Before you jump into a threesome with your partner, learn if threesomes are a good idea for you and your relationship. Many people in relationships get a bit bored with their sex life and start thinking about options to help spice things up. For many people, the idea of a threesome comes to mind.

A lot of people find the idea of being with two people at once very exciting. There is a common misconception that this is something that applies more to men than women, but there are just as many women who find this an exhilarating experience as their male partners.

A lot of people jump into having a threesome with little or no thought of repercussions. There are some positive aspects to inviting a third into your sexual relationship that includes trying something new, getting excited about sex again, and securing the sexual bond between couples.  The process of locating and choosing a play partner is also thrilling then the anticipation for the night of fun to come.  Many relationships are benefited from a night of a good threesome!

There are also some downsides to consider when thinking about having a threesome. While it may seem like a great idea at the moment, the result may be resentment for one or both parties of the couple.  Also, some partners may feel jealous because they perceive that their spouse is giving the new person more attention than they are getting. Another problem can be that one party becomes more emotionally involved with the third person, which can cause a primary partner to feel excluded.

Many relationships never recover after a threesome, so it’s important to have an open and honest communication with your partner, before and after a threeesome play session. There are all kinds of different emotions that can surface as a result of this type of sexual relationship, so stay checking in with your partner to make sure everyone is enjoying the experience.

As you can see, there are some compelling reasons to have a threesome as well as some not so compelling ones. Before jumping in to any out of the box type of relationship, sit down as a couple and discuss whether this is something that you are really capable of dealing with not only on a physical level but an emotional level. You need to set some ground rules for what is and is not acceptable behavior so that both of you can go into it knowing what you are getting into.

After discussing a threesome at length only then should you move forward with having a threesome? If you have any doubts at all, you should hold off until you are sure of your decision.