Top 5 Places to Have Outdoor Sex

Good ole Mike Hatcher thinks sex in a risky place is hot. Even the idea of getting caught might be a turn on to some, but even if you have tolerance for risks, you can’t possibly want to be caught and spend time behind bars for lewd conduct. Having sex in public can be very tempting and satisfying. In this post, you will learn some of the beTop 5 Places to Have Sex Outdoorst places to have sex outdoors without having to worry about being caught. Takes notes my friends.

1). In the car

A survey conducted by Cosmos revealed that over 80% of men fantasized about having sex in a car. The best way to not get caught is to Identify an abandoned lot, and take your car there either after midnight or just before the sunset. At this time, most folks won’t be outside and because of the limited space, the best position would be ‘girl on top.’

2). At the park

Having sex at the park is great. While it is just as sexy as you doing it in the wild, the risk of having your back stung by an insect or any other animal is not there. Choose a shady spot that is concealed from view and enjoy the ride.

3). Fitting room

Top 5 Places to Have Sex OutdoorFitting rooms don’t have cameras inside them! The best idea is to go to a larger departmental store as they don’t always have an attendant standing by. Timing is also important. Go when the shop is just being opened as there is every likelihood that it won’t be crowded.

4). Old-school Elevator

Now this may be a challenge, but still exciting.  The right elevators would be those with a sliding gate. Usually, they do not contain any cameras, and also, when inside, you are the one to open for anyone to be able to get in. Ride the elevator up and down, and even if anyone rings for it, do not open.

5). In the movies

This is better done at the back of movie theater screen, and on the steps. Even if you never get to watch the movie, you wouldn’t have spent too much on it. This is another reason I like to go to horrible movies, even the discount movies that play old movies that no one goes too.

These creative suggestions of where to have sex in public makes sex all the more exciting. Live your fantasies and as you have your man rock you at one of these sexy and hilarious places. These places are the perfect ones to have risky sex without getting caught!

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10 Positions Men Absolutely Love

Sex is one of the most important activities in the life of any individual. The ultimate form of pleasure is derived from sex. Good sex makes a man happy and keeps him satisfied. The positioning of the male and female partner during sex is important because a good position during the sexual activity leads to wonderful sex that is enjoyed by both partners. Some of the sex positions men love is discussed as follows:

10 Positions Men Absolutely Love1. The doggy style position:

In this type, the female is on her fours, mimicking the dogs while the man can carry on the sex act from behind. Men who love porn and like watching love this position.  It is also widely used in porn. Several other pleasure causing activities like licking, biting and a few others can be carried out during this sex act doggy style.

2. The woman on top position:

This position is also known as the cowgirl position. It allows the man to lie back while the woman does all the work to please her man during the sexual activity. Men love this position because all the sexual pleasure is derived without much exercise and they get to enjoy the sight of the female body. Deep penetration is also facilitated by this position, so men really enjoy this position during intercourse.

10 Positions Men Absolutely Love3. The lotus position:

One of the most important sex positions men love also includes the lotus position. This involves the man sitting cross legged position on a couch, bed or anywhere else that allows him to lean against any wall. This helps with better support. The female gets to dominate the sexual activity by circling her legs around the waist of the man.

4. The man on top position:

The more dominant man always loves to be on top, so that all the sexual activities are carried out by his hands. The entire act of arousing orgasm to the final sexual activity is carried on by men who prefer to be on top and play with the female body as he pleases. It is also a position that help burns a lot of calories.

10 Positions Men Absolutely Love5. The 69 position:

The 69 position is an all time classic of sex positions. This makes the men go down on the women while the women can indulge in wild sex and body activities. Both are experiencing pleasure at the same time and it helps in burning calories of both partners in equal amount.

6. The spoons sex position:

This position involves both partners lying on their side with knees bent. It got its name because it makes the partners look like two spoons kept together side by side. It is considered one of the most important sex positions because of the cuddling involved. The sentimental man or partners in love tend to prefer this position.

10 Positions Men Absolutely Love7. The stand up sex position:

Men who like experimenting generally prefer sex in the standing up position. This position involves pining the female against a wall or some object to get a better hold. The suddenness and newness of this position makes it enjoyable for both the male and the female.

8. The leg up position:

The woman put her leg up in a position where the leg forms a ninety degree angle with the body. The man enters the woman while allowing his chest as support below the knee of the woman. This position is extremely desirable by men who like innovative sex positions.

9. The reverse cowgirl position:

This is desired by shy men or men who do not like to make eye contact during sex. The woman is on top but in a reversed position that allows the man access to grab her breasts from behind during sexual intercourse.

10. The lap dance position:

This is where a man sits on a chair while the woman goes all over him. The orgasm levels increase in this position because the man can roll his hands all over the woman’s body.   The aggressive man loves this lap dance position because he is able to pull, rub and lick this woman easily in this position.

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SLS Exchange – A Night You Will Never Forget

SLS Exchange - A Night You Will Never ForgetSwingLifestyle’s SLS Exchange has been the talk of town recently ever since the successful launch of Vegas Exchange. In fact, it has grown into the most popular swinger party the lifestyle has seen in a very long time. According to people who have attended SLS parties before, this is going to be one of the best swingers’ parties to be organized in South Florida.

SLS Exchange: Hot Luau Night is going to be one of the most entertaining parties you would ever attend. has a reputation of delivering the best lifestyle parties and we keep our promises. We have never disappointed any clients or customers, so you can be assured of the fun and entertainment that’s in store for you at SLS Exchange.

An Overview of SLS Exchange

SLS Exchange - A Night You Will Never ForgetAs mentioned earlier, SLS Exchange is being organized by It is a special production by the reputed and one of the most popular swinger websites on the net. This hotel party has been named SLS Exchange: Hot Luau Night’. If you want to spend time with other swing couples? This is the place to be.

SLS Exchange will be held at the Crowne Plaza Hollywood Beach, Florida on October 5, 2013. The theme is a Hawaiian Luau,  so come dressed to get Lei’d! Ladies put on your grass skirts and gentlemen get out your Hawaiian shirt and come rock out Luau style.  Moreover, don’t leave your bathing suits at home.  You don’t want to miss out on the poolside fun.

Once you’re in the Crowne Plaza, you will be completely mesmerized by this upscale resort.

  • Over-sized Guest Rooms
  • Balconies in Every Room
  • Luxurious Infinity Pool
  • Views Overlooking the Intracoastal Waterway and Atlantic Ocean
  • Pool Side Lava Tiki Bar
  • In Room Spa Treatments Available
  • Prime Access to the Beach

This is your chance to stay in one of the best hotels in Florida. The extravagant and luxurious atmosphere at the hotel will win your heart instantly. SLS Exchange: Hot Luau Night will be a memorable experience and you will remember it for a lifetime.

SLS Exchange - A Night You Will Never ForgetMove on and off the dance floor to the sounds of DJ Legacy.  Have a drink at our fully stocked cash bar or enjoy the prizes and surprises in store for you at the poolside party.  There will be contests, raffles, prizes and so much more.  You will have an opportunity to win some excellent rewards, just make sure you arrive in time and make the most of this gala event.

Nudity or sexy’ play is not permitted at the pool or in the ballroom. But don’t worry, we have this covered.  We have booked 2 On-premises Play Suites’ for you that will be open at 11 PM. Make sure to keep you wristband from the swinger party,  You’ll need it to enter the play suites.


If you arrive at the party before 11 PM, you will be able to get the passes at discounted prices :

  • $25 per couple
  • $5 per single female

After 11 PM :

  • $35 per couple
  • $15 per single female

Don’t waste time; there are limited rooms available and they are filling up fast!   There’s a special treat in store for the first 20 couples, so BOOK NOW or contact the Crowne Plaza, Hollywood Beach at (954) 454-4334. Ask For Lourdes and mention code “SLS-Luau“.

To get more information about this or other SLS Exchange Events, contact Emily or Victor at the SLS “ClubCoordinator” profile.


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Swinger Parties and Their Benefits on Relationships

Swinger Parties and Their Benefits on RelationshipsIf you are in love and in a stable relationship, maybe its time to discover some new and exciting; maybe it is time to try swinging. Many couples are not comfortable being intimate in the presence of other couples, but this could end up being one of the most pleasurable and funniest experiences with your partner. Attending a swinger party will not only help you improve the relationship you have with your partner; it will offer you the chance to learn many interesting things. The swinging lifestyle is dedicated to all those couples who enjoy themselves because swinging is fun and exciting. Why funny? Because I am extremely open, I am the type of guy that says “do you mind if I make myself at home?” and when you answer “Yes” I would drop my drawers and sit on the couch and grab your remote. Anyway moving right along.

Why Attending Swinging Parties is Fun

There are numerous reasons why couples choose to become swingers. This does not mean that their relationship doesn’t work. Swinging offers them a chance to “share” one another without hiding it. Although the word “share” is not considered a bad word in a swingers vocabulary because they know of and approve it. Some may ask then how is “sharing” different from “cheating”. Note – cheating is when you do it behind your partners back without their knowledge and this act is frowned upon by swingers. The lifestyle is about couples experiencing things together.

Swinger Parties and Their Benefits on RelationshipsOpen-minded couples do not mind seeing each other in such moments of intimacy. However, swinging has nothing to deal with intimacy. Those parties that are held in specialized clubs offer unforgettable moments to couples who are looking for new adventures. Swinger’s parties are a great way for you and your partner to connect with people in the lifestyle with different personalities and styles. There will always be a mystery about what goes on inside a swinger club. You will never know what to expect. You’ll get to see couples flirting, dancing and having fun. The hot action always takes place in separate rooms mostly away from the socializing. In most cases, swinger clubs offer couples the chance to indulge in their fantasies, BDSM, voyeurism, sexual toys; you name it, a swinger club is a place to make your most erotic fantasies a reality. This is the kind of place where you’re allowed to do whatever you want that are within the rules of course. No Always Means No.

Attending a swinger’s event is a great place to network and meet new people. Swingers tend to me open-minded and they adore making new friends. It would also be a great tool for couples who are bored of their routine sex life. Swinging could add some sugar and spice to your relationship. You will get the chance to discover new things about yourself as well as your partner’s hidden desires. If you and your partner are ready to attend such a party then you can be 100% sure that it will end up being more fun than you ever expected. Just make sure that you and your lover are on the same page, otherwise, you risk destroying the relationship you have with your partner.

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SwingLifestyle Launches Mobile Phone Application

SwingLifestyle Launches Mobile Phone Application

Mike Hatcher has breaking news on the SwingLifeStyle (SLS) Swinger Application……

The mobile phone application market has sky-rocketed over the past several years and one of the latest additions is an official Swingers App for (SLS).  The application is very user friendly and easily accessible from an Apple or Android smartphone or tablet.  The app was designed for swinger couples, single women and single men interested in connecting with other open-minded people in the lifestyle.  The SLS Mobile App is now available at the Apple Store, Amazon Marketplace or Google Play!

There are other lifestyle applications in the market, but the SLS Mobile App is by far the best option for swingers dating.  In addition to being versatile and easy to use, the mobile application is completely FREE.  You can have SLS at your fingertips within minutes.

