a cuckold. The woman now has the best of both worlds, sexual freedom and the ability to keep her existing relationship, while her partner remains faithful to her.

Some other men develop a cuckold fantasy partly based on guilty feeling of not being able to satisfy their wife and partly based on voyeuristic interests. Some men just like to watch.

For men, the benefits of being in a cuckold relationship satisfies some fantasies, voyeuristic fetishes, keeps a relationship going in the case of loss of sexual stamina, or it can simply be an ego boost from having a partner desired by other men.

Cuckold RelationshipIt happens less often, but some woman may suggest engaging in a cuckold lifestyle. They have never accepted being in a monogamous relationship and to them cuckoldry just seems natural. Other women just enjoy breaking a taboo, or crave adventure and variety.

These women tend to be motivated by sexual freedom and variety of living such a lifestyle. Other typical motivations for woman who initiate a cuckold lifestyle are humiliating her boyfriend/husband, breaking a taboo, being the center of attention, indulging in some form of exhibitionism, enjoying some new adventures and sexual romance, as well as satisfying her sexual desires.

In this lifestyle it is important to be aware that no two situations or couples are alike. Couples can engage in a form of cuckold lifestyle for many different reasons and their relationship can evolve in limitless ways

A cuckold relationship was in the past a scandalous relationship. In these old style cuckold relationships often the husband chose to remain silent about the wife’s infidelity and to ignore their cuckold status. In modern cuckoldry, the boyfriend or husband is fully aware of his status and is fully accepting of it. However, modern cuckoldry is not mainstream and it is still a fringe lifestyle or taboo.

Cuckold RelationshipIn cuckold relationships, the boyfriend or the husband is usually not interested in having sex with other women and is satisfied with experiencing his female partner’s sexual experiences. This idea may seem at odds with human tendencies toward possessiveness, jealousy as well as cultural conditioning. In ensuring the success of the transition to a cuckold lifestyle, both partner need to shift their focus on commitment and love to hold their relationship together rather than the cultural and social conditioning about sexual exclusivity that cater to insecurities and jealousies.

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How to Set Up a Threesome

How to Set Up a ThreesomeAlmost every guy wants to engage in a threesome. It is one of the most common sexual fetishes among young men. Most guys have no clue on how to go about setting up such a situation. In this post, we’ve given some basic tips about how you can persuade your partner to engage in a threesome.

You need to be Open Minded

Both partners will need to be open minded about the situation. For instance, a girl with strong religious beliefs may never open her mind to something like this. Even if she does it out of love, or just to please you, she might end up regretting it later. This could mean an end to your relationship. Just like some girls are never open to friends with benefits’, some women are never open to FFM. A girl who is a friend with benefit’ might be a good candidate for this situation.

Understand What a Threesome Implies

How to Set Up a ThreesomeYou need to understand what such a situation implies. Three people engaged in sexual activity. There may be some girl on girl action, or some men on men, depending on the type of threesome you are involved with. Please make sure all parties are comfortable with this idea. There are even some guys who can’t accept the idea of their girl being with another girl or man. There might be some sort of jealousy. If this is you, then a threesome is not for you. Jealousy can bring a lot of drama and drama should be avoided at all cost.

Slight Interest in Women

The girl should have a slight interest in women. If she’s not interested, there should be some level of curiosity. There are some women who are disgusted by the idea of being with another woman intimately, if the girl is over 23 and never tried anything with another girl, she might not ever try it.

If the above guidelines are easily met, there’s some potential to a threesome situation. In order to persuade your girlfriend to get into this situation, you will have to focus on an important factor. You need to consider how much your girlfriend trusts you to allow having sex with another woman.

How to Set Up a ThreesomeConsidering your girlfriend is bi-curious and does not have any problem in sleeping with some other girl, it is important to deal with her insecurity about you and the other girl. Although your girl might not be the jealous type, she would still be worried. She might think that you would dump her for the other girl. You need to make her understand that the other girl does not mean anything to you.

The perception of most women regarding sex is focused on an emotional act. It is totally different from how men perceive sex. This can become a major hurdle towards your threesome plans. It is important to make your girlfriend understand that your commitment and love would remain true.

It is hard to explain how you can build more trust in your relationship. However, it’s obvious that if the girl feels more comfortable and secure in the relationship, she will be more likely to get into a threesome.

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Light BDSM for Beginners

Almost every person has some sort of sexual fetish. BDSM is one of the most common, and wild’ sexual fetish you can enjoy with your partner. Most people shy away and don’t realize the tremendous erotic pleasure bondage can bring. If you and your partner are willing to try bondage and restraints, your first consideration needs to be about playing specific roles. If you are the dominating one in the relationship, a role reversal on this special night can be exciting.

Light BDSM for BeginnersRestraints

A lot of couples want to try BDSM. Giving yourself truly to your partner can rejuvenate your relationship, and symbolize the trust and affection you show. Restraints are always perfect for bondage. A silky rope or fluffy handcuffs can be perfect. Rather than focusing on tying basic knots, you should find more sexy techniques using your mouth and so on.

Role Play

Light BDSM for BeginnersRole play can help a couple bring out the passionate that’s still there for each other. It also shows the other person that you’re willing to fulfill his/her fantasies. You can buy cute and kinky costumes according to the desires and preferences of your partner. You can transform yourself into a horny fireman, sexy school girl, naughty nurse, innocent maiden or whatever you like. These are some of the most popular BDSM fantasies.

Erotic Foods

You could also blindfold your partner and add some erotic foods to make everything more fun and exciting. You can use strawberries or dark chocolate on certain body parts. Whipped cream over your partner’s body is also a good idea. If you want, you can get even Light BDSM for beginnerswicked by keeping your partner blindfolded and adding some sensual oral sex techniques and some toys. You can use a vibrator to increase the level of eroticism until your partner is unable to handle it. For a sexy sensation, use some oil on your partner’s body and give a gentle massage. It won’t be long before both of you experience the most powerful orgasms of your life.

Add Something Exciting and Creative

These were only some of the most erotic and kinkiest BDSM techniques you can use with your partner. In order to make everything more exciting and fun, you need to use creative and unique ideas. Some high quality bondage gear and sexy fetishes can be perfect for this magical night. You need to make the night special for your partner. Buying a sexy piece of lingerie can be perfect to make the night more fun.

Regardless of how you want to play with your partner, it is important to let the person enjoy the experience to the maximum extent. You just need to make sure both of you explore each other’s bodies and have the best time. You should try and make your partner feel comfortable. Bondage equipment like eye masks, restraints, hunters and a few other items will be perfect for beginners into the BDSM lifestyle. BDSM can be one of the best ways to rekindle the fire and rejuvenate your relationship.

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The Best Swinger Vacation Spots In the World

The Best Swinger Vacation Spots In the WorldSwingers have special needs and some can be satisfied through multiple channels, including lifestyle travel and vacations.  The best experiences comes from places where freedom of experimental pleasure is embraced. There are several swinger spots, mainly resorts and spas that cater to swingers and at some, your guaranteed enjoyment.

The following are some of the best lifestyle vacation spots in the world where swingers can explore fantasies and experience adventures without inhibitions.

The Caliente Caribe – Enjoy a swinger vacation at Caliente Caribe, on the beautiful island of the Dominican Republic.  The scenery includes a green landscape with palm and coconut trees that induce thrill and excitement and sets the mood before indulging in uninhibited expeditions and bliss.

Private Village – Located in Spain, and is simply a heaven on earth.  With tThe Best Swinger Vacation Spots In the Worldhe diversity of cultures present and a love aura surrounding the atmosphere in Ibiza, this village includes devoted services to ensure visitors from everywhere are comfortable and care-free.

Amsterdam’s The Toren Hotel – Where nudity and sex is involved in a rare and unforgettable stay in Amsterdam. There is absolutely no inhibition on nudity, frolicking, public display of affection, sex among other expressions. They offer luxurious accommodations and provide excellent services as well as attractions like museums and dance clubs.

La Cap D’Agde – This is most definitely a spot for swingers, nudist and any lifestyle traveler.  The town is even named “naked city” and experiences a high influx of visitors daily. The entire town is inhabited by nudists and open-minded people and with evidence of naked sun bathing by thousands, you’ll soon recognize it as the norm. It is located in France and has several night dance clubs filled with sexy atmospheres.

