BDSM lifestyle
A Guide to Being A Submissive in the BDSM Lifestyle
Swingers who are comfortable with participating in the lifestyle sometimes find themselves digging a bit deeper into the kink to explore the BDSM lifestyle. While this type of sex play has been popularized by the 50 Shades of Grey series, there’s a lot more to dom/sub play done off the big screen. Typically, there’s no contract involved and submissives don’t give over full control per se. Let’s explore why subs love what they do and their daddy doms that provide them with both pain and pleasure. A Greater Feeling ofRead More
What Curious Couples Need to Know About BDSM
If you’re curious about what lifestyle couples involved in BDSM relationships are actually doing behind closed doors, we can only dare venture a few ‘guesses.’ However, that curiosity about the BDSM lifestyle is fairly common, as the Kinsey Institute reports that: And they wrap that survey up with a rough estimate that more than 80% of Americans admit to fantasizing about being in BDSM relationships. That being said, let’s explore a few basics to fuel your fantasies. What is BDSM? A loose acronym for play time terms like bondage/discipline, domination/submission,Read More
The BDSM Lifestyle — A Punishing Look at Sadism and Masochism
BDSM…four letters lusciously getting more attention lately. So what exactly does this acronym mean? We’re going to tell you what BDSM couples in the lifestyle predominantly think—particularly about the realms of sadism and masochism—but before delving into the wit and wisdom of those ‘in the know,’ here’s the Webster’s Dictionary’s definition: Masochism: “A term that refers to various forms of play including bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.” For this post, we’ll focus on sadism and masochism, or S/M or S&M as it’s often called. What isRead More
The Art of Blindfold Seduction
The use of a blindfold during intimacy need not involve any type of bondage, nor does it require any physical intercourse necessarily to help one achieve greater heights of pleasure. In fact, the art of blindfold seduction can become a new and exciting part of any type of foreplay or even a regular part of sexual routines. Here is how to introduce your partner to blindfold play. Discuss Blindfolding with Partners First While seduction often entails some elements of surprise, whipping out a blindfold in the middle of the actRead More
The BDSM Lifestyle and Becoming a Submissive
If you are bored with everyday vanilla sex, you may be looking to expand your horizons and take things to a new level. If the thought of being controlled, dominated and told what to do, while also being handcuffed, tied up or whipped appeals to you, being a submissive to a dom or dominatrix may be the spark that lights up your sex life. However, many people have no idea where to start, so here are a few tips to help you. Familiarize Yourself With the Lifestyle and Terminology WhenRead More
How To Become a Dominant in the BDSM Lifestyle
“50 Shades of Grey” has made the BDSM lifestyle more mainstream. As such, more people are exploring their sexuality and coming clean about their kinks and fetishes. If you have always wanted to be a dominant in the BDSM lifestyle, you may wonder what steps you need to take to make this happen. Here are a few of the steps you need to follow to become a dominant in this lifestyle. Determine What Kinks and Fetishes You Want to Explore Before you can become a dominant in the BDSM lifestyle,Read More
Light BDSM for Beginners
Almost every person has some sort of sexual fetish. BDSM is one of the most common, and wild’ sexual fetish you can enjoy with your partner. Most people shy away and don’t realize the tremendous erotic pleasure bondage can bring. If you and your partner are willing to try bondage and restraints, your first consideration needs to be about playing specific roles. If you are the dominating one in the relationship, a role reversal on this special night can be exciting. Restraints A lot of couples want to try BDSM.Read More
BDSM and the St. Andrew’s Cross
If you have kept up with my blogs, you will know that I, Mike Hatcher is a very romantic and religious guy. Which brings me to this exciting blog on bondage. Bondage (BDSM) is a sexual activity in which one party is voluntarily tied down so all parties may gain pleasure from the act. One of the most popular furniture of the BDSM lifestyle is the St. Andrew’s Cross. No, it is not a cross you wear around your neck. It is a piece of furniture that provides a safeRead More