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6 Sexy Lifestyle Friends With Benefits (FWB) Rules

Whether you’re in the swingers lifestyle or not, you’ve likely heard about friends with benefits. You’re also certainly familiar with the term ‘fuck buddies’ as you probably have a few of those amid your swinging circles. While they both involve sex, they differ in that swinger lifestyle friends with benefits involve partners involved in a mutual friendship. These are real friends who find each other attractive and take their relationship into the bedroom, but don’t go further than remaining ‘friends’ who have sex. Fuck buddies are simply people you hookRead More
The Swingers Lifestyle Top 3 Sexual Fantasies Explored

Having sexual fantasies is completely normal, and exploring them in ‘real life’ might be intimidating for a first time indulger. Some of the most common desires individuals want to fulfill include sensual massages, threesomes, domination and submission play, outdoor sex and making intimate videos. While there are numerous wild and sane fantasies, we’ll address the top three and offer tips to ensure they are fulfilled as ‘safe fantasies.’ 1. Domination and Submission Fantasies Taking an intimate experience to the next level with a bit of sub/dom play is a sexualRead More
Flip Flopping Swayers: Students of the Swingers Lifestyle

While swinging on a swing set, one propels themselves back and forth across a starting point axis. However, swaying is when one only moves gradually across that same threshold, only to return to the axis point as the motion ceases. The latter is the methodology of individuals known amid the swinging lifestyle as ‘flip-floppers’ or more commonly, ‘swayers.’ Swayers are typically ‘vanilla’ but may dabble with soft swapping types of experiences on special occasions or as they feel the inclination to sway across their normal sexual boundaries for a shortRead More
The Benefits of Partner Swapping with Older Couples

While many newcomers to the swinging lifestyle automatically assume that everyone in the scene is young, nothing could be further from reality. In fact, the swingers lifestyle is enjoyed by adventurous individuals of all ages including seniors! So, while actively seeking out a ‘cougar couple’ to play with may never have crossed your mind, perhaps these benefits of doing so will convince you to expand your horizons between the sheets. Senior Swinger Couples Have Their ‘Act’ Together And by ‘act’ we mean that older couples tend to bring less dramaRead More
Three Ways to Be a Hotwife in and Out of the Bedroom

Most hotwives make satisfying their husband in and out of the bedroom a priority, and there’s no denying that the majority of men enjoy seeing their hotwife exhibit a bit of slut-laden naughtiness every now and then. Here are three clever ways to spice up your slut level to keep your man excited day in and out. 1. Feel Like a Goddess Every Day…Exude Your Awesomeness There are not too many things that a man loves and appreciates more than self-confidence in a woman. When you feel sexy you ARERead More
Positive Effects Of Wife Swapping in a Swingers Relationship

Those considering elevating their relationship to greater heights of pleasure by joining the swingers lifestyle discover ample opportunities for wife swapping. A wife swap situation is where married couples switch partners willingly to engage in sexual enjoyment. These engagements can involve two or more couples and can involve bisexual encounters depending on the openness of the participants involved. Swingers participating in wife swapping get more than just sex from these experiences—there are actually quite a few long term benefits for such couples. 1. Wife Swapping Swingers Develop Deeper Trust ItRead More
5 Tips for Preparing for Your First Swingers Lifestyle Threesome

Whether you’re a seasoned couple looking to finally invite a third party into the boudoir or are a swinging single looking for that first taste of a sultry threesome, there are certain things you should know to prepare for the experience. After all it’s challenging enough to find balance with two people, and threesomes can be omnipresent with imbalances and awkwardness that make getting ‘on the same page’ sexually between three participants. These five tips for first time swingers will help you navigate these delicate waters. 1. Get to KnowRead More
Swinging for Dummies

For those interested in the swinging lifestyle, it’s best to start slowly, learn the etiquette, and pursue things you and your partner enjoy. Here are 10 tips to help you get started. 1. Chat with Your Partner Is this something you both want to explore? Talk about sex acts that interest you both. 2. Agree on Boundaries This is very important, especially as a newbie. Maintaining an open communication about ground rules help maintain trust with your partner. 3. Research Your Interests This is much easier with the internet at your disposalRead More
Are Straight Single Females(Unicorns) Welcome in the Lifestyle?

In the world of Swingers, a unicorn is defined loosely as a single female who is looking to connect with a couple who wants a to add a third-party to their sexual encounters. A unicorn can be straight or bisexual, but the same rule always applies: she must be single, unattached, and is usually temporary. These females are deemed as unicorns because they can be so rare to find, but also because they often only stick around for a brief encounter and then disappear. Are these almost mythical ladies welcomeRead More
Why is the Swingers Lifestyle so Popular?

As more couples come forward and speak about the benefits of a swinging lifestyle, the practice is seeing drastic drops within the public’s opinion that swinging is a ‘deviant’ behavior. Progressive social attitudes has also caused an increased interest in swinging, and here are some benefits of the lifestyle that makes it so popular. Diversity Increases Desire and Commitment It’s no secret that sex can become a bit stale and mundane between even playful and experimental couples in long-term relationships. Partner swapping sidesteps monotony and has a tendency to rampRead More