The above present the top spots in the world, although there are many other perfect swinger vacation places all over the globe. Others include Breezes Grand Resort & Spa (Jamaica), Temptation Resort & Spa (Mexico), Rama Kien Lifestyle (Thailand) just to name a few.

When looking for lifestyle destinations, it is important to browse for reviews, referrals and opinions from previous visitors. There are lots of information you can fine online on swinger forums, swingers groups, as well as lifestyle and travel magazines.

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Top 3 LifeStyle Resorts

Taking a vacation is an American and European tradition. There are many different vacation destination that suit all types of people. Couples-only resorts allow adult couples the opportunity to relax rest and reconnect. These lifestyle resorts welcome all adult guests only, no kids are allowed. All activities and social events are adult-oriented, running the gamut from candle-lit dinners on the beach to clothing-optional nightclub.

Read on to see some of the top 3 lifestyle resorts.

Hedonism II1. Hedonism II Resort

This adult-only lush tropical paradise is the perfect gateway for those who want to enjoy a fun, freedom-filled escape from the constraints of everyday life. The resort has over 280 suites and rooms available with ocean or garden views. The rooms have mirrored ceilings, air conditioning, tiled floors, 5-head Euro-style Jacuzzi showers, choice of 1 king-sized or 2 twin beds, CD players and a tea and coffee preparation station.

They offer several water sport activities such as sailing, water-skiing, snorkeling and scuba diving. The resort also offers numerous land activities such as 6 lighted tennis courts, 2 air-conditioning squash courts, badminton, bicycling, table tennis, volleyball, rock climbing, basketball and a miniature golf course.

The private beach is divided into 2 sections; one for nude sunbathers and the other for ‘prude’ sunbathers. The guests can also enjoy a nude Jacuzzi, freshwater pools, a nightclub.

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Rooftop Resort 2. Rooftop Resort

This resort is conveniently located between Ft Lauderdale and Miami, in a white sandy beach community of Florida. This is the only nudist hotel is South Florida. The resort offers breath-taking panoramic inter-coastal and Blue Ocean views with some from the private heated sky pool and sun deck.

The hotel offers affordable studio suites to standard rooms with large picture windows overlooking the Atrium. Rooftop is a lifestyle resort that has been created to offer complete privacy with a unique tropical-style courtyard.

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Desire Resort 3. Desire Resort

Located in Mexico, Desire Resort is one the world’s largest premier adult-only resorts. Its stunning setting, coupled with a wonderfully relaxed and uninhibited ambiance, create a well-deserved reputation. Here you get to enjoy pole dancing lessons, play nude beach volleyball, nude Jacuzzi lounge bar, a playroom and fantasy theme nights.

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Libidra – The Best Female Libido Enhancer

Libidra, the Best Female Libido EnhancerThere are many reasons why a woman would decide to go for a female libido enhancer. You may be experiencing a low desire to engage in sexual intercourse with your partner, you may be gaining excess weight, loss focus, or your just plain stressed out.

Female libido enhancers such as Libidra is an all-natural supplement that helps women boost their sex drive and feel like themselves again. Sold exclusively online at, the supplement offer lots of benefits that you will enjoy at an affordable price.

Here are some reasons why Libidra is the best female libido enhancer for women like you…

Contains FDA Approved Ingredients

Libidra’s all natural contents are FDA approved and safe. Taking this supplement will avoid some side effects you may face when taking supplements that are not approved. Most of the ingredients have been in use for hundreds of years. Natural formulas such as Maca, which is a root vegetable used to promote fertility and energy; Cistanche Bark that has a boosting effect on your libido are just some of the ingredients formulated into one product.

Leads to a Faster and Full Arousal

Libidra helps the female body relax thus dilating her blood vessels and allowing her to enjoy her sexual experience. The powerful herbs and nutrients will help lead to a faster arousal. This will lead you to enjoying sex more than before. Libidra also leads intense sensations within the genital regions which will make you feel all the pleasure while having Libidra, the Best Female Libido Enhancersex.

Rise in Sexual Appetite

Many women face the loss of a sexual appetite. Libidra will help to increase your sexual appetite to a level for you to really enjoy sex. A healthy sexual appetite is among the factors that will lead you to enjoying sex or not. The supplement will help to boost your libido and help to elevated vaginal lube which will allow you to reach orgasm faster and feel closer to your lover.

Elevated mood and anticipation of sex

Your mood is also a factor when trying to reach an orgasm. Mood swings may be disturb you, so most of the time you do not feel like having sex. The supplement will help elevate your mood and willing to have more sex. Most women who had problems with their moods who decided to make use of Libidra have recorded a positive improvement when it comes to their mood and their sex life in general.


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Hump Day; Attend a Swinger Party on Wednesday

Hump Day; Attend a Swinger Party on WednesdayLife is hard under this harsh economic climate. Being so Hard reminds me of a joke,

Q: Why doesn’t a chicken wear pants?

A: Because his pecker is on his head!

Anyways there is so much to do and so little time in which to do it. You can go crazy with all the pressures of everyday life. This is especially true when it comes to the middle of the week. You have worked tirelessly since Monday. Your days seem endless and all the effort you put into work seems worthless. You need to take some time off on Wednesday. Doing so is good for your physical and psychological health. Find something to do on hump day that you and your partner both enjoy. This will strengthen your relationship and take your mind off work.

- Liberate Yourself Sexually

Sex is a taboo subject in many societies even though we all like it. This does not make sense. We should be open about our sexual exploits and desires. Sex comes with numerous benefits that we all need. This is especially true on hump day. It gives you a chance to relax and to bond with your partner in the most intimate way possible. It also prepares your body for the tasks ahead for the rest of the week. Do not be shy about your sexual desires. Liberate yourself sexually. There is no harm in doing so. Have sex on hump day.

Hump Day; Attend a Swinger Party on Wednesday- Attend a Swinger Party

Liberating yourself sexually is not enough. You should start your own sexual revolution. You can start this by attending a swinger party or other event. These events will allow you to connect with others and enjoy new experiences. You will experience adventures in ways you would never imagine. It will show you new ways of being intimate with your partner that you never thought possible. A swinger party will also introduce you to some of the friendliest couples you will ever meet. These couples just want to have fun. They would like you to be a part of their sexual revolution, you should participate and try not to hesitate.

- Best Place to Find Swingers

The best place to find real swingers is online at the swingers dating website, SwingLifeStyle. There you can connect with others in the lifestyle at their swingers meet and greets, swingers clubs, take swinger vacation or have an intimate moment through online chat. Life is fun, don’t let it pass you by.

Try not to limit yourself or let the week get to you. It is hump day. Start swinging on from Wednesday, to get you fired up for the weekend. Visit SLS for local events and happenings near you.

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SwingLifestyle Sponsors The X Run

SwingLifestyle Sponsors The X Run The X Run is the first of its kind and SwinglifeStyle is happy to be a premier sponsor of this event. A 5k obstacle course that is designed to promote healthy swinging and give back to charity, is an event that SwingLifeStyle is proud to partner with. The mud run will be filled with lots of fun obstacle races like Motorboating Mania, “Spank the Monkey” bars, The Boob wall, G-string Crawl and so much more that we are sure you’ll really enjoy. Come out and meet our celebrity guests, Ash Armand from Showtime’s hit TV series “Gigolos”, Jessica O’Reilly. PhD, Sexologist, Relationship Expert, Author & Host of Playboy TV Swing among others. In case you have never attended a mud run before, then you should not miss the opportunity to attend the event.

The X Run will be held at the Historic Virginia Key Beach Park in Miami, FL. It will be one of the sexiest, wildest, and most outrageous mud run of its kind, so everyone 21 years and over, regardless of your physical fitness level is welcomed. This adult themSwingLifestyle Sponsors The X Run ed mud run features sexy entertainment, pole dancing contests, Mr. & Mrs. X run Competition and so much more. Here are some benefits you’ll enjoy after you decide to attend The X Run sponsored by SwingLifeStyle:

Physical exercise that enhances physical fitness and overall health.