Simply access the Apple Store, Amazon Marketplace or Google Play from your smart-phone or tablet. Do a search for SwingLifeStyle or SLS to locate the swingers application. Click download to install the app and then log in with your SLS member-name and password. Don’t have an account with SLS?  Not a problem, create a free profile today!

You can also download the app by accessing one of the following links from your smart-phone or tablet.

The application itself is simple and straightforward, so users do not need to worry about clutter or getting lost among the features. It is designed not only for couples, but also for single men and single women who want to spice things up in their bedroom. No matter if you are straight, bisexual or curious about the lifestyle; the SLS Mobile App will have something for you.

Take a closer look at some of the features the application has to offer:

  • Who’s Online (Near You)
  • Quick Search
  • Hot Dates (Near You)
  • Events (Near You)
  • Friends
  • Mail
  • Upload pics and so much more….

For more information on the SLS Mobile App, please email us at or visit the SLS Mobile App Forum.

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Top Swinger Clubs In Texas

There are many swinger clubs in Texas where you can go and to experience the climax of your fantasy. Swinger clubs are a safe environment where lifestyle couples can gather to get intimate.  Some clubs are on premise, which means that they allow sexual intercourse on site, while others are off premise club where couples take the play back to a hotel nearby.  You may attend as a single woman, otherwise known as a unicorn, which has the option of playing with men as well as couples.  Couples in attendance may choose to do a soft or full swap with other couples and single men are invited to play only by invitation.  With that in mind, Mike Hatcher has compiled a list of his favorite swinger clubs in Texas.

The following is a list of the top Texas Swinger Clubs.

Top Swinger Clubs In Texas - Velvet Curtain



1. Velvet Curtain

This is a club where you can enjoy your time with your partner in case you are free from Wednesday to Saturday.  If you are interested in becoming a member, you can sign up for free online, and they will email you newsletters to keep you up to date on their upcoming events.  There are a lot of facilities available that will make your time worthwhile in the club. This is one or Mike’s top picks for fun.

Top Swinger Clubs In Texas - Colette




2. Colette

Colette is among the best swinger clubs that you can decide to attend.  The club is open from Wednesday to Sundays and they allow single men, single women and couples to attend during different days of the week.  There are some days where ladies are allowed to attend free of charge. As a single lady you can take advantage of those days and have some fun in the club. Some clubs do not allow single men but Colette accepts a single man on most of the days. This is a great opportunity for you as a single man to interact with single ladies and lifestyle couples.

Top Swinger Clubs In Texas - The Friends Club



3. The Friends Club

The Friends Club is open on Friday and Saturdays, but members are required to pay a small membership fee.   For you to attend the club, you will have to go through a small screening process which is done to ensure the safety of other members. It is a club where you can go on the weekends to meet between the ages of 30 to 40 and share different experiences. It is a BYOB establishment so in case you like alcohol you can bring your own to the club with you.

The Friends Club - The OT Retreat



4.  The OT Retreat

This is a club that you can enjoy with your partner or as a single lady at anytime from Friday to Sunday.   This club is somewhat like a retreat with a large enough facility to accommodate its members. At this club, you are able to experience new fantasies, learn and experience different nudist lifestyles as well as enjoy the sun while you experience the multitude of sexual pleasures that are available to you.   As a single lady, you can easily find someone to spend your time with while satisfying your sexual desires on this secluded paradise.

There are many more clubs in the lone star state you can visit to live out your most erotic fantasies.  Click here for the complete list: Texas Swinger Clubs


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Reasons for Visiting a Swingers Club

Swingers Guide - Reasons for Visiting a Swingers Club   I remember my first visit to a swingers club.  It was like a rite of passage; a man growing facial hair or going through puberty. A swinger club is something every man and woman should experience at least once in their lifetime. For many people, the decision to join the lifestyle is a big one. In fact, there are many things about the lifestyle that you may need to consider.

One of the most important considerations is the way in which you go about finding other swinger couples. Couples and single ladies, other wise known as unicorns, tend to benefit  the most from the lifestyle.  It is a couples experience and most single men find it a little more difficult fitting into the swing lifestyle.  These days, you can meet swingers online through swingers dating websites or through advertisements. Swinger’s websites and ads allow people to connect with real swinging couples and provide information on clubs in your area.

Some couples try and make an effort to reach out to other open minded they know, inviting them into  the lifestyle. This however can be risky. If they are not up to the idea, this may cause a strain on your relationship or you could end up loosing a friend.   Some couples may not be interested or may even be jealous with the idea of sharing their lover.  Therefore, you need to look for a place where you can easily meet and interact with other couples of the swinging lifestyle. Thus, a swinger’s club will be your best choice.

Why Should You Visit A Swingers Club

Swingers Guide - Reasons for Visiting a Swingers Club   Swing clubs provide a safe environment for couples who want to embrace the lifestyle.  It allows you the opportunity to connect with other like minded individuals.  Being with other swinger couples will put your mind at ease and more willing explore your desires.   Many popular clubs thoroughly screen their members, so be ready to go through an application process.  In order to ensure safety, clubs have strict rules and guidelines that should be adhere to at all times.  Some rules even ensure that you feel comfortable enough with swinging to experience it at your own pace.

There are many clubs which cater to new members of the lifestyle.  The atmosphere is friendly and welcoming to new members and club owners tend to go above and beyond to make you feel welcome.  The owners will normally give you on a tour of the premises; introduce you to the staff as well as other members of the club.  In fact, some clubs go as far as organizing a Q & A sessions for first-timers to answer any concerns they may have. This way, you are able to understand every aspect of the swinger lifestyle before being a part of it.

Swingers club promotes safe swinging by promoting safe sex practices. In fact, most clubs provide members with free protection, like condoms, for men and women.  In case you and your partner have been interested in experimenting or spicing up your sex life, you can skip the advertisements and online websites and just visit a local swingers club.  The experience will be the best time of your life!

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Subliminal Sex Messages

Looking back at my childhood growing up in the 80’s I couldn’t help but reflect back on the commercials that shaped my warped mind. Now to get a little bit intellectual, our senses are constantly being bombarded by enormous amounts of information and only a small part of it reaches our consciousness. The fact is our subconscious mind absorbs it all.

Subliminal Sex Messages I remember growing up and wondering why all the chicks in college that ate skittles wanted to have sex all the time, I didn’t know nor did I care, I would simply drop by the candy store and buy a rainblow of flavor lol. Maybe this ad depicts why they acted the way they did.

I remember when I would float the rive during summer time break in college, I remember it vividly because all the women drinking beer and getting tipsy were just annoying, but I Subliminal Sex Messagesfound out that women that were drinking Coke, would miraculously want to perform oral sex. I never understood why until I cam across an old advertisement, ever hear the expression a picture is worth a thousand words? In this pic it looks like a woman performing oral sex. As I write this blog I can’t help but write down that I need to buy some Coke after work.

Last but not least, my favorite subliminal commercial was in the 80’s, a product called Juicy Fruit. It has nothing to do with skiing nor does the advertisement match the gum.

You have to watch and listen and share this commercial. Listen……Take a sniff……pull it out…….the taste is gonna move you when you pop it in your mouth…Ok Ever since I saw that I have always brought a pack of Juicy Fruit when I ski or Snowboard, hoping one day that when I pull it out, the taste will move someone.


I hope you enjoyed my blog on subliminal sex messages in advertisements and commercials, and remind everyone to go get some Skittles, Coke, and Juicy Fruit.

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Top Aphrodisiac Herbs For Women

Top Aphrodisiac Herbs For WomenAn aphrodisiac can be defined as a drink, food or drug that is capable of stimulating sexual desire. There are very many types of aphrodisiacs for both men and women. In this article, we discuss the most popular aphrodisiac herbs for women based on factors such as effectiveness and safety. Aphrodisiac herbs are more popular in society today because they are safer.

Aphrodisiac herbs are consumed in their natural form. They are therefore free of preservatives and chemical additives which are responsible for causing very many lifestyle diseases in our society today. Herbal aphrodisiacs have also been proven to be more effective. Below is a list of the top aphrodisiac herbs for women approved my none other than Mike Hatcher himself.

1. Catuaba

Erythroxylum catuaba popularly known as catuaba is one of the top aphrodisiac herbs for women. The aphrodisiac originated from Brazil. Catuaba works by fortifying and relieving fatigue as well as increasing strength and stimulating the nervous system. Catuaba is also known to fight bacteria and viruses resulting in a healthier reproductive system. Some of the chemical constituents present in catuaba include; tannins, alkaloids, fatty resins, aromatic oils, phytosterols, flavonoids, cyclolignans and sequiterpenes.

2. Clavo huasca

Tynanthus panurensis popularly known as Clavo huasca is another top aphrodisiac herb for women. The herb originates from South America (Amazon forest) and is used to treat sexual dysfunction as well as stimulate libido in both men and women. The herb is however commonly used for increasing libido and stimulating sex in pre-menopausal women. Clavo huasca is usually administered as a decoction (a tea is made by boiling the herb). It is however important to note that Clavo huasca can also be taken as a wine.

3. Damiana

Turnera diffusa or Damiana is also a top aphrodisiac herb for women. The aphrodisiac’s origin can be traced back to Central America, South America and West Indies. The Damiana leaves are used to prepare a drink which is taken before sex to enhance love making. Damiana is popular and effective among women because of the way the aphrodisiac works i.e. it treats the emotional aspect of sexual dysfunction i.e. anxiety or depression that prevents many women from enjoying sex.

4. Ginkgo

Ginkgo Biloba popularly known as Ginkgo is a popular herb in our society today. As a herb, Ginkgo is used to boost the brain and offer tonic benefits to seniors. As a herbal aphrodisiac for women, Ginkgo is used to increase and boost blood circulation. This in turn increases chances of vaginal arousal.


The above aphrodisiac herbs for women are among the most popular in our society today. It is however important to note that there are many other aphrodisiac herbs for women. For more information on aphrodisiacs for women to help with sexual problems, menstrual and other health problems, visit

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How To Find A Swingers Club

You may not be able to easily spot or find a swingers club walking around on the street (even though they are there).  Luckily for you, it is easy to find a swingers club in your area on the Internet.  Here are a few different ways to find a nearby club.

SwingLifeStyle Logo1.  Go to

One of the best ways to connect with the swinger community and find a swingers club is by visiting This is a growing website with almost 7,000 swingers’ online daily and over 12,000 groups to check out.  In addition, there are over 200 chat rooms for you to access, talk to other swingers and discover where the best kept secrets are in your neighborhood.

Sign up is easy and free. You do have to give an email address, but you don’t have to give your real name, this helps to maintain your privacy.  Inside, you can connect with other local swingers in your areas, find out information about clubs by location and other swinger events, vacation at lifestyle resorts and cruises as well the latest happenings on what’s going on the in the swinging lifestyle.  In short, this website has all the information you need to find what you are looking for.

Google It 2. Google It

Thankfully Google doesn’t consider a swingers club taboo.  If you type in ‘swingers club (your location)’, then you will find the swingers club nearest you along with articles and news about swingers that Google sees fit to share. However, you will not get all the information about the clubs nearest you because not all of them will be listed on Google due to banned words or just not getting the search engines attention, this is may be limited.  Access a full list of swingers club in your area.

