BDSM
A Guide to Being A Submissive in the BDSM Lifestyle
Swingers who are comfortable with participating in the lifestyle sometimes find themselves digging a bit deeper into the kink to explore the BDSM lifestyle. While this type of sex play has been popularized by the 50 Shades of Grey series, there’s a lot more to dom/sub play done off the big screen. Typically, there’s no contract involved and submissives don’t give over full control per se. Let’s explore why subs love what they do and their daddy doms that provide them with both pain and pleasure. A Greater Feeling ofRead More
What Curious Couples Need to Know About BDSM
If you’re curious about what lifestyle couples involved in BDSM relationships are actually doing behind closed doors, we can only dare venture a few ‘guesses.’ However, that curiosity about the BDSM lifestyle is fairly common, as the Kinsey Institute reports that: And they wrap that survey up with a rough estimate that more than 80% of Americans admit to fantasizing about being in BDSM relationships. That being said, let’s explore a few basics to fuel your fantasies. What is BDSM? A loose acronym for play time terms like bondage/discipline, domination/submission,Read More
The BDSM Lifestyle — A Punishing Look at Sadism and Masochism
BDSM…four letters lusciously getting more attention lately. So what exactly does this acronym mean? We’re going to tell you what BDSM couples in the lifestyle predominantly think—particularly about the realms of sadism and masochism—but before delving into the wit and wisdom of those ‘in the know,’ here’s the Webster’s Dictionary’s definition: Masochism: “A term that refers to various forms of play including bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.” For this post, we’ll focus on sadism and masochism, or S/M or S&M as it’s often called. What isRead More
The Art of Blindfold Seduction
The use of a blindfold during intimacy need not involve any type of bondage, nor does it require any physical intercourse necessarily to help one achieve greater heights of pleasure. In fact, the art of blindfold seduction can become a new and exciting part of any type of foreplay or even a regular part of sexual routines. Here is how to introduce your partner to blindfold play. Discuss Blindfolding with Partners First While seduction often entails some elements of surprise, whipping out a blindfold in the middle of the actRead More
Three Reasons to Consider Bringing Bondage to the Bedroom
Most commonly associated as the ‘B’ aspect of BDSM, bondage itself doesn’t necessarily need to include any form of discipline, sadism/submission or masochism. In fact, bondage play can be extremely gentle—or rather rough depending on tastes—and using restraints certainly can have benefits when added to one’s ‘normal’ or swinging bedroom routine. 1. Ditch the Vanilla Lifestyle and Heat Things Up Even those who’ve been in the swingers lifestyle or partner sharing for years may never have experimented with role playing with restraints. Introducing a new level of personal dynamics intoRead More
The BDSM Lifestyle and Becoming a Submissive
If you are bored with everyday vanilla sex, you may be looking to expand your horizons and take things to a new level. If the thought of being controlled, dominated and told what to do, while also being handcuffed, tied up or whipped appeals to you, being a submissive to a dom or dominatrix may be the spark that lights up your sex life. However, many people have no idea where to start, so here are a few tips to help you. Familiarize Yourself With the Lifestyle and Terminology WhenRead More
How To Become a Dominant in the BDSM Lifestyle
“50 Shades of Grey” has made the BDSM lifestyle more mainstream. As such, more people are exploring their sexuality and coming clean about their kinks and fetishes. If you have always wanted to be a dominant in the BDSM lifestyle, you may wonder what steps you need to take to make this happen. Here are a few of the steps you need to follow to become a dominant in this lifestyle. Determine What Kinks and Fetishes You Want to Explore Before you can become a dominant in the BDSM lifestyle,Read More
BDSM Ideas to Spend Time with Your Valentine’s Day Partner
Valentine’s day is right around the corner, and love is in the air. February has always been considered the month of love. Chocolate factories and cupid work overtime this month. On 14th February, you will definitely spend a lot of time with your partner. During this time, many couples want to try something new and exciting. Fulfilling your BDSM fantasies can be a perfect choice. A lot of couples have some deep and exciting fantasies. Most of these are related to submission and dominance. Your sexual fantasies can easily turnRead More
Joy That Swingers Enjoy From Reading Bondage Stories
swingLifeStyle.com Bondage is a form of sexual pleasure where a partner is restrained from making movements by ropes. It is a way of making one of the partners achieve great pleasure while in sex. The act of binding one partner with ropes also make the other feel like he or she has total control over the other. It is an act that has been used in history to show transfer of power in submissive relationships. Before you start the bondage relationship you should know the benefits that people who practiceRead More
How BDSM Is Good For Your Relationship
Are you bored of trying all those silly erotic things that once used to bring excitement in your relationship? Have you tried almost every sex position in the kama sutra? After a few years of a relationship or marriage, sexual life tends to become monotonous. This is the perfect time to include things that seem beyond yor imagination. If you have already seen the trailers for “The Dark Shades of Gray”, then you will surely know what we are aiming at. BDSM is a variety of erotic practices that involvesRead More