Although this event will involve running, you will end up exercising different parts of your body. Lack of exercises can lead you to different health complications which can end up causing you heart problems. Some of these problems can be solved through a little physical exercise where you get to burn excess fats from your body. The mud run can help motivate you by running and exercising in a group setting. This is unlike a case where you will be trying to run by yourself which is very hard to achieve for some. Remember in a group you will be motivated by other members where you will run as a group with benefits of adult-themed fun. Forget 50 Shades of Grey, The X Run will be 50 Shades of Mud fun.

Make New Friends

SwingLifestyle Sponsors The X Run Attending The X Run sponsored by SwingLifeStyle, will allow you to connect with people in and out of the lifestyle. Having fun with other people is something that will add value to your life. You can attend the run and end up developing friendships you would have never thought possible. The event is attended by many people from different regions. This will save you time in case you are too busy in your daily routine to connect with others to build lasting relationships.

Wear whatever makes you comfortable, but no nudity is allowed. Out of State participants can reserve their rooms at one of our Hotel partners. Potential participants can register at The X or visit the site for more details.

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Some Easy Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

In modern, busy lives, many relationships get spoiled because a person is unable to please his/her partner in bed. Sexuality is one of the most mysterious and hidden subjects among couples. Thus, you need to make some sincere efforts to spice up your sex life.

For most couples, it may seem confusing and complicated, but here are a effective tips on how you can reignite the fire, and increase the heat in your bedroom. These tips will help you enjoy an exceptional sex life.

Some Easy Ways to Spice Up Your Sex LifeBring Back the Romance

Before you even start making any attempts to spice up your sex life, you need to bring back the romance. Contrary to popular belief, romance is not just about spending a lot of money buying gifts or planning dinners. Your partner would love to see you be imaginative, thoughtful and creative.

After being in a relationship for a long period of time, it important that you still spend time “wooing” your partner. From time to time, your partner would want to be ‘wooed’ before getting seduced into bed. If you want to make your sex life interesting, you need to focus on intimacies like touching and kissing in a sensual manner.

Moreover, there are some people who think that a kiss is always a prelude to sex. However, the primary objective of kissing your partner is to let him/her know that you care, and strengthen the bond. It also heightens the intimacy level. Although kisses not always lead to sex, your partner would enjoy his/her sex life more when you build an intimate relationship.

Subtle Suggestions about Your Desires

Most people crave the need to fulfill their partner’s sexual desires. It is not easy for some to decipher their partner’s longings and desires. Thus, helping your partner to satisfy you but giving your partner some subtle suggestions about likes and what you want to explore. Your partner will love you more for this gesture. Communicate to your partner what you like the most when you’re in bed, and it will do wonders for your sex life. Like every other thing in a relationship, even your sex life needs an open line of communication.

Some Easy Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life Make an Unexpected Wild Move

When you’re in bed, the best way to please your partner is to do something completely wild and unexpected. You may try to recall a fetish or fantasy your partner told you some time ago. You should always take a chance with something your partner won’t forget for a very long time. It is important to quit a regular cycle, and try something new. This will definitely spice up your sex life.

Try to be Versatile

Trying the same positions and having sex at the same speed in bed, can make your sex life dull and monotonous. You should be versatile, and keep changing pressure, speed and position.

It will make a lot of difference to your partner’s sexual experience. Whether you’re having intercourse or indulge your partner in foreplay, versatility will make it quite unexpected. Thus, it will revive your partner’s senses.

Turn Yourself On

There are some people who take a lot of time to get horny or turned on. Your partner would love if you can take some pressure off him/her. It will also allow your partner to get to important acts straight away. Being halfway there’ will allow your partner to try many new things. If you’re already aroused, it can be a good thing for your partner.

Some Easy Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life Get Rough Sometimes

Getting rough sometimes can be the best thing for your sex life. In some situations, you should let your partner know how badly you want it. In simple terms, you should try to bring out the beast in your partner, and let him/her know that you’re completely enjoying yourself.

Take Control

Sometimes, your partner just wants to lean back, and watch you take control. You should let your partner just lie down, and do the rest. In fact, this may be your partner’s ultimate fantasy. Let him/her rest and have all the fun.

These were some tips about how to spice up your sex life. With these simple tips, you can reignite the spark in your relationship, and enjoy having intercourse with your partner even more.

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Bisexual Women

The topic of bisexuality is very interesting and quite difficult for some people to grasp. This is why we feel it is important that we clear up some of the confusion. There is some form of stigma associated with bisexual people around the world. No matter how people react about the word bisexual, it actually means when a person is openly attracted emotionally and sexually to the same gender and remains attracted to the opposite gender.

Well, this information may not be for someone who is shocked by the mere mention of the word “bisexuality’. But if you are reading this, it means that you are keen on your personal development and want to discover exciting new things that come with dating, sexuality and relationships.

Due to society’s inflicted fear of one’s sexuality, even people who might be curious about the lifestyle might shy away from it. Then again, even most openly bisexual women may deny that they are actually bisexual because of some level of miscommunication in our society. Unless a bisexual Bisexual Womengirl is highly self-conscious and secure, she is likely to deny that she is bisexual in any way. However, if you ask that same woman whether she feels attracted to girls in any way or whether if she is attracted to girls in any way, or if has ever kissed a fellow woman, you will be surprised that she will openly say “yes’. This form of miscommunication is what we need to really clear up.

Attraction can be of different degrees. For instance, it might comprise the wish to kiss/caress another woman if an opportunity crops up. Take a chance and see if that is something you like. Some people are normally scared of doing such things because of societal misconceptions and end up having lifetime fantasies about such incidents.

Obviously, they would want their dream to come true, but perhaps their courage lets them down. In our daily lives, when the chance crops up, women will do certain things that seem bisexual for a lot of men. For girls, it is the natural way they feel about each other.

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A Look at Polyamorous Dating

Polyamory basically means the practice or desire of having more than one intimate relationship at a time. Unlike swingers, polyamory couples tend to me emotionally involved with multiple people at the same time. However, Polyamory happens with the consent of all partners involved and thus should not be confused with cheating. Polyamory dating seems to be much more accepted in most countries and around the world. Polyamory does not necessary include poly sexuality.

One of the greatest benefit to a polyamory relationship is the ability to get maximum pleasure from all partners involved in the relationship as well as peace of mind. Here are a few other benefits to consider.

1. Diverse Romance

The involvement of more than two persons in the relationship brings in diversity in the romance. This helps in bringing the factors of excitement to the relationship because every partner brings in a new element of love or romance with himself or herself. Thus, the chances of the relationship to become boring are less and the dates start becoming more exciting and fun.

2. Less Monotony

The chances of monotony in the relationship are less in polyamory dating. Every partner has their own likes, dislikes and ways of reacting to situations. Thus, there are chances of exploring the nature of every person involved in the love relationship, this way, the interest of all the partners’ remains intact. This breaks all forms of monotony from the relationship on one hand and helps the relationship to last longer on the other hand.

A Look at Polyamory Dating 3. No Cheating or Heartbreaks

When someone indulges himself /herself in polyamory dating, since dating multiple partners is a part of this lifestyle, there are no awkward situations about cheating or heartbreaks if either of the partners falls in love with someone else as well.

4. Honest Relationships

It has been widely researched and accepted that the people who are polyamorous are more honest towards relationships. They begin the relationships with full honestly and give love a much higher place that sexual relationships. Thus, if one has a date who is polyamorous, he or she can expect full honesty and a lovely time from the date.

In polyamorous relationships, mutual respect for all partners is always present. Therefore, dating a person who is living a polyamorous lifestyle will bring about a positive effect in the lives of an individual due the amount of space and respect for that partner to be independant. The levels of expectations and demands attained from polyamory dating is almost absent so one can always try to indulge in such dates to have a lovely time without the bindings of complicated, intense, demanding and two way relationships.

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Why Swingers Have a Lower Divorce Rate than Monogamous Couples

Why Swingers Have a Lower Divorce Rate than Monogamous Couples Recent statistics have shown that swingers tend to have a lower divorce rate than monogamous couples. Swingers are people in open relationships, where partners are committed to each other, but engages sexually with other people at the same time. Swingers are more open and honest with the people they are in a relationship with than monogamous couples who often indulge in infidelity. Most swingers think that swinging is a good practice that helps to strengthen their relationship with their partners.