Yelp Logo 3. Go To Yelp

Yelp is a great resource for finding and getting reviews about local businesses.  When you get to Yelp,com,  type in swinger clubs in the ‘find’ section and your location in the ‘near’ section to pull up a list of clubs.  Not all clubs will be listed on Yelp, but you may find one that interests you and get to read some pretty good reviews about it too. Reviews will be very honest on the site and let you know whether to steer clear of the club or run like wildfire towards it.

Swingers Board4. Go To

If you are just looking for the locations, and don’t necessarily want all the up-to-date information and interaction that Swing Lifestyle gives you, then you can check out The site is littered with advertising; however, if you can look past that you may be able to find a club in your area.

Note: Not all areas have clubs listed, as users are the ones who submit clubs to the site. Also, this site is dedicated mostly to the states. You will find that there are over 200 clubs listed for the states, but less than 50 clubs listed for all other countries combined.

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California Swinger Clubs

California Swinger ClubsSwinging is an alternative lifestyle, between two or more couples, based on the establishment of friendly relations generally in order to pursue recreational activities which may include but is not limited to sexual interactions.

The swinger life style brings more communication and openness to a relationship. Many couples admit that they become closer to each other after their first swinging experiences. Every aspect of your desires and preferences can be shared with your partner. There is no point keeping these feeling to yourself. These feelings extend not only sexual knowledge about each other, but the emotional knowledge become richer and develops into a better communicate channel your relationship. Many swinger couples think it is incredibly exciting to share with someone these facts, erotic fantasies and intimate desires.  Partners usually explore these desires by visiting a swinger club.  There are swinger’s clubs here in the US and abroad where couples can experiment with such desires.

When it comes to the best California swingers club, it’s hard to tell which one exceeds the rest. However, there are 3 facilities which are truly worth mentioning.

- Saints and Sinners

Saints and Sinners is a private, invitation-only facility where you can forget about inhibitions and socialize with other couples looking for erotic experiences. The club is located on Southeastern California, near the 55, 57 and 91 freeways. It boasts a 2600 square feet area, a multi-room studio which can be used for private parties and events, photo/video shoots and more. It also comes with custom-designed dungeon furniture and top-class music equipment.

- Club Joi

Club Joi is a private high-class swingers club based in Los Angeles, which delights visitors 21 and over with unique settings and events. Swinger parties are regularly held on a Saturday and Sunday. They sometimes hold free parties, contests and gifts. The atmosphere here is a highly pleasant and erotic, with clients willing to share their most private desires.

- The Hush Hush Club

Hush Hush club is renowned for hosting the most successful swinger parties in California. They have a calendar with a wide range of enticing events, including pajamas parties and birthday celebrations. The facility is equipped with the most demanding music equipment on the market and boasts cocktails and alcoholic beverages prepared by the highest qualified bartenders. Many people attend the Hush Hush club since they know that is where the best fun can be found.

If you’re looking for a swingers club, well look no further.   The three above  are all renowned in their branch for hosting exquisite and successful swinger parties, and their atmosphere is one of the most pleasant you’ll ever find yourself in. However, to find a swingers club close to you, visit SwingLifeStye’s California Swinger Clubs for a complete listing.


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Add Some Foursome Spice to Your Relationship

Add Some Foursome Spice to Your relationshipSex…adds spice to the relationship.  It has always been rumored to be a stress buster. But people with marriage boredom, voyeurism, and sexual boredom from a single partner tend to fall for sex with three, four and/or multiple partners. Foursome sex or group sex always seems to be an activity full of joy and adventure. The people who dream this stuff up have a lot of guts; few people call this activity as ‘an orgy’.

Good ole Mike Hatcher has found that there were many surveys undertaken to find out the ratio of men and women liking an orgy. According to the survey, one-eighth of the women interviewees and one fourth of men interviewees enjoyed this event. However, only half of them have ever tried.

There is a typical rumor that such threesome, foursome or group sex is carried out mostly by the young adults. But most of the orgies found at lifestyle events, participants are in their 30s, 40s or 50s. People engaging in these activities are usually married or divorced and majority of the time the experience is with their spouses. This activity then leads into ‘wife swapping’. Wife swapping is when married couples exchange partners.  They believe that carrying on such activities will lead to a better relationship; strengthen their bond and spice up their sex life.

Add Some Foursome Spice to Your relationship
In the swinging community, an orgy can be named as a hard swap or soft swap. In a soft swap, couples enjoy sexual pleasures such as kissing and touching, but there is no actual sex or penetration. On the other hand, in a hard swap, people engage in full sexual intercourse with different guests. Under this swapping activity, many other events can take place such as Daisy Chains, Lesbianism, Ring a ring a roses, forfeits and other games. Games and forfeits include party games in which the people who lose will have to offer a show to the people or the audience. In daisy chains, all the men and women lie on the ground alternately and have actions of sex with the two men or the two women lying next to them.

Before you and your partner decide to partake in a group sex type situation, you may need to define your rules as outlined in this blog here: Rule Making and Breaking, Tips Every Couple Should Know.  Once you read this and set rules for each other then you are ready to start swinging.

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Kama Sutra – To Spice up Your Sex Life

Not to get too religious on everyone, but Kama Sutra is touted as the bible of sex positions. Expand your lovemaking repertoire and increase your sexual pleasure with the erotic and wonderful Kama Sutra positions. Kama Sutra is an incredibly popular Hindu book that offers beauty, intimacy and fun for your sex life. It incorporates 64 types of sexual positions that one can engage in during lovemaking.

Now, let’s explore Kama Sutra and its mind blowing and bed rattling orgasm techniques to assure a soulful lovemaking session. If you are a swinger, you can use these one on one with your partner or incorporate new ways with new positions. I mean when it’s with a loved one, sex is like basketball, one on one and as little dribbling as possible.

Important Sex positions and Kama Sutra:

Kama Sutra - Woman On TopThe following is a collection of Mike Hatcher’s sizzling strategies and five primary Kama Sutra sexual positions for an extremely intimate sexual enjoyment. Man on top, woman on top, both on sides facing, facing sitting up and man behind woman. Of these, woman on top is considered as the most sexually gratifying and pleasurable position… (well for me anyway)

Woman on top: This is one of the popular sex positions. Here the man lies or sits on his back, the woman straddles him and they face each other. This is considered as one of the best positions to give a woman greater control and to reach orgasm through better penetration. This is because with her weight on the knee she can move freely. However it requires technique and stamina.

Kama Sutra - Man On TopMan on top: This is also called the missionary position and is widely used since time immemorial for assuring maxing enjoyment and penetration. Here the woman lies on her back and the man lies on top of her and engages in a sensuous and intimate sexual activity. This position is preferred by most couples and considered romantic as it assures a unique level of closeness, and an ability to kiss, caress and maintain an eye-to-eye contact. It also promises deeper penetration and uncompromising intimacy.

Side by side position: To get this position both partners should lie on their sides facing each other. This position involves closeness since the partners are essentially spooning. It is for this reason is it most desirable by some couples. This is also regarded as a very intimate position as it encourages hugging and kissing. This is an ideal position if the woman is pregnant.

Kama Sutra - Man Behind WomanMan behind woman: This is a rear entry position where the man enters a woman from behind. It involves the woman on all fours and the man behind her on his knees holding on to her hips to ensure deeper penetration. This position is considered highly enjoyable as it allows better access to the G-spot.

Facing sitting up position: This sitting sexual position assures a face-to-face sexual intercourse and hence is regarded as a very intimate posture. This position can be really very enjoyable because of the intense closeness of the either partners. It also ensures kissing, caressing and hugging of your partner’s upper part of the body during deep Kama Sutra - Face Sitting Uppenetration.


Kama Sutra unfurls an exhilarating and mind-blowing 64 sex positions. Adopt any of these to spice up your sex life and to achieve a mind blowing orgasm.

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Hope you enjoy my blog, sorry, my humor has not been present, I have been busy, but now Mike Hatcher IS BACK!!!

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What to Expect at a Swingers Convention

What to Expect at a Swingers ConventionMany people think that all swinger’s convention consists of are orgies, while this may or may not be true; there are other activities for lifestyle couples to help them connect and grow in their relationship and the lifestyle.  Vegas Exchange is a great place for couples in the lifestyle to get introduced to a swinger’s convention.  In addition to adult play in some of the most luxurious playrooms, couples will have access to over 25 couples workshop that help to strengthen their sex life and relationship.  None stop partying at nightly themed events, celebrity guest speakers, exhibitors, prize giveaway erotic entertainers and the best entertainments.

At Vegas Exchange, we start the day off with some exercise to get the blood flowing.  Pole dancing lessons, zumba fitness or yoga, pick your poison. There will also be detox and nutrition for vitality & longevity as well as self-defense classes for people that are interested.  We want you to walk away from this experience with a new outlook on healthy swinging. View convention schedule.

What to Expect at a Swingers ConventionVisit a couple workshops to help enhance your relationship; How to Blow his Mind and Rock her world, Couples Massage, Tantra, Beyond BDSM 101, Exploring other relationship types are just some of the lifestyle friendly workshops you will find at Vegas Exchange.

Then put on your sexiest swimwear and meet us at the Palms & Simon’s Pool in the Ivory Tower at the Palms Place for a little R & R, or if you want to get the party started early head over to the Palms Pool.  Later on you can take a walk over to the exhibitors and do some shopping, for adult toys, adult furniture and other lifestyle products and services.

Don’t miss out on the 007 Bond Party @ Moon Night Club, an ultra exclusive nightclub on the top floor of the Palms’ Fantasy Tower.  Then grab your favorite sex toy and come play in the Hardwood Suite…10,000 sq. ft. playground for a very sexy Pajama Jam!

What to Expect at a Swingers ConventionOur Moroccan Interlude has 2 great locations.  First we start @ Simon with A provocative harem, snake charmers, seductive musical artists and end in the Palms Ballroom with  erotic performers and so much more….The night of passion continues as we move on to two floors of sexy Fantasy playrooms.  A 6,500 sq.ft. luxurious SkyVilla playground that overlooks the famous Las Vegas strip and the 10,000 sq. ft. Hardwood Suite…this is not for the faint at heart!

Don your sexiest Venetian Lingerie and Mask and meet us @ Rain Nightclub for a night of sensual arousal and pure indulgence.  The party continues at the Palms Pool area for the Fire & Ice Grand Finale.  We have prepared a night to remember and will pull out all the stops with our entertainment line-up, so you won’t want to miss it!!

This will be the LifeStyle event of the Decade!  Never been to a swingers convention, this is the best time to check out for yourself!  Need more information on LifeStyle Conventions, read “How to Enjoy a Lifestyle Convention”.

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6 Important Benefits of Watching Porn as a Couple

6 Important Benefits of Watching Porn as a Couple There is nothing wrong with watching porn alone or as a couple. In many societies, porn is viewed as a taboo however if you take a closer look at the reasons behind this, you will realize that there is nothing wrong about porn especially if you are watching it with your partner. In fact, there are very many benefits derived from watching porn as a couple. If you are interested in discovering these benefits to make your sexual experiences with your partner more pleasurable, below are 6 important benefits of watching porn as a couple you must know.

