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Threesomes A Good Idea Or Not?

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Before you jump into a threesome learn if threesomes are a good idea or not! Many people in relationships get a bit bored with their sex life and start thinking about options to spice it up. For many people, the idea of a threesome comes to mind. A lot of people find the idea of being with two people at once very exciting.

There is a common thought out there that says that this is something that applies to men more than women, but there are just as many women who find this an exhilarating idea as there are men. The result is that couples often choose to have a threesome.

Many people jump into having a threesome with little or no thought about the repercussions. There are some good things about a threesome, and that is often what is considered. The positive aspects are that you get to try something new, you’ll be excited about sex, and this will carry over to sex between the two of you.

Sometimes there is also the thrill of choosing someone that you will have a threesome with, and then asking them and having them agree to the night of fun! When you consider all this, why wouldn’t you have a threesome? Many relationships are benefited after a threesome!

There are some downsides to having a threesome as well. While it may seem like a great idea at the moment, the result may be resentment on the part of one or both people. Also, a lot of people feel a lot of jealousy because they perceive that their spouse is giving the new person more attention than they are giving them.

Another problem can be that one party becomes emotionally involved with the third person, to the exclusion of their partner. Many relationships never recover after a threesome because there are all kinds of different emotions that surface as a result of the relationship.

As you can see, there are some compelling reasons to have a threesome as well as why you should not have a threesome. You need to sit down as a couple and as an individual and consider whether this is something that you are really capable of dealing with not only on a physical level but an emotional level.

You need to set some ground rules for what is and is not acceptable behavior so that both of you can go into it knowing what you are getting into. After discussing a threesome at length only then should you move forward with having a threesome? If you have any doubts at all, you should hold off until you are sure of your decision.
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