Why do swingers refrain from divorce?

There are many reasons why the divorce rate among swingers is lower than the divorce rate among monogamous couples. One of the main reason is their good mental health. Swingers are said to be creative and can adapt easily to changing circumstances. Their sex life is more flexible and offer more excitement than compared to the lives of monogamous couples.

According to a well-known therapist, who have studied both swingers and monogamous couples, swingers do not cheat because they feel no need to fear. They are well aware of what their partner is doing, so they don’t fear the unknown. The people in the monogamous groups on the other hand are constantly living in fear which makes them cheat on their partners. The jealousy trap in most monogamous relationships usually leads to full-fledged affairs which ultimately lead to complete destruction of relationships.

Statistics on divorces among monogamous couples

Why Swingers Have a Lower Divorce Rate than Monogamous Couples According to recent statistical data, it is the party in a divorce that accuses the other that actually initiates a divorce. The person that is blaming the other usually claims to be having a good reason for the divorce. Statistics show that 70% of wives initiate a divorce. Of the 70%, 40% blame the husbands for the divorce. Husbands initiate 30% of divorces and blame their partners for the break-up 21% of the time.

Another study showed that close to 79% of men in monogamous marriages initiate divorce without being provoked. The figure for women is 60%. Other statistical information shows that 23% of divorces are because men trade up’ while 28% are because the men screw up’. When these two are summed up, the divorce rate among monogamous couple caused by men is at 51%.

Another statistical study shows that 42% of divorces are because females in monogamous relationships trade up’. Screw up’ among women was found to be at 7%. When the two are added, the total divorces that are caused by women stand at 49%.

The statistics reveal that men are more likely to screw up’ while women are more likely to trade up’. The statistics also reveal that both genders are equally responsible for the divorces.

Swingers stay in marriages because they bond, connect and fall deeply in love. They value sex less than the monogamous couples. This explains why the divorce rate among swinging partners is lower.


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The Swinger Lifestyle: Voyeurs and Swingers

The Swinger Lifestyle: Voyeurs and Swingers  For open-minded individuals, having an open relationship could be a nice deal. As a matter of fact, a lot of adventurous couples are interested in trying the swinging lifestyle. This kind of interest develops slowly over a period of time. This would lead the couples to finally decide if they’re ready to take the next step into becoming ultimate voyeurs or swingers.

The Swinger Lifestyle of Today

Without a doubt, this lifestyle has its own set of trends. Specifically, swingers from their own society have a set of cultural goals to comply with and their point of view revolves in the kind of society they belong to. Some of the swinger lifestyle trends are as follows:

Voyeur and Swinger

A voyeur is a person who takes pleasure in watching their partner having sexual intercourse with another individual. On the other hand, a swinger is a person who’s in a relationship, but is free to have sexual intimacy with the partner of another couple. Couples engage in full or soft swap sexual activity with another couple. Another fact when it comes to swinging is that, it removes the limits that a voyeur has.

Wife Sharing

The Swinger Lifestyle: Voyeurs and SwingersPerhaps, the most popular swinging trend is wife sharing. It’s something that should be carefully thought about first. When it comes to swinging, wife sharing is an integral part of it, this is where you would share your partner with another couple. In fact, this is the whole point of swinging.

Going To a Swinger’s Party

When it comes to marketing, its main principle states that, you should target your prospective audience in order to increase sales revenue. Same goes with swinging. The best technique to discover a couple who are well acquainted to a swinger lifestyle, is by going to a party exclusively catered to swingers themselves.

Social Media

If you happen to feel uncomfortable with the idea, but very eager to try it, it would be ideal to use the social media as your starting point. All you need to do is find communities that welcomes voyeurs and swingers. You could join their community and begin exploring the possibilities like

A swinger has a different path of life. It doesn’t matter if you’re just a voyeur or you’re up for something more. One thing for sure, the experience could be out of this world.

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Full swap v/s Soft swap which way to go?

Full swap v/s Soft swap which way to go?Over the last few years, the swinging lifestyle has become quite the in thing with an increasing number of couples. However, despite this upsurge of interest in swapping sexual partners, there is still a lot of haze surrounding just what options are available for swingers. Particularly when it comes to choosing between soft swaps and full swaps.

Naturally, there are extremely pertinent issues that need to be comprehensively addressed before swingers opt for either of these relationships. It is crucial for such couples to determine their distinct outlook to what they consider appropriate for the swinging lifestyle they wish to integrate into their lives. Some individuals might be turned on by the thought of engaging in sexual encounters with other people besides their partners. But the mere image of penetration and the intimacy it presents can sometimes be a major put off.

For those who might not be in the know, there is a fine line between these two types of swinging, and it can pay to ascertain just where you and your partner stand. Soft swap basically encompasses a large variety of sexual activities, which can range from kissing, petting, and in some cases even oral sex with other persons aside from your partner. The main difference between these erotic liaisons is that soft swap doesn’t lead to actual sexual intercourse with outsiders. It is a well-established fact that a majority of swingers consider soft swaps as “child’s play”, and it can be challenging to find couples that will be okay with this type of swinging.

Despite this fact, it doesn’t pay to rush into full swap due to the dire repercussions that can arise from such sexual liaisons. It is consequently vital for you and your partner to apportion enough time to openly examine the pros and cons of either kind of swinging, and more importantly what both of you are comfortable with. It can be a prudent idea to start with soft swap and in gradual degrees venture into full swap if both of you deem it appropriate. Apart from these considerations, the swinging lifestyle can be an incredibly rewarding sexual dalliance for most open-minded couple, which offers an altogether delightful spice for the persons involved.

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FFM Threesome – Strengthen Your Relationship

FFM Threesome - Strengthen Your RelationshipA threesome FFM refers to a relationship in which a spouse agrees to add another woman to join the couple in sexual acts. A FFM or Female-Female-Male threesome is based on mutual understanding and how far couples may be willing to go to explore their sexual fantasies. Contrary to the common notion, a FFM threesomes can be beneficial for a relationship. In this post, we’ve discussed some benefits of FFM threesome.

Strengthen Your Bond

Some women suffer from lack of sexual satisfaction in their relationships. They may have other cravings for sexual arousal and in some cases, it is a touch from another woman. Some women believe that a woman is more capable of satisfying another woman’s sexual desires because they themselves are women. When a woman craves another woman, this may increase her chances of cheating in a relationship. A threesome FFM can be quite beneficial because it would satisfy the need of the woman to and strengthen the bond between the woman and her male partner. Being upfront about her needs will resolve frustration and anger that may build up in the relationship.

Brightens the Relationship among Old Couples

There are times when old age can easily trigger the need of having a threesome FFM. Such a situation can be quite useful, especially when an old couple wants a memorable and exciting experience like what they experienced in their youth. A lot of old couples have so much fun after joining in a threesome with a young woman who has more energy, stamina and vigor. The experience allows the couple to harness their sex drives. Indulgence of alcohol can also come in handy because it releases tension and makes couples enjoy the experience even more.

FFM Threesome - Strengthen Your RelationshipA Woman and Man Reach their Maximum Arousal

A woman is believed to reach maximum arousal when she has experienced multiple orgasms. Most women receive multiple orgasms through thrilling and severe sexual acts. This can be easily achieved through a pair of sexual lovers comprising both sexes. Similarly, a man who cares about his woman and wants her to experience a good time can choose a threesome FFM. Once she has been sexually involved with both a man and a woman, it can be quite easy for her to reach maximum arousal. She can have multiple orgasms and receive ultimate sexual satisfaction. Same is true in case of the male partner.

More Chance for Sexual Exploration

When couples are upfront and faithful with each other, they can explore their sexual desires even further together. They can easily experience other threesomes such as Male-Male-Female MMF, and erotic sexual acts that comes with it. The couples can also get involved with partners who have exotic sexual skills that creates more room for sexual exploration. In time, such couples will find a lot of new ways of sharing thrilling and exciting sexual experiences. These experiences can strengthen the foundation of any relationship.