1. It gives couples practical ideas:

This is by far one of the most important benefits of watching porn as a couple. Sometimes sex can be monotonous when you lack ideas. Although there are many magazines, forums e.t.c. on improving your sexual experiences with your partner, there is nothing better than seeing those ideas in practice. Watching porn as a couple gives you practical ideas that can be tried out to improve your sexual experiences. If you want practical sexual ideas that work i.e. sexual positions, foreplay tips e.t.c., you should consider watching porn with your partner.
6 Important Benefits of Watching Porn as a Couple

2. It gives you a shared experience:

This is another important benefit of watching porn with your partner. One of the main reasons why couples manage to stay together and enjoy each other’s company is having shared experiences. You can’t expect your relationship to last if you don’t do anything together with your partner. Watching porn together is one of those things that can give you special shared experiences which you will cherish for a long time. There is nothing wrong with watching porn alone however it will mean more to you and your partner if you watch it together.

3. Porn speeds up foreplay:

This is another important benefit of watching porn as a couple. Sometimes couples take too long to be get into the mood for sex because of a number of reasons i.e. stress, timing e.t.c. In such cases, it takes too long to enjoy steaming sex together. If you want to take the least time to arouse your partner and yourself, watching porn together is a great idea. According to numerous studies, porn arouses both men and women faster than foreplay. Porn therefore offers great benefits for couples who want to speed up foreplay.
6 Important Benefits of Watching Porn as a Couple

4. Presents couples with an opportunity to learn each others fantasies:

This is another great benefit of porn. It is normal to be afraid to share your sexual fantasies with your partner. In such cases, porn can help you learn your partner’s sexual fantasies without necessarily asking them. There are very many types of porn. Watching different types of porn as a couple can help couples identify their partners fantasies which are usually keeps a secret. This is a very important discovery because fantasies give the ultimate sexual satisfaction which is necessary for intimate relationships to last.

5. It plays a huge role in minimizing sexual desires outside your relationship:

This is another very important benefit of watching porn. Having sexual desires outside your relationship is normal. It can however cause problems when you are not able to control yourself. Watching porn as a couple helps you to become open with your partner about all your fantasies and sexual needs. This in turn decreases the chances of having sexual desires outside your relationship. This is a very important benefit because it reduces chances of cheating which are common in relationships where couples aren’t open with each other. If you are interested in having a long-lasting open relationship with your partner, you should consider watching porn with your partner more often to reduce their chances of seeking sexual gratification elsewhere.
6 Important Benefits of Watching Porn as a Couple

6. It shatters baseless myths:

As mentioned above, it is normal to be attracted to other people besides your partner. The issue here is being able to control yourself. Watching porn as a couple gives you an opportunity to shatter the myth that you can’t be attracted to anyone else other than your mate. The experience will teach you the right way to satisfy your sexual desires which is with your partner only. There is no need to ignore reality and nature. It is not a crime to be attracted to other people however how you deal with the attraction is the most important thing.


In summary, the above benefits are enough to show you the importance of watching porn with your partner. Watching porn as a couple has more pros than cons. You should try it if you genuinely want to improve your sexual experiences with your partner and have an open lasting relationship

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Vegas Exchange Bikini Contest

Vegas Exchange 2013 is one of the most popular and exciting conventions that will take place in Vegas this year. I’m sure half of the world’s population must be aware of the thrill and magnificence  the biggest party of the year will bring. Here is the great news for all those who have been waiting for this amazing lifestyle party that will give a great rush to your adrenaline level. The much awaited biggest lifestyle party is around the corner and will hit off the stage in the month of August this year.

Vegas Exchange -Bikini-ContestThe party is scheduled to begin on 5th August at Palms Casino Resort and will continue till 11th August.  Starting from 5th August, this 7 day event will be hosted in Vegas and is expected to gather a crowd from all around the world. Don’t forget to attend the Lifestyle’s only adult event on the 10th of August, where all the beautiful ladies from different parts of the country will walk the ramp in Bikinis to win the title of Ms. International Swinger’s Day 2013. Vegas has always been known as the ultimate party destination and now with Ms. ISD Bikini Contest 2013, there is absolutely much more to add to this already exciting festive land.

Ms. ISD Bikini Contest is going to be organized by Vegas Exchange for the very first time to grace the planet with beautiful ladies. A huge number of beautiful and sexy ladies from around the country will represent various lifestyle clubs in the nation and abroad in front of the panel of judges at the famous Palm Casino Resort during Vegas Exchange Gets Wet & Wild! Pool Party. With a pool capacity of over 2,500, this event is definitely a place to be. The event is guaranteed to sizzle with the onset of the bikini round and surprise celebrity guest who are sure to add glamor and charm to the event.

Before we proceed further with the details of the event, let us tell you about the venue of the event. Palms Casino Resort is one of the most popular resorts in Vegas. It can facilitate everything a sprawling, eventful party would need, including nightclubs, luxury ambiance, Vegas Exchange Bikini Contest party halls, play rooms and so on. The resort has its own spas, pubs, clubs and theaters. The venue is expected to be occupied by more than three thousand swingers. All the swingers anticipated to take part in the event must be looking forward to spending their time in this exquisite location.

There will be a number of surprise elements in the event from surprise celebrity entries to music performances. One can also expect some eventful workshops being organized by experts from the fashion industry who have gained respect and recognition in their respective fields. As a bonus package, party goers will also get to interact with famous personalities and performers, who have been invited to perform on scintillating dance numbers. This is not it. There is much more to this exciting and fun-filled event. As part of bonus offers, party goers can go for a dinner with Nina Hartley, the world famous porn-star legend and sex educator. The theme of the party is definitely going to make you go crazy and wild throughout the event.

This party is to be inaugurated by Larry Flynt, popularly known as Hustler. He’ll be the keynote speaker on the first day of the event. Apart from this, Dr. Jessica O’Reilly will also be participating in the event and will be an important part of the workshops being held.

Ladies are encouraged to sign up now for the bikini contest at Vegas Exchange Bikini Contest.

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5 Tips On How To Perform Oral Sex On A Woman

From LifeStyle Magazine

5 Tips On How To Perform Oral Sex On A WomanMike Hatcher some times gets tongue tied on my articles, but one thing I never get tongue tied is with oral sex on a woman. Oral sex is something that the vast majority of women love to have done to them, but of course it is only good if the man knows how to do it correctly. What follows are five simple tips that you should consider trying to put into good use the next time you are performing this sex act on your partner because there is no doubt that she will love you even more after it.

1. Never just dive right in.

The first thing you must do is work on getting her in the mood and never just start giving her oral sex without trying to heighten her senses first. In order to get the best reaction from her you should spend some time kissing her and teasing her by stroking her inner thighs carefully avoiding every single part of her vagina and just by doing this, you will find that as soon as you make contact with her genitalia she will just love every single movement you make. You should also take it further by stroking her breasts and kissing her all over her body as the idea here is to make her entire body tingle with anticipation before you move on to the next step.

2. Work slowly and gently on the vulva area.

Your partner will enjoy it even more if you start slowly on the vulva area and this actually entails you kissing and slowly licking her starting from the outer edges and moving inwards. As you move into the middle, do look at spreading her lips and gently licking the inside of them, but it is essential that you avoid her clitoris right now because instead this is all about continuing to tease her vagina in order to really turn her on.

5 Tips On How To Perform Oral Sex On A Woman3. Be gentle with her clitoris.

When it comes to the time for you to touch her clitoris it is always best if you do it gently and focus on the clitoral hood because it is a known fact that most women actually get more pleasure out of indirect clitoral stimulation. When you do start licking it, always make sure that it involves soft and slow licks right over the hood and simply do not put too much pressure on there as it simply is not required until she is highly aroused at which point you can apply more pressure.

4. Use your fingers to good effect.

If you really want to drive her wild with desire, then it is always a good idea to combine using your fingers with oral sex as you can easily penetrate her, and touch her g-spot by having your palm facing upwards and your fingers curled up to feel a rough part inside her, as you lick her clitoris. By doing this, you will be giving her double the pleasure and the chances of her having a more powerful orgasm will have just increased by a huge amount.

5. Listen to her and pay attention to her.

Finally, you must listen to her as she is getting closer to orgasm as she will tell you exactly what she wants and it is up to you to do as she says. This is where she may tell you to lick a certain spot, or she will push back on you for more pressure, but whatever it is and no matter how uncomfortable you may be it is important to keep doing as she asks in order to make her actually orgasm with you. After she has climaxed, never just keep licking her clitoris like you were before as it will be extremely sensitive at this point and instead you are best to slowly stop rather than just carrying on. The only exception to this with oral sex is if she specifically asks you to continue as some women will be able to have several orgasms one after the other and this alone will tell you that you are good at what you do.


5 Tips On How To Perform Oral Sex On A WomanAgain listen to the woman, men usually do not listen, which reminds me of an oral sex joke. A woman is in a coma, and the nurse tending to her notices that whenever she is sponge bathing the woman, the woman’s vital signs jump a little on all of the machines an screens. So the nurse calls the husband and says ’come down to the hospital, i think i know how to get your wife out of this coma.’ so the husband hurries down, and asks the nurse what he can do. The nurse says, ’ i think that oral sex will bring her out of her coma, it will arouse her enough to bring her out of the coma.’ so the nurse closes the cutains, and leaves the husband with his wife in the room. Moments later, the man comes running out of the room, flustered. The nurse, worried, asks him what happened. the husband says, ’I don’t know, I think that she started choking.’

So remember tend to the 5 tips and do not listen to Mike Hatcher’s joke and you will be fine. The above aforementioned are the five tips on how to perform oral sex on a woman and of course there is a bit more to it than has been mentioned here and each woman does like things done slightly differently depending upon their own personal likes and dislikes. The main thing is to listen to your partner and experiment with various techniques and methods and through building your experience you too can become a master in the art of oral sex.

To read other great LifeStyle articles, visit LifeStyle Magazine.

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Swinger Destinations for 2013

This new year brings a lot of fun from SwingLifeStyle and TopLess Travel. For those that are unfamiliar, SwingLifeStyle or SLS is a swinger dating site offering swinger party and clubs locations nationwide, while allowing you to hook up with other couples. TopLess Travel on the other hand is a swinger oriented vacation, or adult vacation if you will.

The 2013 year is full of great surprises and great vacations just waiting for couples just like you. I have compiled some of the top hot spots that you do not want to miss this year.

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Jewel of the Seas * Jan 28 - Feb 2, 2013


Jewel of the Seas * Jan 28 – Feb 2, 2013

Join SLS, Topless Travel and over 2,000 swingers for another exciting couples only, full ship charter lifestyle cruise. This is a 6-day/5-night cruise aboard the beautiful Jewel of the Seas that will be leaving from Tampa, FL and stopping in George Town, Grand Cayman and Playa Del Carmen, Mexico before returning to Tampa.

Jewel of the Seas * Jan 28 - Feb 2, 2013


Caribe Resort * February 9 - 16, 2013


Caribe Resort * February 9 – 16, 2013

Caribe is a beautiful oasis in an unspoiled environment, where coconut palms sway by day and Club Colette rocks by night – giving you an experience you’ll NEVER FORGET!

Caribe Resort * February 9 - 16, 2013


Desire Resort * March 23 - 30, 2013


Desire Resort * March 23 – 30, 2013

Unleash inspiring interactions and unbridled fun when you discover the secluded adult-only resort, overlooking a breathtaking expanse of shoreline. Every moment is a delicious adventure that satisfies dreams and awakens the senses.

