Do you want to Have A Threesome With Your Girlfriend? Learn The 3 Factors For Success! Three people having sex covers a wide variety of situations including two individuals having sex with the third having more of a voyeur role. A threesome does not mean that all three participants have to sleep with the other two partners.

1. Vibe

To have a snowball’s chance in hell at having a threesome with your girlfriend, you must set a good sexual vibe with your woman. If you are sexually conservative with her, asking her for a threesome out of the blue will be a stretch.

Set the tone of sexual adventure from the start. Make love to her in the ways that she secretly fantasizes about. Ravage her. Explore her sexually, and let her know that your sexual relationship is based on exploration and adventure.

Start small, and build it up, so that when you ask for a threesome, it will seem consistent with the nature of your sexual relationship.

If you aren’t comfortable doing these things, then you probably don’t have the vibe necessary for her to agree to a threesome:

– Dirty talk – Comfortable with the occasionally biting, spanking, hair pull and other signs of dominance in bed – Variety and unpredictability – Already excellent at pleasing her sexually.

While the above list is not super necessary, they are telltale signs of the one factor that is — sexual confidence. You must be very sexually confident. If you have that confidence with her, asking for a threesome is easy. If you are even a little insecure about yourself in bed, then perhaps you should put the threesome request on hold until you handle your sexual insecurity.

2. Rules
This is why clear rules about the threesome are necessary. Here are some of the rules I have.

My girlfriend is the first woman, and the another girl is a secondary playmate. There is no confusing that. We must both think she is hot. We both have the right to say no at any time, no questions asked.

3. Lead

When it comes to relationships, the woman expects the man to be the one who risks rejection at all times. This is no exception. This means that you have to get naked first. You have to make the moves first. You have to lead the two women through the experience. Tell them what to do next.

This is similar to having a good vibe. The vibe in the relationship should be, “I, your boyfriend, lead you through amazing sexual exploration and growth.” If you’ve established the vibe correctly, you may not even have to ask her for a threesome; you can just tell her.

The second girl will also be looking to you for leadership. She won’t just jump on you. Here’s a tip: whatever you want the second girl to do, do to your girlfriend first, then do to her, then make the two girls do.

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