These were some of the key benefits of getting involved in a threesome FFM for couples. A threesome FFM can be quite effective for couples who want to strengthen their bonds and take their relationship to the next level. This also helps nourish their endeavors. Couples can have a lot of fun experimenting and practicing. However, you need to set some guidelines among yourselves before you let someone else get involved.

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The Benefits of a Submissive Sexual Relationship

The Benefits of a Submissive Sexual Relationship You may be debating in your mind whether you are a sexual submissive person or not. Is a submissive sexual relationship the type of relationship that will work for you? In a sexual submissive relationship, there are two people involved and one is dominant and the other is the submissive. The dominant is the one who provides the direction in the relationship. Want to know more about this type of lifestyle, the world is a global village where you can freely interact with different people all over the world in making use of the internet.  Despite what you may think, there are a lot of people, male and female, who are sexual submissive. There are many benefits to a submissive relationship and the following are a few benefits of being in a submissive sexual relationship.

There is great trust in the relationship

In this type of relationship there is complete trust for each other. If the submissive fails to trust his/her dominant, it will no longer be referred to as a sexual submissive relationship. People in this type of relationship normally last a long time. After the great trust is developed between a dominant and submissive, all decisions that affect their love directly, are made by the dominant with their best interest at heart.

Making decision in the relationship is very easy

The Benefits of a Submissive Sexual RelationshipFor many relationships to work well, couples agree on different activities that they like to participate in. This is more of a case especially in sexual submissive relationships. This makes submissive relationship preferable to some, where it is only one person who will be involved in making the decisions without too much consultation. This saves time on the final decision making process. In case one makes a mistake in the decision, he or she will be held liable.

Both partners will enjoy in the relationship

There is great fun in submissive relationships. Each partner can benefit greatly from such a relationship if they play their part. This will end up making the parties involved really happy in the relationship. There is also great love for each other and this can be seen when one member decides to submit to the other for the relationship to work.

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A Basic Understanding of Cuckold Relationships

A Basic Understanding of Cuckold Relationships A cuckold type of relationship is rare and very few people live this type of lifestyle. There are many challenges so only a few people manage to make it a success. In a cuckold relationship, a partner which tends to be the male, watches his wife/girlfriend engage in sexual relations with another man. The wife/girlfriend or in some cases the male partner will choose a man known as a cuckold bull to pleasure her.The male remains loyal while allowing his wife/girlfriend to fulfill her desires. The key pillars for those who want to make their cuckold relationship a success are loyalty and trust. Despite the fact that such a relationship poses a lot of challenges, it can sometimes strengthen the bond between the partners.

In order for this type of relationship to work, couples will have to make it their own. They  discuss the parameters for their relationship and come to an agreement on how to move forward. Communication and understanding are other important factors necessary for a cuckold relationship to work well.

Some men engage in a cuckold relationship just to watch their partner with another. Others enjoy hearing how their lover enjoyed being taken by another while they watched. Those who like watching their partners having sex with another man have a right to participate in some way during the sex session. One of the ways in which they can be involved is by touching fondling, holding their partners’ legs etc. This lifestyle is not for A Basic Understanding of Cuckold Relationships everyone, as some men would hate the idea of their female partner making love to other men, while others get off on it. To each their own.

It is really important for the men in cuckold relationships to value their partner. Making the lady know that you love and value her will increase the bond between the two of you and her respect for you will increase. It is not advisable for one to have a cuckold relationship especially if there is no trust or if the relationship isn’t strong enough. Deciding to have a cuckold relationship will also depend on another important factor, your current sex life.

A larger percentage of cuckold relationships involve a man and a woman who have been married for a long time with cemented trust and understanding. They engage in such a relationship to satisfy a desire that they themselves are not able to give to their partner. Some people crave this type of lifestyle, but not all can endure. Be sure to communicate with your partner if this is the direction you wish to take your relationship. If you want to connect with other cuckold couples or to find a cuckold bull to make this a reality.

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Sexting: How to Sext

Sexting: How to Sext Let’s face it. A good number of us have at one point or the other sent an erotic photo, video or seductive text messages to our partners. However, the truth is that sexting isn’t as easy as it sounds. As matter of fact, many people have no idea what to write let alone how to photograph themselves highlighting their assets. The most important aspect of sexting is keeping communication with your partner private.

For those who haven’t tried sexting or are not sure if they’re being effective as they should be, here are invaluable tips how to send sexy text messages. It is imperative that you get the basics right, because once you’ve hit the send button, you can’t get it back.

1. Ease into sexting – Start with some light teasing and turn up the heat a little by turning it into steamy and hot sexts. Start slowly; there is no need for you to send the naughtiest sext or photo first. Instead of being explicit, be suggestive since it may feel uncomfortable sharing overly sexy information. Gauge the responses and set boundaries so you don’t go pass a comfort zone. Take things slow by saving intimate details for the bedroom.

2. Be affirmative with your sexts – Begin sexts with something like, “I want to…” instead of “We never…” Be sure to choose your words carefully. A picture may be worth a thousand words, but it’s a bit different in regards to sex and desires. Dirty talk can have more impact than a close up photo. If you’re not comfortable with dirty talk, don’t hesitate to use sexy complements. Stroking the ego is certainly hot.

Sexting: How to Sext 3. Play with punctuations and adjectives – Never mind that it may not come out as sexy; an exclamation mark has a huge impact in regards to sex. Sample this; “I am coming” and “I am coming so hard!” You notice the difference?

You may need to take a little more caution in regards to photos. Regardless of the level of trust you have for your partner, you’re better off taking close up photos rather than photos which include your face. Not only are they safer but leave your partner with something to ponder. Whatever you do always save something for the imagination.

Remember this;

Never sext an unwilling participant – Before you sext, be sure that your partner wants to engage in sexting. Sending nude photos without your partner’s permission may amount to harassment.

Delete sexts after sending them – Don’t keep sexts in your device especially if people around you can gain access your phone. You certainly don’t want your nude photos leaked on the internet, do you?

Don’t rush your sexts – Just like anything else, rushing can cause errors. You definitely don’t want to accidentally send your erotic photos or naughty texts to your workmate or neighbor!

Please remember, Do Not Sext and Drive or TXT and Drive, it can wait.


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Valentine’s Day Swinger Ideas

Valentine’s Day Swinger IdeasThanks to the internet and modern technology that swinging has become more popular today than in past years. Those days of placing adverts in magazines and attending shady parties are gone. Swingers today typically meet in swingers clubs, online, at swingers’ cruises, party or other lifestyle events. Are you planning on attending a swinger’s event this Valentine’s Day? Below are a few ideas we wanted to share.

Meet New Swingers

The easiest way to do so is to find new partners and friends online. Singles and couples in the lifestyle place ads on different dating websites which are geared towards swingers. Looking to fulfill your desires, connect with other swingers this Valentine’s Day and plan a date night out on the town.

Visit a Swinger’s Club

Swinger’s clubs are nightclubs with a twist. They are normally located in big cities and host themed events to celebrate the holiday season. Find a Valentine’s Day Swingers Party in your area. Many people attending are swingers or those interested in trying out the modern day swinging lifestyle. Not feeling like attending a club? There will be other parties and lifestyle events happening this Valentin’s Day weekend where you can simply meet others, drink, dance and just have fun. Some of these events even offer on-site-play rooms for consenting adults.

Valentine’s Day Swinger IdeasEscape on a Swingers Cruise

First, expect these cruises to be organized by travel agencies. These are agencies specializing in alternative lifestyle travel. The cruises may consist of a large group of lifestyle members wishing to meet new swingers and take a vacation together. Other cruises may be takeovers, in which a cruise ship is reserved only for lifestyle members. If you want to enjoy your valentine to the fullest, try to reserve a spot on a cruise with people you already know.

Whatever you decide to do this Valentine’s Day, always act and behave like a guest. Swinging singles and couples can be asked to leave for misbehaving. Acknowledge your hostess or host and express your gratitude once the party is over. This may help with invites for future events.

