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Flip Flopping Swayers: Students of the Swingers Lifestyle
While swinging on a swing set, one propels themselves back and forth across a starting point axis. However, swaying is when one only moves gradually across that same threshold, only to return to the axis point as the motion ceases. The latter is the methodology of individuals known amid the swinging lifestyle as ‘flip-floppers’ or more commonly, ‘swayers.’ Swayers are typically ‘vanilla’ but may dabble with soft swapping types of experiences on special occasions or as they feel the inclination to sway across their normal sexual boundaries for a shortRead More
How to Keep Jealousy out of a Swingers Relationship
Life has been on the upswing for you since beginning your swingers’ relationship with your partner or spouse…well, until lately. The two of you have made friends with other swingers. You meet up with this couple every now and again, and you can’t help but notice your partner has chemistry with one of them. Now you find yourself overanalyzing every little interaction between them, sexual or not. What do you do in such a situation? In this article, we’ll give you some tips and pointers for keeping jealousy out ofRead More
The Benefits of Partner Swapping with Older Couples
While many newcomers to the swinging lifestyle automatically assume that everyone in the scene is young, nothing could be further from reality. In fact, the swingers lifestyle is enjoyed by adventurous individuals of all ages including seniors! So, while actively seeking out a ‘cougar couple’ to play with may never have crossed your mind, perhaps these benefits of doing so will convince you to expand your horizons between the sheets. Senior Swinger Couples Have Their ‘Act’ Together And by ‘act’ we mean that older couples tend to bring less dramaRead More
Same Room vs Separate Room When Couple Swapping
Along with threesomes, couple swapping is often a key component of relationships for those involved in the swinging lifestyle. However, there is always an underlying question that arises with each encounter: Should couples enjoy the action in the same room, or should they head to separate rooms? In short, the answer depends on the participant’s preferences. Let’s get under the sheets a bit in both scenarios and explore the differences between both experiences. Swinging with Partners in the Same Room Many couples enter the swinging lifestyle because they get turnedRead More
5 Tips for Preparing for Your First Swingers Lifestyle Threesome
Whether you’re a seasoned couple looking to finally invite a third party into the boudoir or are a swinging single looking for that first taste of a sultry threesome, there are certain things you should know to prepare for the experience. After all it’s challenging enough to find balance with two people, and threesomes can be omnipresent with imbalances and awkwardness that make getting ‘on the same page’ sexually between three participants. These five tips for first time swingers will help you navigate these delicate waters. 1. Get to KnowRead More
How Swingers Date in a Vanilla World
Despite more recognition, swinging is still far from being a mainstream activity. Luckily, the internet has made finding partners and clubs easier than ever. For swingers living in a vanilla world, these are the top ways people date and enjoy the lifestyle without worries! Online Hookups The internet provides the quickest and easiest way of meeting new partners or finding new clubs, but some cities are more active than others. Major cities and metro areas are likely to be filled with countless swinger profiles and ads, while rural areas lackRead More
Why is the Swingers Lifestyle so Popular?
As more couples come forward and speak about the benefits of a swinging lifestyle, the practice is seeing drastic drops within the public’s opinion that swinging is a ‘deviant’ behavior. Progressive social attitudes has also caused an increased interest in swinging, and here are some benefits of the lifestyle that makes it so popular. Diversity Increases Desire and Commitment It’s no secret that sex can become a bit stale and mundane between even playful and experimental couples in long-term relationships. Partner swapping sidesteps monotony and has a tendency to rampRead More
The Benefits of Lifestyle Sites Like SLS
SwingLifeStyle is an online community that allows people of the lifestyle to connect with others in a safe and secure environment. It is also a great place to find compatible partners for you to explore your sexuality. If you are active in the lifestyle and looking for an alternative relationship, Then SwingLifeStyle is the site for you. They are currently the number one lifestyle website in the US and offer a user-friendly website with a high success rate and features that facilitate those looking for sexual adventures. If you areRead More
Setting Lifestyle Rules & Boundaries
Being successful in the Swinglifestyle requires a loving and trusting relationship with your partner and peers. Communication is also key and plays a vital role. In addition, many lifestyle couples and singles have set rules and boundaries that are integral to their swinging prosperity. If you haven’t done so already this year, now is a great time for everyone to review their own personal guidelines or begin scripting new ones. Creating rules and guidelines allows everyone to be on the same page while enjoying the lifestyle. Here are a fewRead More
Getting Your Partner Interested in the Swingers LifeStyle
There are many people in a marriage or relationship who would love to try the swinger’s lifestyle, or who are at least curious to find out more information about it. However, there is often a snag – their spouse or partner isn’t that keen on joining the lifestyle. In fact, they may be horrified by the thought of seeing their partner being involved sexually with someone else. If this is the situation you find yourself in, don’t despair. There are many couples happily involved in the swinging lifestyle that startedRead More