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Positive Benefits and Healthy Relationship Aspects of Hotwifing


A hotwife is a woman who has sex with men other than her husband, but with her husband’s knowledge and consent. At a glance, a husband urging his wife to have sex with others would be disastrous for any marriage, no matter how strong, but that’s not the case for couples living a hotwifing lifestyle.

The reasons behind some men being drawn to this type of lifestyle can be complex, but some would say it all boils down to biology and the way they’re made. In other words, they don’t choose their fantasy: their DNA chooses it for them. It’s this factor most women seem to miss when their partner reveals this type of fantasy about themselves.  Which is a shame, because if couples approach it in the right way, then hotwifing can help on a couple’s sexual adventure journey.

Here are three reasons and benefits of a hotwife relationship:

1. Better Communication.

Most couples don’t communicate, not on any deep or meaningful level. But one of the fundamentals of successful hotwifing is talking to each other about one’s deepest darkest desires. Not only do you need to establish the ‘ground rules,’ but for most men, it’s imperative their wives share the explicit details of their sexual encounters. By sticking to these crucial rules, it allow couples to open up more to their partner and communicate more effectively in other matters that affects their relationship.

2. Better Sex for Her

Let’s face it, one of the problems with every relationship is sex tends to get boring and routine over time. We all feel it… but no one wants to talk about it. It’s often the elephant in the room so to speak. However, couples who decide to venture into the hotwife lifestyle can change all that. The wife gets to explore having sex with new or infrequent partners, and get exposed to hot, exciting and adventurous sex. The ‘naughtiness’ of the whole situation only adds to the eroticism, especially if the man is present or listening from the next room.

3. Better Sex for Him

Many women worry when their men bring up the subject of hotwifing that the man is simply doing it as a roundabout way to getting ‘permission’ to sleep with other women. If you are in a secure, loving and trusting relationship, this can open up your world of sexual exploration.  You’ll experience more physical and emotional intimacy, and you’ll end up having better sex, having it more often and being more adventurous when you do.

4. Your wife will bloom.

This is a hard one to explain and describe, but an easy one to spot. Women love to be found attractive; what’s more, they love to be the woman of a strong and confident man. By being a hotwife, she’s getting the best of both worlds; her lovers help to build her self-esteem because they find her attractive and her knowing she is with a strong and confident man who still love and cherishes her makes her feel more alive. You’ll notice how she becomes more aware of herself, more sexually adventurous, and starts to take even more pride in her appearance.

5. Your own self-esteem will skyrocket.

Knowing your wife is wanted and adore by others makes your confidence soar. For one thing, you become even more proud of your wife as she does start to bloom and your feelings of love and devotion for her increase. It’s strange, but even though most hotwives husbands have their wives’ permission to sleep with other women, only a few do. They themselves get to enjoy the best of both world with a partner they can truly be themselves around.


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