Also, don’t forget to carry your essentials.  This is very useful especially if you are new to the swinging lifestyle. Carry a special bag big enough to hold all your essentials but inconspicuous. Some of these essentials include club attire, bottles of wine, lingerie, pain reliever and condoms. Female condoms and non-latex condoms are wise since it’s better to play safe.


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Why Women Enjoy the Cuckold Lifestyle

Why Women Enjoy the Cuckold Lifestyle There are many motivating factors that attracts a woman to the cuckold lifestyle. Less often, some women suggest introducing an alternative intimate lifestyle for the sexual variety into their marriage/relationship. There are other factors that attract married women to the cuckold lifestyle. Some typical motivations that enable women to initiate or try this lifestyle are:

  • Breaking a taboo.
  • Enjoying sexual adventure that might be lacking in the marriage.
  • Humiliating the cheating husband or boyfriend
  • Being the center of attention.
  • Satisfying her unexplored sexual desires.
  • Indulging in a different form of exhibitionism.
  • Desire to indulge in their innate desires.

For some women, being in a monogamous relationship is not easy. Rather than cheating on their husband, becoming a cuckold wife just seems more natural to them. Others, who crave different sexual experiences and adventures, might also feel more inclined to live this lifestyle.

Some swinger couples gradually prefer gravitating to a cuckoldry lifestyle. This is because as a man ages, he may  start to lose some of his sexual energies, while on the other hand, a woman’s appetite for sex remains the same on increases. In many situations, such couples make a slow transition to cuckoldry.

Another category of people who prefers to adopt this kind of lifestyle includes couples  in their fifties or older. This occurs when a woman in her fifties takes hormone replacement therapy to prevent hot-flashes and osteoporosis. As a side effect, they experience a huge boost in their libido right when her husband’s sexual desires are decreasing.

Why Women Enjoy the Cuckold Lifestyle In such circumstances, the woman finds herself sexually frustrated and the man becomes depressed due to his inability to satisfy his woman. Thus, both partners feel relieved when they work out a cuckold-related arrangement. The cuckold lifestyle can be fun and adventurous for both the husband and wife.

It is important to understand that the needs and desires of no two couples are the same. There are many ways for couples to engage in some form of alternate sexual lifestyle and cuckold wives is one of the most preferable ones after swingers.

If you or your wife is looking to revive the sexual experiences in your marriage, then try a  cuckold lifestyle.  It is a great and entertaining way for women to meet their sexual desires, without being called a “cheating woman”. In most situations, it is also a way for women to break the taboo and explore her sexual adventures. Its best to discuss the lifestyle in detail with your partner beforehand. This will ensure everyone is on the same page thus making it a smooth and acceptable transition.

Read more about the Cuckold Lifestyle: Cuckold vs. Swinging and Amateur Cuckold

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Man Strips and Chokes His Chicken after Crashing Into a Fried Chicken Stand

In Pennsauken, a South Jersey man has been charged with DUI on Monday after crashing his car in Fairhill, Philadelphia. According to officials, the man was under the influence of drugs that made him go all bizarre after the crash. What did he do? Well, unlike other crashers, he didn’t jump out his car and started looking for someone to blame or a helping hand, lol. Instead, he stripped naked and got onanistic in public. Some smart and witty by-passers captured his act on their smart devices and uploaded it on YouTube for all to see.

The man has been recognized as Vincent J. Wade, a 34 year old resident of Pennsauken, Camden County. In the video, Wade can be seen standing next to the open driver’s door side of his silver, damaged Toyota Camry. He removed his shirt and had his pants down resting around his ankles in the snow. His car crashed into the pole at 10:30 am on Monday morning. The incident took place right under the sign of Crown Chicken and Grill on the 500 block of West Lehigh Avenue in Fairhill, North Philadelphia. Now this is what we call, “choking the chicken”. What else!? The video has gone viral on all popular social networking sites, making everyone laugh out their ribs.

According to the witness, Wade seemed irate and uncontrollable before the crash. He was yelling out loud while driving when he hit the pole. Soon after the crash, he started removing his clothes which appeared like an onanistic act. He danced while shimmying his buttock before a group of three men standing on the corner the road and then later moved on to teasing the man passing by. Wade also attempted to drive away after finishing his act, but an unidentified person took his keys and called for the cops.

The man was arrested at the scene, but soon got bailed after paying the fine of $500 – 10% of what he was liable to pay for the bail. Supposedly, this was the first time that he had been charged with something like this, so authorities were a little liberal on him.

As per the report submitted by the police official, Wade has been tested positive for drugs. The reports did not specify the type of drugs, but fortunately he was not injured and could get back on his feet after getting bailed. The case has been filed against him, and the court hearing is scheduled for 26 February, 2014 at 10 a.m. Seems like there’s a lot of humiliation to come for Wade in the near future.

Since he made bail, I guess there will not be any funny posters to put on his cell like” Do not enter flying objects”.

Interestingly enough, (no joke) there is a man that drives around asking women to help him masturbate with Swiss cheese. People are wondering if Vincent J. Wade, is the same Swiss cheese masturbate man.


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Top Tips on Dominating a Dominant Woman

Top Tips on Dominating a Dominant WomanI first started to write this blog with a direction on dominant women, but then I started to think how great it would be to write about a dominant woman with a twist, so this blog is about “How To Dominate a Dominant Woman“. Dominant women are usually associated with chains, whips and a contemptible man groveling at their feet, which is not Mike Hatcher, who cannot be broken. A woman may take up a domineering position in a relationship merely because the man has not learned the art of dominance in bed. A woman may be independent, strong -willed and feisty but that does not mean she doesn’t need/want to be ravished just like any female. Here are great tips for men to dominate a dominant woman in the bedroom.

Keep Eye Contact

Direct eye contact is vital in asserting dominance. A really dominant person can overpower a less dominant individual with glances. With a dominant woman, by simply lowering your eyelids gently as you stare back at her while returning her wicked grin will assert that you are the one doing the dominating. Such stares will give her an impression that she has to do much more. As such thoughts are running over her mind, she will certainly break the eye contact- this indicates she is ready to be dominated.

Top Tips on Dominating a Dominant WomanTake the Lead

A dominant woman is most likely physically aggressive in bed. These are the kind of ladies who like riding their partners like champions. Although this appeals to most men, if it happens regularly then you are put into a subservient role. You have to take the lead position by flipping her on her back immediately after she pounces on you. Keep her pinned on the bed but don’t make it painful. If she struggles to get back on top, calmly tell her you will be in the lead that evening. Before you complete that sentence her panties will already be soaked.

Ensure She Begs for More

Begging is an indication of total submission and can make sexual experiences incredible for both partners. The simplest way of accomplishing your goal of dominating a dominant woman is through oral sex. Spend quality time turning her on via her clitoris, but never giving her the release she craves. When she is almost thrashing and moaning, slow down just a little bit. Explore another area of her body like her inner thighs for a couple of seconds. The mixture of sexual stimulation and frustration will make her beg for release. Don’t give your attention to the clitoris before she starts begging. And make sure you are not a one pump chump in bed, if you are I would recommend supplements.

Top Tips on Dominating a Dominant WomanTell Her All You Intend To Do

Be vocal, talk dirty to this woman. Keeping a dominant woman informed about your moves for the evening would be a great challenge. This is a chance for you to prove to her you are up for the task (dominant sex). You can use this trick in your car or over dinner. Your confidence will intrigue her more than you can ever imagine. Once in the bedroom, whisper exactly what you plan to do to her in her ear, promise her a steamy session that will leave her sweating and screaming your name. Tell her how you are prepared to go down on her body till she cries, she will definitely love every bit of it. Remember to keep all your promises to make that dominant sex extremely pleasurable.



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Advantages of the Swinglifestyle from a Single Woman’s Perspective

Advantages of the Swinglifestyle from a Single Woman's PerspectiveOverview: Swinglifestyle or swinging for single women

The swinging lifestyle for single women, otherwise known as unicorns, is where single women engage in sexual activities with other single women, men or couples in committed relationships. Swinging for single women has a number of advantages and can range from spontaneous sexual encounters, to planned social meetings or connecting online on swinger sites with other like-minded people. Below are some of the main advantages of the swinglifestyle from a single woman’s perspective.