Desire Resort * March 23 - 30, 2013


Brilliance of the Seas * April 6 - 13, 2013


Brilliance of the Seas * April 6 – 13, 2013

Join over 2,100 people on one of the most impressive cruise ships in the world for another Full Ship Charter, Couples Only, Clothing Optional Cruise. We will be leaving from beautiful San Juan, Puerto Rico on a Southern Caribbean Journey.

Brilliance of the Seas * April 6 - 13, 2013


Hedonism-Swingers Break * April 6-13, 2013


Hedonism-Swingers Break * April 6-13, 2013

It’s been the most widely recognized and notorious resort in the world. Words really can’t quite describe the thrill of actually being here. It’s the ultimate guilty pleasure, only without the guilt.

Hedonism-Swingers Break * April 6-13, 2013


Thailand Adventure * April 26 - May 5, 2013


Thailand Adventure * April 26 – May 5, 2013

Join us in the “Land of Smiles” to experience the incredible Thailand palaces, unbelievable scuba diving, Thai elephant trekking, tiger parks, great golfing, some of the best dining in the world, Formula 1 go carts, some of the best shopping deals in the world, custom tailored clothing, the list goes on and on.

Thailand Adventure * April 26 - May 5, 2013


Costa Rica * June 19 - 23, 2013


Costa Rica * June 19 – 23, 2013

Join us on an outdoor adventure! Yes, there are “wild swing club parties” at night but we also enjoy all the great activities Costa Rica is known for during the day such as: Whitewater Rafting, Rainforest Zip-lines, & Waterfall Tours!

*Optional 3 night add-on to Jaco Beach available.

Costa Rica * June 19 - 23, 2013


Vegas Exchange * August 7 - 11, 2013


Vegas Exchange * August 7 – 11, 2013

The Lifestyle is coming back to Las Vegas as Vegas Exchange! Exchange Playmates, Exchange Ideas, Exchange Everything! It includes international parties and an annual convention. Get more information on the world’s only Lifestyle holiday and register for the convention today.

Vegas Exchange 2013*  August 7 - 11, 2013


Hedonism-Pure Pleasures * Nov 2 - 9, 2013


Hedonism-Pure Pleasures * Nov 2 – 9, 2013

Hedonism! Where pleasure comes in many forms……When you set your mind free, it’s amazing how happily the body will follow. Join us as we pleasure the Mind, Body, Spirit and Soul.

Hedonism-Pure Pleasures * Nov 2 - 9, 2013


Freedom of the Seas * November 10-17, 2013


Freedom of the Seas * November 10-17, 2013

The cruise ship “Freedom of the Seas” will set sail again in November 2013. Imagine what happens when you take one of the largest cruise ships in the world and dedicate it to the swinglifestyle? Make your reservations now to be part of the biggest swinger cruises with other open-minded couples just like yourself.

As you can see there is something happening every month, so plan your dream trip and have fun!.

Freedom of the Seas * November 10-17, 2013


To view more swinger destinations visit TopLess Travel.

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Swinger Horoscope 2013

Since December 21, 2012 came and went and we all survived the apocalypse, Mike Hatcher has created a breath of fresh air for the New Year. I have decided to post predictions into the futures of swingers for the full year of 2013.

If you are in to astrology, then you will appreciate your swinger horoscope, first thought up by Mike Hatcher. This took quite a bit of time to put together so I hope everyone appreciates it. Simply scroll down and view your sign and make sure to bookmark to give to your friends.

Swinger Horoscope - AriesARIES Aries are immediately drawn to their own independent and fearless spirit. The Aries wants to be chased and expects others to be all too happy to oblige. A love match with an Aries can be perfect. The potential problem with this relationship is that Aries is an impatient, selfish soul. They are so busy pursuing their own desires they forget it takes two to tango. The dating game can turn into a battle over who is number one! As long as these two have separate time to be individuals they’ll have little trouble keeping the fire burning in a relationship. And of course, you can count on some passionate sex!

Swinger Horoscope - TaurusTAURUS Taurus will party, play and be very good friends with other swingers. There is much to be learned from one another. They will have similar ideas and share much in common. Taurus is instantly attracted to outgoing couples. Taurus will stick with their partner through good times and bad. Taurus also finds their partner’s independence very attractive. This is a highly rewarding combination that has both long and short term potential. Before they know it, they could fall madly in love. Taurus is serious and sensual. Swingers consider Taurus a keeper and friendship will always be evident long after the attraction has ended. You will learn more about yourselves in this relationship. It’s worth the insight.

Swinger Horoscope - GeminiGEMINI Gemini is drawn to sex appeal. Ruled by Mercury, Gemini has both beauty and brains and swingers find this a huge turn on. Gemini is witty and can make others laugh which is another bonus. Partners are turned on by the challenge of the mysterious Gemini. Gemini thinks their partner is the best looking lover they have ever had. There is great sex potential and long-term possibility. To make this work, partners should provide Gemini lots of freedom and space. The partner will need to keep his or her sense of humor on at all times. Gemini should remain a mystery to their partner for best results. Sex will be hot. Love will be very possible. Gemini is the most sought after sign in the zodiac for their adaptability and cunning style in all they partake.

Swinger Horoscope - CancerCANCER This is an interesting combination that works out more than most people would think. Many sexual relationships and love affairs occur when nurturing Cancer meets sexy and ultra confident people. Sparks fly when Cancer gives others the encouragement and adoration they need. Others see both a future and a family in Cancer and cannot help but admire their sensuality and loyalty to others. The future will be paved with an intense sexual attraction and enough healthy challenges to keep both mentally and physically satisfied. It is highly possible for these two to form a long-term relationship. Together they will gain prestige and could make a fortune. Both will need to tone down aggressiveness because both will display emotional confrontations if neglected.

Swinger Horoscope - LeoLEO Partners need to give Leo the royal treatment and vice versa. If you are looking for a satisfying sex life, look no further. Both partners can match each other’s intensity and they will share strong compatibility in and out of the bedroom. The prognosis is very good for sex and very possible for marriage.


Swinger Horoscope - VirgoVIRGO Others will communicate well with Virgo and they will understand one another instantly. Partners will adore Virgo’s intelligence. Virgo will want to immediately seduce their partner. Attraction heats up quickly and a romantic relationship could follow. Virgo is a huge turn on for sexually intense couples. Sexual and romantic compatibility will be mutually satisfying. Family matters and loyalty will keep these two together. Partners must not play any head games with Virgo or there will be a price to pay. Virgo needs to keep their partner grounded so both can be happy. The attraction between them will be strong enough to survive any emotional storm.

Swinger Horoscope - LibraLIBRA Libra is ruled by Venus and is exceptionally attractive to their partner. Libra’s effortless beauty and social graces are what partners secretly desire. Partners will share lots of laughter together and go to the hottest parties. It will seem like a constant party. The partner provides substance and intensity to Libra. The attraction could lead to marriage. Libra could find their partner’s aggressiveness a bit extreme for their taste. Give each other space and both can survive the rough waters. This relationship gets better over time. The potential for sex is very promising. Libra will help their partner get a makeover and perhaps a home as well. Aspects are great for marriage. Family issues will dominate over time.

Swinger Horoscope - ScorpioSCORPIO When Scorpio first meet their partner, both are dazzled and surprised by the sexual chemistry and sensual compatibility they share. There will be intense sexual attraction, challenge and every so often, love can result. Scorpio likes privacy with a lover while they enjoy their partner to go public with love. This is one area that could pose a problem. If Scorpio exercises his or her social graces and polishes up on people skills, the partner could fall hard or be enjoyed by becoming a cuckold/cuckoldress.

Swinger Horoscope - SagittariusSAGITTARIUS Sagittarius will be drawn to a partner’s intensity and wild side. Both love to play with fire and neither will mind using flattery to get sex. They get along great as friends and lovers and a mutually strong attraction can and will lead to a long-term love relationship. A love of the good life and lots of laughter will be experienced together. Children and animals will be involved in this relationship. Both have met someone that matches their stamina, in and out of the bedroom. Sex could be explosive and will be a reason to keep coming back to one another. They are a powerful combination and friends will maintain that each of them has met the right person. There is such a thing called love.

Swinger Horoscope - CapricornCAPRICORN Capricorn is fascinated with the fiery passion within their partner and there is potential for a lasting love here. Hard work and discipline will ultimately play an important role in bonding them to each other. Hidden agendas and manipulation do not exist in the land of Capricorn. Keep jealousy and games out of the picture or lose Capricorn forever. Capricorn gets better with age and is very much attracted to a prestigious lifestyle.

Swinger Horoscope - AquariusAQUAUARIUS This can be a very challenging and exciting relationship. The partner and Aquarius are an interesting combination of passion, friendship and sexuality. There will never be dull moments when these two are together and they will experience many memorable moments with their friends and family close by. Social groups and events will keep the relationship stimulating. Both need independence and share similar creative abilities.

Swinger Horoscope - PiscesPISCES Pisces are sensitive, theatrical and sensual. Their partners see fun and fantasy in Pisces. There is chemistry and sexual attraction that may initially start out as a friendship, but could progress to romance over time as long as both are single. These two will entertain and share a powerful effect in public together. Their partners’ initiative combined with Pisces talent is the perfect component for public applause. Partners may get irritated with Pisces go with the flow approach to money and love. Partners may need immediate gratification in sexual matters while Pisces will wait patiently for the right person. Partners could get bogged down in heavy emotions and may want to flee via the nearest exit. Arguments relating to home, family and money will arise over time. For this to work both should have outside interests and not spend too much quality time together.

I hope you have enjoyed the swinger horoscope and wish you all a safe and happy 2013. To view more great lifestyle articles visit LifeStyle Magazine.

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December 21, 2012 Doomsday Swingers Party

Swing Offbeat - December 21, 2012 Doomsday Swingers Party

Milky Way

So December 21, 2012 is coming up, want go out with a bang? For those that have been living under a rock, Mayan legend claims that the world may end on that date or may be just the end of the calendar of the Maya. Some speculate that something spiritual will happen, some say aliens will come down and rejoice with all. Remember the recent blog on alien sex and alien swingers ?The most fascinating of all of the so called predictions is that the Milky Way will align with our sun and suppose to see a beautiful sight in the sky.

December 21, 2012 may or may not be doomsday but apparently at least 25 million people think that there won’t be a Christmas this year because of the Mayan apocalypse.So far Russia attempted to stop end of the world panic along with NASA here in the US.Even in France, officials ban access to a mountain in which believers of the apocalypse claim to be a safe haven.

I personally believe that swingers will go on, in some form no matter what. Swingers are the future, swingers are the past. If you don’t believe me, make sure to read my blogs called:

The History Of Swinging Part 1

The History Of Swinging Part 2

The History Of Swinging Part 3

I have compiled a great end of the world scenario that a swinger may encounter if they are having fun at a party, home alone or at a club. In no random order I have Mike Hatcher’s 5 ways the world may end for a swinger.


5 Ways The World May End For Swingers

Swing Offbeat - December 21, 2012 Doomsday Swingers Party

Swingers Fire

#1 You and your partner could be in a full swap scenario, and rights as you are about to orgasm, the earth is incinerated in a ball of fire. Talk about offing someone before they get off, I have heard of Coitus interruptus in the extreme, but this takes the cake.

