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Considering Swinging? Explore Commonly Asked Questions for Newbies

Entering into the world of swinging certainly brings about a number of questions that curious couples want to know. Because communication is key—especially for lifestyle newbies—we’ve compiled some of the most common questions asked by those considering the swinger scene. Q: How do vanilla couples first bring up the conversation about being swingers? A: In general, those who ultimately become swinger couples have had an interest in exploring the scene before the conversation even begins. However, one partner tends to bring up the topic in a loving and honest way.Read More


What Curious Couples Need to Know About BDSM

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If you’re curious about what lifestyle couples involved in BDSM relationships are actually doing behind closed doors, we can only dare venture a few ‘guesses.’ However, that curiosity about the BDSM lifestyle is fairly common, as the Kinsey Institute reports that: And they wrap that survey up with a rough estimate that more than 80% of Americans admit to fantasizing about being in BDSM relationships. That being said, let’s explore a few basics to fuel your fantasies. What is BDSM? A loose acronym for play time terms like bondage/discipline, domination/submission,Read More


Some Easy Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Some Easy Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

In modern, busy lives, many relationships get spoiled because a person is unable to please his/her partner in bed. Sexuality is one of the most mysterious and hidden subjects among couples. Thus, you need to make some sincere efforts to spice up your sex life. For most couples, it may seem confusing and complicated, but here are a effective tips on how you can reignite the fire, and increase the heat in your bedroom. These tips will help you enjoy an exceptional sex life. Bring Back the Romance Before youRead More


6 Important Benefits of Watching Porn as a Couple

6 Important Benefits of Watching Porn as a Couple

There is nothing wrong with watching porn alone or as a couple. In many societies, porn is viewed as a taboo however if you take a closer look at the reasons behind this, you will realize that there is nothing wrong about porn especially if you are watching it with your partner. In fact, there are very many benefits derived from watching porn as a couple. If you are interested in discovering these benefits to make your sexual experiences with your partner more pleasurable, below are 6 important benefits ofRead More


Why Should You Become A Swinger?

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Seriously, why should you join the lifestyle, or better yet, why not join the lifestyle? Back in 2009 there was a survey conducted and found that supposedly 8 million couples are closet swingers. This means swingers close lipped about their lifestyle. What’s more interesting is that there is allegedly 4 million that are open about the lifestyle. If you do the math that is nearly 12 million couples that practice non monogamous sex. People automatically think that if swingers live the lifestyle something has to be wrong with their relationship.Read More


Swingers Attraction

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Lets face it, several swingers have their own taboo whether you call it an attraction or an instinctive desire that turns you on. Mike Hatcher did some surveys and found out some of the top turn on’s for swinger couples. Below listed in no order are Top Swinger turn on’s. Body Piercing/Tattoo This particular turn on is not at the top of all age ranges, but the piercing’s and tattoos are a turn on for the under 40 swinger crowd or Generation X swingers. The piercing’s that turn one onRead More


Newlywed Swingers Or A Swingers Wedding?

Some swingers have been in the lifestyle many years, some have only just begun to experience what the lifestyle is about. Recently I have received some emails asking me if people need to be married to be called swingers. This answer is a definite no, some people are life partners, some are boyfriend and girlfriend and some are just engaged. In the lifestyle you will come across several different types of people with several different types of relationships. Although swingers are usually thought of as swapping partners, there is soRead More


Unicorns And Swinger Tips

A couple of people (newbies) emailed me recently and asked what a unicorn is in the swinging community. I thought this would be a good time to introduce what a unicorn is and tips for the unicorn in the lifestyle. First off a unicorn is a single swinging female, yes you heard it correctly a single swinging woman. Although these women are rare, they are NOT hard to find. Yes they are not hard to find. First up, the benefits of being a single swinging woman in the lifestyle areRead More


Swinger Clubs And How To Choose One

I have received several emails form newbies and from veterans who wanted me to dabble in this subject of swinger clubs.  Let me first explain that before you join or look for a swinger club you need to be sure you want to experience the lifestyle as a couple. Find a local swingers club. For newbies I recommend going over rules together, this is a must. for example both of you are in this together and both need to openly discuss what is or what is not OK to do.Read More