1. It’s a great way to meet new people: This is one of the main advantages of swinging from a single woman’s perspective. Instead of meeting people traditional settings, swinging helps single women known as unicorns meet couples, other single women and men in fun, new, exciting ways. The encounter is nurtured into new friendships and in most cases, lifetime bonds are formed.

2. It rules out infidelity: The SwingLifeStyle from a single woman’s perspective rules out the option extramarital affairs which is a common problem in society today. Because single women are welcomed by both parties of a married couple, there is no reason to cheat or lie, the infidelity vice is ruled out. Married or committed couples who participate in the lifestyle together, experience sexual experiences based on trust and mutual understanding between all parties involved.

Advantages of the Swinglifestyle from a Single Woman's Perspective3. Its exciting and stress free: The swing lifestyle is a lot of fun for single women interested in no strings attached relationships. The lifestyle breaks societal norms and expectations for the single woman letting her have a stress free sex life free of harsh judgment. There is absolutely no cause for worry which adds a unique dose of excitement as swinger clubs are exclusive and private with interactions between like-minded people.

4. Single ladies can be more open about their sexual desires: This is another notable advantage of swinging for single ladies. It is a fact that most women in relationships are more scared than men when it comes to expressing their true sexual desires to their partners because of the fear of being judged harshly. Swinging is a carefree experience from a single woman’s perspective. Single women have the opportunity to be more open about what they want because they are dealing with open minded people with similar mindsets.

5. Offers variety: For a long time, men have been on the receiving end when it comes to sexual variety because of their universally accepted high sexual tendencies. Swinging gives single women, known as unicorns, an opportunity to experience their fair share of sexual variety because they can have as many sexual encounters as possible in swinger clubs without worrying about harsh societal judgments.

Advantages of the Swinglifestyle from a Single Woman's Perspective6. Enhances a single woman’s sex life: The swinglifestyle for single women definitely enhances a woman’s sex by exposing her to different sexual techniques and before committing to a serious relationship. This offers single women all the necessary experience they need to hold a serious monogamous relationship together. There is no better way for a single woman to gain sexual experience other than swinging.


In summary, the above benefits sum up the most common benefits of swinging from a single woman’s perspective. It is clear what single women stand to gain from embracing the lifestyle as a modern alternative to cheating and having affairs.

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Amateur Cuckold – How to get into the Sexual Lifestyle

Amateur Cuckold – How to get into the Sexual Lifestyle Before a couple decides to engage in this alternative lifestyle, they should understand what the concept means and what it entails. By definition a cuckold is a scenario where a wife (girlfriend) has sex with another man while her husband (boyfriend) watches. Although this lifestyle has never really surfaced out into the open like swingers, it is becoming more popular with every generation.

Living the life of an amateur cuckold shouldn’t be too difficult, seeing as most men don’t really have a problem in regards to having intercourse with another man’s wife. The only difference in this instance is that permission is given by the husband or lover and the only condition is that he gets to watch. A lot of guys are probably thinking who would allow this, but in most cases it is the husband who suggests it.

There are several reasons for this specific situation and it differs quite extensively from couple to couple. Some men get aroused by the mere jealousy of seeing his wife enjoying another man. Others are thrilled by the humiliation of getting replaced. The psychological elements are vast and ultimately they don’t make much sense.

Amateur Cuckold – How to get into the Sexual Lifestyle The wives and girlfriends tend to be the ones who don’t like to partake in cuckolding because it could just as well damage the relationship completely. Due to the consequences involved, couples should be sure beyond a doubt that it is something they both want. For those who like the idea, it can be very pleasurable and some even opt to videotape the session for later use.

Finding the right guy for the event is a crucial step, you need a Bull like Hatcher…..just kidding. It is not recommended to use a good or close friend because it can get too personal. It is better to use a third person who won’t be seen a lot or gets invited to gatherings. Keep in mind that there are real-life dangers that come with the territory and meeting the new guy a few times before actually engaging in a cuckold should be priority.

In addition make sure the candidate is clean in the sense of STD’s. The last thing a couple wants is to contract a terminal or unnecessary illness which could have been avoided. It might start small, but the part sperm plays becomes very powerful after a while and discarding the dangers would be foolish. Once the screening process is complete and both parties can agree to the limits and expectations, the fun can start so-to-speak.

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Using Online Chat Rooms for Swinging

Using Online Chat Rooms for Swinging Most couples who’re new to swinging prefers the privacy of a swinger chat room. Chat rooms and forums can be a great way to meet new swingers. There’s a major reason for this decision. The can connect with other swingers through video chat, so they get to see who they are talking to online, which makes the whole experience a lot more fun and sets all the party involved at ease. For most new swingers, it feels like a completely new aspect of life. Moreover, if they don’t like the experience, they can easily walk away, and connect with others they may be interested in. SwingLifeStyle’s free chat room is one of the most popular chat rooms online.

Why Chat Rooms?

These days, most people love chatting online. In fact, online chatting is one of the purest and quickest ways to connect with new people. Before meeting someone new in public, you can get to know them through online video chat, so you have an idea of what to expect. It also allows you the ability to connect with other people who may share similar interest. This allows you the opportunity to get comfortable with the lifestyle and experience. It can be harder for people to hold things back or lie when they have already met in a chat room. Moreover, if someone says something wrong, you can just drop the idea and move over to the next person in the chat room.

How Does It Work?

Using Online Chatroom for Swinging Most of the time, swingers chat rooms are highly populated. There are also chat rooms that connect people of similar interest such as: cuckold, taboo, nudist, Bi-male, Bi-female etc. You can also start your own. You can also use them to plan swinger events, a meeting at a motel or hotel or vacations. In fact, there are also local chat rooms to help you meet swingers in your home area. The basic method is very open.

With this method, you will be able to choose a person who suits your lifestyle and needs. In addition to this, when you’re chatting with someone, you’re not shy. Chat rooms and forums give you the perfect opportunity to meet open minded people in the lifestyle without worrying about any privacy issues. These days, you can choose from a lot of different swinger’s chat rooms and forums, but there are a few guidelines to keep in mind.

  1. Be polite
  2. Do not Spam
  3. No useless messages
  4. All caps can be considered as “Yelling”
  5. Have FUN!!

Create a new profile and start chatting with real swingers.



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How Do You Make Out with Your Partner

How Do You Make Out with Your PartnerLife is all about experiences. You should live through certain experiences, savor the moment and make it last forever. This is especially true when these experiences stir up feelings of happiness, fulfillment and joy. In truth, nothing is as fulfilling as spending time with the person you love or fancy. As swingers being in a committed relationship, you share a connection and you should ensure that your time together is as memorable as possible.  You can do this through an awesome making out session. Here are some tips for making out with your partner.

- Make Eye Contact

The eyes are windows to the soul. They speak a language words can never utter. The same goes for making out. Your eyes will speak volumes about how much you want to make out with him or her. This is how you should go about it. Look into your partner’s eyes, smile a little to show that you are ready to make out, gently lean forward towards your partner, put your hand subtly on his or her face and then give your partner a slight peck on the lips. This sets the stage for a grand session of making out.

- Do Not Rush Things

Good things take time and a bit of patience. Making out is no exception. Move slowly and gently as you start making out. This helps you to avoid any head butting, clanking teeth or elbowing. More importantly, it helps you to understand what your partner’s desires are. For example, what kissing techniques are comfortable with your partner, what your partner’s favorite position is, and at what pace your partner is comfortable?

How Do You Make Out with Your PartnerAlways start with a kiss on the lips. You can then go for a French kiss or just kiss each other on the lips more passionately. Do whatever feels comfortable and natural. You should also try to take little bites of your partner’s bottom lip, neck and earlobes. These little bites can make your partner go crazy with pleasure and anticipation.

- Do Not Stay Still

Making out is like a dance. You cannot stay still while the dance is becoming more and more intense. You have to keep up with the passion that you and your partner are generating. In other words, you should move your hands. For example, you can hold your partner’s waist and then gently stroke your partner’s shoulder and hair. You can even hold your partner’s hands. The most important thing is to let your partner know that you appreciate his or her body.