#2 You have lost all the weight that you and your partner have been working on to get the toned bodies and show off. Right as you are about to expose your killer bodies, you are struck by a comet, never revealing your bodies to anyone.

#3 You may have had issues with male enhancement and maybe working on a rock hard erection, and right as you are proud to show it off to a hot wife….BAM you are frozen solid and the earth experiences another ice age. At least now you are stiff and got what you wanted.

Swing Offbeat - December 21, 2012 Doomsday Swingers Party

Swing Vibrator(not legal in Alabama)

#2 You and your partner just purchased the Maximum Pleasure Vibe 2000, a 36 inch long vibrator attached to a car battery wrapped up in a sex machine. Both of you are into it when all of a sudden, the Earths magnetic field is reversed and electric sockets short circuit……… both are electrocuted. You always wanted a shocking experience; well this was the final shock of your life.

#1 You and your partner are at a swingers party in an orgy and have generously donated most of your money to the Mike Hatcher Foundation, a foundation for swingers. December 21, 2012 comes and goes, (you come and go too) Life goes on, and Mike Hatcher is happy for the donations he has received.

Swing Offbeat - December 21, 2012 Doomsday Swingers Party

Mike Hatcher Thanks Swingers

I have a great plan, I am holding an end of the world swingers party and will be asking for donations of 50% of your life savings, you know since you won’t need it. Honestly, if the world doesn’t end, look at the bright side with the money you have given Mike Hatcher, better you than me!

On a serious note, don’t worry because when it is your time, it is your time, don’t waste time worrying about death, when you should be celebrating life. Be good to yourself and friends and family and have a safe and happy New Year!

P.S. Give me a dollar!

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Ridiculous Swinger Website Advertisements

I thought I would take the time out to review two of my pet peeves which is ridiculous swinger ads by websites and by users on the sites.

Swingers Guide - Ridiculous Swinger Website Advertisements

Fake Swingers Websites

The first issue I will address is the advertising of these sites. First I would like to point out that SwingLifeStyle is the largest swinger site hands down. I was surfing the net the other day and come across an ad that had me laughing in hysterics. It looked like a cheesy comic book strip alerting me that my wife my be on this site. Seriously how many people fall for this? I know SwingLifeStyle is, what you see is what you get, probably because it was created by swingers.


Ads like this are funny, they target your computer’s address and keep popping up, well not so funny. I know SLS does not do this kind of marketing.

Swingers Guide - Ridiculous Swinger Website Advertisements

Mike Hatcher ?

Other advertisements pop up of video of cam girls, this is so annoying and I can not stand this. You will be looking around and all of a sudden………here come the cam girls. The problem with this is the fact that sites that do this want the SINGLE male, and sites want to target them as paid members. Real swinger sites are not after the single male, they should want the couples.

Now next up and I promise I will keep this short, my next pet peeve is couples that post pictures of themselves from 1969 or post a fake picture of someone else’s body part to try and pass off as their own. Unfortunately this will happen, as human nature is deceptive and people want to appeal to everyone. I am a rare breed though, what you see is what you get, no smoke or mirrors, just a type “A” personality, witty, charming attractive…….no ego by the way, people say I look like Colin Farrel, maybe I should upload one to my profile??

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Alien Sex & A Swingers Take

If you have been following the crazy swinger blogs of Mike Hatcher, then you know about my cousin and his episode with the cat from: Swingers Generation X and his mis adventures, yes it’s a joke.

Anyway, I was over at his place and he was telling me how he and his wife would love to be the first people to swing with an alien couple. This was pretty funny coming from a guy who is about as sharp as a marble. He was drinking and really getting in to how cool it would be to be with an alien and watch while his wife had a great time. I informed him that if an alien landed on Earth and saw humans, they would immediately leave and report no intelligent life forms were found.

He went on to show me pictures of naked women with alien greys, I was biting my lip trying not to laugh, but hey, people have different fetishes. My neighbor in Oregon liked his wife to dress up as an anime cartoon chick while he would um……you get the picture. Yes they would have sex while watching hentai and one time wanted me to dress up like a character from Akira, but that is another blog in itself.

Anyways my cousin was so the alien sex fantasy that he actually planned out step by step rules for swinging with a single male alien.  I thought was pretty cool, because newbies in the lifestyle need to prepare rules for each other. So here are his step by step rules for alien swinging which I downloaded from his laptop and I hope you enjoy these pics as much as he does. I only included three in this blog because 15 were NSFW and some had to be edited.

Swing Offbeat - Alien Sex & A Swingers Take

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Rule #1 Always make sure that the guest (alien swinger) is comfortable, offer him a drink, make sure he is relaxed and ready to be filmed at all costs.




Swing Offbeat - Alien Sex & A Swingers Take

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Rule # 2 If the alien male wants to spoon, It is OK with the wife as long as it is videoed and he does not get vaporized and or not longer downstairs no longer than 15 inches. (hey its my cousins rules)





Swing Offbeat - Alien Sex & A Swingers Take

alien child


Rule # 3 The alien must not have the attitude of “ I hope your couch pulls out because I don’t” My cousin stressed that protection is a must and even included what the alien child may look like with his wife.




In closing my cousin is different and I am open to all people of all fetishes, and who knows what swinging in the future might lead to. In the past it was taboo to be with a same sex person, or person of another race. Well those taboo’s are not so taboo anymore, maybe one day someone will have sex with someone that is intelligent, it just won’t be on Earth.

Since we don’t know the staying power of Aliens,  I would recommend Libidra for female libido to make the women horny and aggressively obtain multiple orgasms. The magic number appears to be 3 pills in the morning upon awakening and 3 in the afternoon.


Swing Offbeat - Alien Sex & A Swingers Take

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Thanksgiving Swingers

Thanksgiving SwingersIt’s that time of the year again and the time to wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving. But beyond that I thought I would take time to write a serious blog instead of the one I wrote last year, What Do Thanksgiving & Swinger Wives Have In Common?, which I admit was funny.

I want to take the time to let all the swingers out there know to be careful on Thanksgiving. If you live up north, the roads tend to be icy so please be careful. This time of the year the accidents are high and several arrests are made for DUI/DWI so please be responsible.

Thanksgiving is not just about family it is also about friends. Too often we forget that Thanksgiving started between the pilgrims and Native Americans. It was about friendship, but I guess you can say they came together as a big family. To get technical the First Thanksgiving was celebrated by the pilgrims after their first harvest in the New World which was 1621, and no I don’t think anyone was swinging… least I think not?

Anyway, the first Thanksgiving lasted three days and had 53 pilgrims and 90 Native Americans. Some people forget what it is like to be thankful for the little they have, whether a boss helps you out, a friend comes to your aid or an ordinary stranger just says “here”! I know several swingers and they throw a major feast for family and friends, and I know several give plenty this time of year. It doesn’t matter which religion you are, or what your beliefs are, in the end, we are all human and everyone deserves a better life, and a little appreciation from time to time.

This is Mike Hatcher wishing you all a Happy Thanksgiving, be safe and be good to each other!!

For those that want to have a pre or post thanksgiving swinging event you can check out your local get together here: Swingers Party

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Swingers Humor Orgazmo And Porky’s

Mike Hatcher has a sense of humor as you know, and I will be reviewing my personal favorite funny movies………. you may want to watch them. The first is called Orgazmo and it is a must watch.

The reason I am bringing this up in a swingers blog is the fact that several swingers will recognize a Cameo from porn legends such as Ron Jeremy, Juli Ashton, Jill Kelly, Serenity Wilde, Shayla LaVeaux, Chasey Lain, Jeanna Fine, Meilissa Hill, Jacklyn Lick and Christi Lake.

From the creators of Southpark, this is the story of a Mormon who knocks door to door to spread his faith and ends up knocking on a porn shoot. After ending up being the lead role as Orgazmo, he eventually becomes a real superhero with the power to give orgasms with his Orgazmorator gun.

If you are a fan of Southpark, BASEketball or Trey Parker and Matt Stone then you must watch this Action Adventure Porno.

Enjoy the Trailer.

Next Up Is Porky’s

If you haven’t watched this movie you have been living under a rock. This is appropriate for a swingers blog because of the sexual innuendo’s in it.

There are a couple classic funny scenes such as when all the boys think they are going to get laid, and are chased out by a man wielding a blade. This of course was a stunt set up by their friends. Good ole Pee Wee ends up running down the road naked. And if anyone has a crush on Kim Cattrall like I do the romantic moans of her having sex as Lassie are classic.

My personal favorite sce has to be when the boys are watching the girls in the shower. There is a hole in the shower so one boy sticks his tool through the hole and a teacher almost breaks his tool off.

Without giving away too much of this classic here is the trailer.

For more Mike Hatcher movies check out: New Ghostbusters Trailer and Avengers Assemble: Swingers

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Happy Birthday To Larry Flynt

Swinger News - Happy Birthday To Larry FlyntToday, November 1, 2012 marks Larry Flynt’s 70th birthday and I wish him the best. As some of my loyal readers may already know, Larry Flynt is one of Mike Hatchers personal heroes.  Larry is one of the world’s most popular publishers of adult magazines and known to be an advocate of civil liberties. He gained his popularity when he had his first published controversial flagship magazine, the Hustler.

Since the release of Hustler, a lot of controversies have been associated to him, but apparently he was able to overcome all those challenges and continued to fight for what he believes in. Just imagine what would have happened if Larry had thrown in the towel years ago, can you?

The United States would more than likely be censoring videos, and even music. Without Larry and his quest to uphold the constitution and fight for the rights of American’s, we would be living in a totally different version of the United States.

I don’t know about you but I am glad Larry fought so hard, and I personally enjoy reading about Larry in the media offering rewards on politicians and offering some jobs.

I am happy to announce that I will get to see Larry Flynt be a keynote speaker for the Swingers Convention called Vegas Exchange in August 2013. Larry Flynt, being an experienced publisher and activist can surely bring a lot of life and excitement to this Vegas lifestyle convention.

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Swing Diaries on Playboy TV

Swinger News - Swing Diaries on Playboy TVWhen Mike Hatcher was younger, (that’s me for the first time readers) he would sneak a peak at magazines from Hustler to Playboy.  Love both Magazines and thank Larry Flynt for his contributions to our constitutional rights, and I am a personal fan of Larry Flynt’s publicity and dry humor. Playboy magazine is great because I get to look at the celebrities, I remember people saying who the hell would want to look at Lyndsey Lohan nude? Um that would be me! But like any other gentleman Mr. Hatcher would only look at the magazines for the articles, not the pictures. Yeah right! Thanks to technology today, several magazines are becoming digital and radio shows as well as TV has popped up, like the ones on Playboy TV.

We all know about Playboy TV, the premium monthly adult entertainment service that Playboy provides at a fee. The service is famous for its unique and exclusive content, which includes reality shows, comedy shows, movies and serials. The channel was launched in 1992 and has held the Playboy values of high entertainment quotient right from the beginning. There is a wide range of content that is aired on the channel, most of which feature Playboy’s own world famous models. One such show is Swing, which was a hit the moment it was launched. The people in the show are called swingers, and the whole concept of the show is about how regular, rich people explore the world of swingers and put their relationships to the test, with new experiences by bringing in new people to the bedroom. While this culture is quite common in the United States, nothing of the sort has come on TV, and Swing aims to do just that – show the lifestyle of such people with its Swing show. The show is aimed at couples who have only heard about such a lifestyle but have not experienced anything of the kind.

Swinger News - Swing Diaries on Playboy TVThe show is led by Anna David, a famous TV personality who will guide the couples through their journey of transforming their regular, laid back lives into an exciting adventure that involves Californian swingers who will spoil the couples for choice in terms of sexual experiences. There are many celebrity and experienced people involved in the show, who will be giving their personal experiences and tips on how to successfully perform couples swapping, partner swapping and having a threesome or maybe a foursome as well. The other side of the coin is also discussed in the show, which includes the headache such a lifestyle might bring to either or both the partners. As of now, the show has received tremendous response with its initial two episodes, and Playboy says it was great fun making the show.

They received literally hundreds of submissions from couples who wanted to experience the swinger lifestyle live on TV, and it was a tough call choosing the cast. Well, the editors and other people at Playboy made sure the most diverse group was selected, as the show would become much more enjoyable with such a party. It came as no surprise that there were so many people sexually curious about their lives and Swing is only going to help them. It will enable them to rediscover and revamp their sex lives, with the perfect swingers that Playboy has hand selected. The upside to all this is the magnificent Swing mansion, which is the ultimate stop for anyone who loves sex, as it is equipped with everything you can imagine. Right from Jacuzzis to bathtubs to the most comfortable beds, Swingers mansion is the perfect place to unwind and explore your sexuality, and the show will make use of the mansion to the fullest. Swing has it all – babes, dildos, couples, swingers, swapping and everything the secret lifestyle thought was secret, until now!

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Vegas Exchange 2013: Swinglifestyle Brings You the Lifestyle Event of the Decade!

Vegas Exchange 2013: Swinglifestyle Brings You the Lifestyle Event of the Decade!The date is finally out! You can now enjoy a tantalizing event at the Vegas Exchange 2013 swingers convention. Thanks to Swinglifestyle, the premiere sponsor of the event, on August 7 – 11. You will have the best time of your life with an enlightening event. The convention is scheduled to take place at the Palms Casino Resort and picks up from the previous lifestyle conventions. However, it promises to offer top high-end entertainment and a wide variety of activities for both couples and individuals across the globe. The event is also expected to offer industry leaders a chance to learn more and create lasting relationships that will enable them to succeed in their businesses.

As the main convention sponsor, Swinglifestyle will ensure that you enjoy a friendly workshop designed for couples, luxurious travel, celebrity guests and exhibitions for vendors. Do not forget over 3000 swingers will be present to offer you a great time. If you are a swinger or interested in being one, then you will not have to wait anymore. This is the best platform to meet other swingers and to find out more about swinging. You will not have to enjoy yourself in secret any longer as this lifestyle event allows you to meet each other.

Swinglifestyle understands that swingers are now everywhere. This is evidenced by the increase of clubs, websites, resorts and private parties hosting swingers. Furthermore, it is extremely easy today, to get information about swinging. It is also common to hear couples talking about it. In harmony with investors and swingers alike, Swinglifestyle is among the high rollers of the events of the decade. During this fun packed event, the swingers website seeks to bring like-minded individuals, couples, investors and vendors together is a free and fun environment. You will find it easy to meet and make new friends and to enjoy a revolutionary sexual experience.

Vegas Exchange 2013: Swinglifestyle Brings You the Lifestyle Event of the Decade!Whether you are a new swinger, male or female, or a couple interested in swinging, Swinglifestyle offers you a chance to start your sexual revolution by joining its website. It is free to open your own account. You will only need to create an account free and meet as many adult swingers as you want in the various chat rooms available. You can choose from as many as 196 chat rooms and join over 10900 groups to have the best experience of your life. The site is open to all adults above the age of 18. Besides, you are guaranteed a safe and secure online account for you to use.

As a lifestyle-dating website, Swinglifestyle opens its doors to all couples, singles and other like-minded adults who are looking for a mind boggling sexual experience. The club offers a luxurious experience and an attractive way for you to meet swingers from all lifestyles. It offers you a platform where you do not have to be conscious of your interests or worry about people viewing you as weird. All the individuals at the site enjoy swinging and understand the need for privacy.

At the swingers convention, you can choose any of the convention schedules offered. You can arrive early and schedule your own entertainment for the rest of the event. The events vary from nightly themed events to couple workshops, where you can learn a lot about swinging. Plan each day of the convention to have the utmost satisfaction at the event and to have a great time among people with the same interest as you. The packages are also right, and you can choose between the conventional packages or take the day passes. Whichever package you decide upon, you can be sure to find entertainment that suits your needs. During the event, accommodation is also offered. You only need to book early to avoid last minute bookings.

You do not want to miss the 2013 Lifestyle event, a convention like no other. With Swinglifestyle as the main sponsor of the event, you will get a lot of experience and have fun with like-minded swingers. For more information or booking visit Vegas Exchange

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Swingers Convention – Vegas Exchange

Swingers Convention For those that have never been to a swinger’s convention, you are totally missing out. I have gone to a few hotel take overs, small by most standards but nothing compares to Vegas Exchange swingers convention happening on August 7-11, 2013. With over 3000 swingers participating you cannot afford to miss this event, especially because it is an invasion of the Palms Hotel & Resort In Las Vegas.

Vegas Exchange Convention Night-Themed Events

Are you looking for something more to do than playing in world class casinos and luxurious hotels in the marvelous city of Las Vegas? The Vegas Exchange offers you a once in a lifetime experience as they gather the world’s most talented and finest entertainers and performers and give you entertainment like no other. In August 2013, Vegas Exchange will draw in many visitors and spectators from all over the world due to its spectacular nightly themed events. There are a lot of things to enjoy in these Vegas Exchange convention events that will keep you awake and your energy pumping.

There are various events and parties to enjoy so you don’t get bored with one particular event. Examples of these night themed events to be hosted are:

The Casino Royale

Swingers Convention Enjoy the Vegas experience in this themed event that showcases the spirit of Las Vegas – care free excitement and the ever beating fun. The convention’s “Welcome to Sin City” event is sure to give you a good start as you hang around other fellow conventioneers in this once in a lifetime event. Spectacular shows, cocktails and a nightlife that goes on until dawn – the Casino Royale will definitely keep you wanting.

The Moroccan Interlude

Ever had a fantastic Moroccan experience in the heart of Las Vegas? The Moroccan Interlude convention offers you the delighting encounter with both. Starting with a cocktail hour, the convention goes on to entertaining shows such as very beautiful and seductive girls from their very own harem and amazing snake charmers, as well as alluring musical artists that will astonish you with their very own variety of music.

The Bond Party

Swingers Convention The world’s most famous spy comes to Las Vegas in this convention that will surely give you a ton of fun and excitement. At the Bond Party, you can suit up as a favorite Bond character (from a huge selection of James Bond’s movies like Goldfinger, SkyFall, The World is Not Enough, etc…) and get ready for a wild party ride like no other!

The Venetian Carnavale

A convention that showcases the amazing spirit of the City of Love, the Venice Carnaval promises to give you the time of your life. This amazing convention reflects on the city’s atmosphere of love, romance and lust. Starting with a special backstage pass to meet the world class artists and entertainers, the convention will go on to showcase awe-inspiring performances and events, and the Fire & Ice Grand finale will surely leave a mark on your memory that will last forever.

It is not just the events that are to be celebrated here. You will be booked in Las Vegas’ finest hotel that offers world class service and accommodation, The Palms Casino Resort. The Palms has become very famous with a lot of actors and celebrities for its luxurious and extravagant atmosphere.

You are promised an amazing experience that will keep you coming back; these Vegas Exchange convention night-themed events have the best places, the finest entertainers and the wildest parties that will make your heart pumping all night long!


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Open Marriage vs. Swinging

Several people have written in to Mike Hatcher asking what’s the difference between open marriage and swinging? Several readers thought it was the same thing and that there is no difference between the two. Just what exactly is the difference between an open marriage and swinging? At first it does appear on the surface that they are the same thing, but delve deeper into the intricacies of both options and you will soon find that there are indeed some differences especially to everyone involved.

Open marriage basically involves a married couple agreeing that they can be with other people in a sexual sense away from their marital bed. This takes away the idea of people having an affair and cheating on one another, because they believe that their love and bond is strong enough and cannot be damaged by either partner spending time with someone else. They agree to have a relationship outside their marriage, but the other partner simply does not want to be included.

Swingers Guide: Open Marriage vs. SwingingSwinging on the other hand is a little different.  It generally involves two couples who swap partners for sex normally in the presence of one another. They may visit a swingers club where there is no real sense of building an actual relationship.  It’s just a way for them to have sex with others without there being any kind of emotion or feeling attached.

It has to be said that an open marriage is often seen by many people as being a genre of swinging.  The rules are slightly different as to what is allowed and the time frame that is spent with the other person. Take for instance, in an open marriage, the person may go for dinner, walks or anything that involves a normal relationship and yes there is sex.  Whereas swinging is purely sexual and virtually nothing else.

It is perhaps best to say that neither option is classified as cheating as in most cases cheating requires a degree of trust to have been damaged.  In both lifestyles, everybody involved is aware of what is happening and indeed with whom. It is, therefore, important that there is complete honesty and understanding at all times for either option to really work because there is always a chance something could go wrong.  Make sure to discuss any potential discomfort in what is going on immediately, so the matter can be resolved as a couple.  Problems may indeed occur in the marriage or relationship, but this is a chance that people are willing to take.

So those are the key differences between an open marriage and a couple who are swingers.  One thing that does come across is a clear understanding and a great degree of trust between the couple for either of these things to occur. If either interests you, then do make sure you talk it over with your partner and do your research because even though it undoubtedly works for some it can often lead to all kinds of problems for others.

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5 Real Reasons Why Couples Swing

Several people have asked Mike Hatcher, why people swing, so I decided to delve into this a bit further. Swinging isn’t something that occurs to many couples out there and you may have asked yourself why any couple would want to swing in the first place. This is a common question and if you are considering becoming a swinging couple with your partner, you are probably looking for the answer to that very question.

What is Swinging?
Before we get into why a couple might choose to swing, you may want to get a good understanding of what swinging really is. Swinging has been defined as recreational sex. It mostly will consist of one couple meeting with another couple that swings as well and they will then “trade” partners. Swinging is consensual sex, nobody is forced into doing these sexual acts and both partners do the sexual acts, not just one person in the couple.

Most swinging couples meet other couples at a swingers clubs. These clubs are specifically designed for swingers and other open minded people in the lifestyle to connect with each other. The clubs typically don’t allow many single men in but most will allow a number of single women. However, this is not the only way to meet other swinging couples; there is the newspaper, magazines and the Internet.

Swingers Guide - 5 Real Reasons Why Couples Swing5 Real Reasons Why Couples Swing

1. It’s Healthy
Swinging will show you how to have a good time without needing alcohol, although some couples enjoy being tipsy.  Most swinger clubs don’t allow you to buy alcohol at the club, which means you’ll just bring your own booze and you will be having a healthy fun time without too much alcohol getting in your way, unless you load up on your own. Mike Hatcher does not drink alcohol period so I can attest to this.