- Whisper into Your Partner’s Ears

Remember, making out is all about passion. Whispering into your partner’s ears fires up this passion like nothing else can. It assures your partner that you like what is happening and that you do not want it to stop. More importantly, it helps you and your partner to know what is happening right in addition to knowing what more can happen to spice things up. Whispering into your partner’s ear is also sweet and sexy. You can also try breathing on your partner’s neck to send shivers down his or her spine.

Practice these techniques on you partners and share the outcome on the SLS Forums.



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Swinging in Tampa to Rekindle Your Relationship

Swinging in TampaFirst off, Tampa is one of my favorite places to go and enjoy the swinging lifestyle. Until a few years ago, relationships were quite different but have changed completely over the last few years. These days, many people have different mindsets and don’t mind getting involved in casual relationships. However, back in the days, even a basic interaction between a man and woman was quickly considered to be courtship or dating.

We’ve come a long way from the traditional ideas of dating or courtship and have adapted a more open mind. If you live in Tampa, or surrounding areas, you’ve heard that Tampa has a very healthy swinging lifestyle. Tampa swingers have been quite popular over the last few years for their level of excitement, fun and compatibility.

Most people don’t realize that swinging in Tampa and other societies has existed for a very long time. Back in the days, people were just not too open and didn’t want to discuss their personal lives with anyone. Such matters were only discussed indoors or among other couples discreetly.

Since people living in Tampa have become a lot more open in modern times, you will not have any problems in finding swinger clubs, websites, discussion forums and parties to connect with others in the lifestyle. Engaging in a swinging lifestyle can offer numerous benefits to couples.

threesome mffSome Important Points Tampa Swingers Should Consider

Before you plan on entering a swinger relationship or visit a swingers club, there are a few things you need to consider. First of all, you should be absolutely sure about your decision to join the lifestyle. Then you should discuss this decision with your partner. It is very important to understand that a swinging relationship will not be an individual decision because it will affect your partner too. Therefore, you should discuss your feelings with your partner before you enter into a swinging relationship.

Secondly, you also need to consider the kind of people you want to connect with in the lifestyle. Both you and your partner should discuss your desires and what you are hoping to get out of the lifestyle before getting involved. The success of meeting Tampa swingers depends on the kind of bonding you have with other couples. Therefore, you should choose couples that you feel comfortable and safe to be around. This way, you will be able to enjoy the perfect swinger relationship.

There are a lot of ways to connect with other swingers discreetly in Tampa. If you’re new to the lifestyle, you can visit a swinger club, party or access the website for Tampa Swingers. Simply create a free profile and you and your partner can start to connect with others.

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Elf On the Shelf – A Swingers Take

Elf On the Shelf – A Swingers Take


Who hasn’t heard of the “Elf on the Shelf”? If you are like me you may have wondered if there are any adult versions of this naughty little elf. Better yet have you ever thought of him doing things that you would do?

This is Mike Hatcher’s top holiday moments inspired by the “Elf on the Shelf”.

Ever wonder how the Elf would really interact with Barbie? See how the “Elf on the Shelf” is being entertained by Barbie on her stripper pole in the kitchen. Hope everyone enjoys the holiday laughter.

Elf On the Shelf – A Swingers Take


Have you ever recorded your swinging moments? Yes you probably have, and it seems the naughty elf likes doing this as well. Would this be a foursome? Or a moresome?

Looks like a lovely Barbie wife with a unicorn, hey if elves are rare why not get together with the rare and mystical unicorn?

Last and not least is Mike Hatchers favorite, the “Elf on the Shelf” with none other than Justin Timberlake.

For those that have NEVER seen the Justin Timberlake SNL version I highly recommend watching this below, it is extremely hilarious and I promise you will be showing your friends. Be forewarned this video originally on SNL was aired live at Madison square garden and is unedited, no nudity but the video lyrics may be NSFW!!!


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A Closer Look At Ancient Egyptian Orgies

A Closer Look At Ancient Egyptian OrgiesWho would have thought that the “Girls Gone Wild” scenario nowadays – indulging in gratuitous sex with someone whom you met, drinking all night, group sex, and having fun – is no longer a new scene? As a matter of fact, back in 1470 B.C, Egypt men and women would gather together and celebrate an event called, the “festival of drunkenness.” This festival was to honor the warrior goddess Sekhmet. It was dubbed as one of the most raucous rituals in Egypt during that time. This particular event was full of frenzied dancing, drinking, singing, and of course, sexual activities. I think Mike Hatcher is looking for a flux capacitor to put into my Delorean.

A Party Backed By History – To Save Humanity

A Closer Look At Ancient Egyptian OrgiesIt must be noted that the annual festival was not just about having a good time. They celebrated after battle to end the destruction, and stop the wrath of Sekhmet, a war goddess with a lion head. The yearly rite was done as a re-enactment of the myth. It was held every first month of the year. Based on the myth, the lion-headed war goddess almost destroyed all humans. However, Ra, the sun god, tricked her into drinking an ochre-colored beer in huge quantities. Sekhmet thought it was blood. She passed out and was turned into a gentle goddess named Hathor – it signaled that humanity was saved.

Great Scott! What Do Archaeologists Have To Say?

According to archaeologists, they were able to find certain evidence amid the Luxor Temple ruins. Such evidence has led to the theory that the annual festival featured the use of drugs and lavish sexual acts. They were able to point out that the rite was the ancient equivalent of today’s rock ‘n’ roll.

A Closer Look At Ancient Egyptian OrgiesBetsy Bryan of Johns Hopkins University has been leading a team since 2001 at the Temple of Mut in their excavation effort to find out more about Egyptian orgies. She later presented that the said festival was filled with people who would come together and get drunk. She described them as not just socially having fun and getting drunk, but totally passed-out drunk. They were able to discover some inscriptions which could be linked to the drunkenness festival. In addition, the inscriptions were depicting men and women having group sex and in certain positions which could be equated to tut-tutting nowadays. The morning after, musicians would walk around while beating their drums in order to awaken the revelers.

On the other hand, Bryan pointed out that getting drunk was absolutely considered part of the whole festival. However, she remains uncertain if the act of sex should be part of the people’s religious obligation.

This sounds likes swinging or should I say group sex at its best. Don’t forget to share my blog if you like it.


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5 Most Jaw-Dropping Sexual Fetishes

There are many ways in which people achieve their happiness, although Mike Hatcher marches to the beat of a different drum, nothing ever surprises me. While you might have already heard of sexual fetish like feet, there are others that you have probably never heard of. Below are some of the strangest fetishes ever known to man, some dating back as far as pre-civilization. But even as you are left to wonder in amazement, judge not lest you be judged.

Foot Fetishism

Foot fetish refers to sexual attraction to feet, and it does not matter whether the feet are bare or if they are wrapped up in stockings. Foot fetishism manifests itself in several forms, and this may range from simply licking the fit and kissing them to even using the feet to massage the penis. There are people who pay between $100 and $200 just at private spas just so they can lick and worship feet of women.

Objectum Sexualis

This is a kind of sexual fetishes that is most common among women. It is mainly a sexual fetish that women experience towards lifeless objects. According to the documentary titled: Strange Love: The Woman Married to the Eiffel Tower shows the story of real women who find themselves in love with national landmarks, amusement park rides, an archery set, stairway banisters among other inanimate things.


Strangely enough, balloons have also been known to turn some men on. My Strange Addiction, an American treasure, unveils Julius, a 62-year old hunk who, despite being married, has a sexual attachment to balloons but the stranger thing is that his wife is quite unfazed by it. He has accumulated more than 50,000 balloons, which are put in the same bedroom that he shares with his wife.

Teddy Bears

The attraction for teddy bears is considered a branch of furry culture, and is referred to as Ursusagalmatophilia in more technical terms. Some people who are attracted to teddy bears tend to even modify their sexual toys so they can receive better sexual gratification from the toys.

Girls who are unable to start their cars

This may seem very strange but it is true. When girls fail to get a car to start, some men literally have their gears grinding. A possible explanation, as one person commented, is that it could be due to the sputtering engine as the girl bites her lips, or even the fact that her boobs tend to bounce up and down as she begs.

In conclusion, sexual fetishism is something that even celebrities have. Some of them can be traced back to the ancient times like the Roman Empire.


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