Not only that, but being naked in front of many different people, you’re likely going to spend a lot of time working on your figure. This means you’ll want to eat right and exercise so you can get into good shape. Recently swingers have been doing the diet and getting in shape so they look sexy for other couples. (See the Healthy Swinging section of LifeStyle Magazine)  Sex takes a lot of work and depending on the person you’re having it with, you’re likely to burn some calories so make sure you can keep up.

2. You Will Both Meet Plenty of New & Interesting People
You meet a lot of people when your active in the lifestyle, whether its people that you’re going to be swinging with or friends of people you and your partner have swung with, you will form new friendships. It’s really a great to meet new people. If you go to a swingers clubs, you’re going to cross path with a lot of people that have similar interests to yours and establish good friendships.

Swingers Guide - 5 Real Reasons Why Couples Swing3. You Get to Dress Up
This doesn’t really sound like a reason to swing, but when you go out and you know that you are going to be having sex with a new person that evening, you’re going to spend extra time getting ready. It’s an excuse to wear your hottest dresses and your best suits. Swinging means that you’ll most likely be buying all different types of lingerie, not just for your partner but for all the potential sleeping partners you’ll have in the future.

4. You and Your Partner Will Experience & Learn New Things
When you are having sex with new people, you will learn a lot of new things from these people. What you learn, you can then teach your partner and do them together all the time. Even if you and your partner have a great sex life together, it never hurts to learn and try new things. If your partner has sex with a woman and he really enjoyed the things she did to him, you’re going to want to learn those things so you can make him feel even better.

5. You’re Doing Something Together
As strange as this sounds, swinging is a great way to bond and try new things with your partner. Instead of going out separately and cheating on one another in secret, you’ll be going out together and openly expressing your sexual desires. When you each have sex with other people, you can then sit down and openly talk about the experiences you had and that could end up as a bonding moments for you. Many people believe that swingers are estranged couples who don’t really care about one another just because they like to have sex with other people, when in reality; swingers are very close in their relationship.

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Polyarmory vs. Swinging Lifestyle

Polyarmory vs. Swinging LifestyleA number of people have heard about the swinging lifestyle, but fewer people are aware of what polyarmory actually means and how different it is to swinging. What follows are some of the key differences between the two that will allows you to determine if this is actually something that may be tempting to you or something you want to avoid.  They are indeed two completely different lifestyles and with a better understanding it will make it easier for you to decide which one applies to you.

First of all swinging is much more than just recreational sex.  The lifestyle is about forming new bonds through friendships as well as having different partners in a swapping scenario whether it’s at home or in special clubs. This is often referred to by some people as being similar to friends with benefits whereby the alternative is much more about the love and relationship side of a couple.  It is more akin to having a number of boyfriends or girlfriends where sex is only part of a normal relationship.

Another difference is that a swinger is still seen as being in a monogamous relationship whereas in a polyarmory relationship they are not. The reason for this is that the swinging lifestyle is really based around the actual couple whereas polyarmory is more about individual relationships.  Dates occur or sex happens away from the other partner rather than beside them where they know everything that is going on at all times.
Polyarmory vs. Swinging Lifestyle

There is also a difference in the length of time that each encounter lasts.  Swingers engage in short term relationships, while polyamorous people tend to engage in normal more long term relationships.   It is almost identical to the one they currently have with their main partner. People in the swinging lifestyle tend to be more discreet whilst polyamorous people want it to be out in the open. Polyamorous people will engage in normal everyday activities with their other lover whenever possible.

Clearly there are aspects of both relationships that overlap, so you cannot state that a certain number of rules only apply to one kind of lifestyle. It can be quite common for people to move from one to the other at various times depending upon the people they come across during their lives.  Some people who are in a poly relationship may actually still swing with their main partner, although this is more unusual.  However, every part requires a firm understanding between partners as to where their own individual boundaries lie. It is important to make these boundaries clear or the relationship can be in danger of failing.

You will, therefore, see that they are not the same things and the differences that exist between them are indeed extremely important to know and understand. Yes they both require a lot of trust, honesty and openness, but perhaps now you will see why some become swingers whilst others prefer a different kind of lifestyle instead.

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Swingers Lifestyle Magazine

Swinger News - Swingers LifeStyle Magazine Download the latest version of Lifestyle Magazine!  It is your source and companion for quality information about the lifestyle.  The lifestyle is growing at an alarming rate, and we want to keep swinging couples informed about these changes.  The summer 2012 edition has a new look and feel with interesting lifestyle articles that readers will enjoy.

This issue shine’s light on embracing a healthier lifestyle with a great article covering genetically modified foods. Studies have shown that eating organic food over genetically modified foods (GM) may reduce your exposure to pesticides, fertilizers, hormones as well as antibiotics.  The magazine discusses the crops grown in the United States, what to look for on the labels and other ways to maintain a healthy lifestyle.

I really enjoyed the article on Libidra. This is a product that will help women add passion back to their love life.  It is said to intensify ones sensation from sex and allow you to reach a more pleasurable orgasm.  It even works for PMS.  Not to worry, the ingredients are all naturals so you shouldn’t experience any side effects or other health problems.  The magazine is offering a special promotion to women who are interested in trying the product.  There is also a special promotion on Stamizyn, which is a sexual performance enhancement for men.

Planning a vacation this year?  Check out the Hot Destinations section with TopLess Travel where they talk about their Bangkok Thailand trip coming up in November.   If you need more information about it, you can visit their website or contact them directly at 877-90-SWING.

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Female Orgasm Enhancement Or Support Female Libido

Swinger News - Female Orgasm Enhancement Or Support Female Libido

Support Female Libido

Just when you think you have read it all something like Female Orgasm Enhancement pops up. A product called Libidra which helps Support Female Libido has been called the Viagra for women. I have done reviews on other male enhancement products but this is the first NATURAL product for women.

At first I was skeptical, I mean an all-natural product that get women in the mood, increase their interest in sex and helps with PMS? Well for me just the mood part would be worth it lol. But seriously I researched the ingredients and nothing like this product is out there, especially in price. From what I gather the natural ingredients formulated in Libidra have Chinese herbs such as Dong Quai and some rare ingredients like passion flower. I looked around on the net and nothing out there compares to the ingredients in Libidra.

The woman who gave me her personal review said she noticed within seven days, a heightened interest and increase pleasure in sex. Now this woman is a swinger wife, so I became curious in this product.  I questioned her on it, and she states that in seven days she noticed results, so I asked her if it increased by taking more? I am always a trial and error guy so I like to push things. I asked her to take 3 pills in the morning and 3 more 4 hours later. I was impressed, she told me that upon taking an extra pill, that she was in the mood even more than before, but she also got a good nights sleep.

Swinger News - Female Orgasm Enhancement Or Support Female Libido

How Many Men Will She Take?

The good news is this is the type of product you want to give your wife and keep your wife on if you are looking for some serious sex in my opinion. A guy asked me if it works good for getting the wife in the mood for a gang bang or double penetration. I did not know the answer other than the swinger wife told me it makes her feel like she wants more sex and can reach more orgasms better. In my opinion, give this to your wife a week or two before a swinger party or gang bang. But on the flip side and I love this, the ingredients I researched in Libidra, will help ease her mood that time of the month and may make her period lighter. So to the swinger husbands out there, buy your wife this and tell her “its for cramping and elevated mood honey” lol. Then when she takes it and gets horny just make sure to have your wife call good ole Mike Hatchers name out when you………or your buddy is doing your wife!


Hopefully you enjoyed this article and hopefully you give Libidra a try, do it for your wife.

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Superman Gets Wonder Woman

Swinging Humor - Superman Gets Wonder WomanIt seems like Hollywood is doing reboot after reboot, and makes sense that DC comics would do the same.  A lot of my loyal readers are wondering what does this have to do with swinging, well I did articles on Wonder Woman in the past and how the creator was into BDSM.  I also wrote a swinger take on Batman and Robin.

I recently read that DC is now having Superman hook up with Wonder Woman. Now being a swinger I envision Superman with a flashback from a movie called mallrats when Brodie says: “Lois could never have Superman’s baby. Do you think her fallopian tubes could handle the sperm? I guarantee he blows a load like a shotgun right through her back. What about her womb? Do you think it’s strong enough to carry his child?”

Now later on Brodie explains that Wonder Woman is the only woman that can bang superman, looks like DC comics may have taken it form this line: “He’s an alien for Christ sake! His kryptonian biological makeup is enhanced by Earth’s yellow sun. If Lois gets a tan, the kid could kick right through her stomach. Only someone like Wonder Woman has a strong enough uterus to carry his kid. The only way he could bang regular chicks is with a kryptonite condom . . . that would kill them.”

If that’s not cool enough Axel Braun has released another parody called Superman XXX. I have not watched this one yet, but this one may be one to watch at your next themed swinger party.

Seems like superheroes have been the topic of discussion and I wrote this because I recently went to an awesome swinger Super Hero Party. I recommend if you guys are throwing a party to have a Super Hero theme and rent some porn parodies like The Avengers XXX. Also don’t forget

Make sure to read other Super Hero Swinger Blogs Like:

Are Batman And Robin Gay?

Avengers Assemble

Wonder Woman BDSM

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Avengers Assemble: Swingers

Swinging Humor - Avengers Assemble: SwingersI admit I watched the Avengers two times at the movies, I was skeptical at first with the hype, but walked away from the movie very pleased. I have not watched a movie this good for years.  I came from the days when movies relied on plot like Weird Science and the Breakfast Club. I am a Generation X’er through and through.   The Avengers had plot, special effects and of course a compelling story, so why am I writing about the Avengers in a Swingers Blog? Simple, I just found out that my favorite artistic movie creators, Axel Braun has made The Avengers Porn Parody. Wow this one looks great, looks like it has a compelling story, great special effects and an all-star lineup.

The Avengers XXX looks to be a good porn flick, maybe not as dramatic as the movie, but this is one porn parody you cannot miss.  Looks like Earth’s mightiest heroes decided to have an orgy. This parody isn’t limited to license deals like Sony, from what I heard Sony didn’t want to cross license Spiderman in the Avengers so that’s why Spidey was not in the Avengers. But this parody does the comics justice ….in a weird pornographic sort of way. Avengers XXX has a cast of Iron Man, Black Widow, Nick Fury, Hawkeye, and Thor, The Avengers XXX also features Spider-Woman, Ms. Marvel, Sharon Carter, The Scarlet Witch, and yes, even Spider-Man himself, and they are doing what other REAL super heroes would behind clothes doors, orgies. So you see this is a good swingers blog addition. To top it off Axel Braun has cast Chyna as She-Hulk, this is going to be great! Loki may have an army, and the Avengers may have “The Hulk”, but this one also has She-Hulk”

In closing I always thought about having sex with a super hero, or wonder what it would be like to have sex as a superhero. Like Spiderman, I wonder how he shoots on climax or does he sling a web? Hopefully you guys enjoy this post and hopefully you pick up this movie to watch at your next swingers party or event.

View more XXX movie parodies: Ghostbusters, Star Wars, Avatar & Simpsons

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