People have written in to good ole “Mike Hatcher”, asking me “Hey Mike is there a way to spot or identify a swinger? The answer is a yes. Believe it or not there is jewelry worn in certain locations that can identify the women in the lifestyle. Men obviously are a little more open, but women wear jewelry to identify to others that they are allowed to play.
Courtesy nipple-charms.com
For example, if a woman wears an anklet on her right leg, this means the woman is a swinger and does play. However, for single men out there that have not read my posts on “Single Men in the Lifestyle”, listen up. Just because a woman is a swinger does not mean she has to have sex with your or wants to. The misconception is that is a woman is a swinger that she is a slut and has sex with anyone. This is so not true!
Moving on, if a woman wears a thumb ring, this is another indication that the woman is giving out a vibe that she is a swinger.
Toe Ring courtesy nipplecharms.com
Wearing a toe ring is also another indication that the woman is a swinger as well.Some swinger wife’s will actually switch their wedding ring to the right hand. In closing another indication is a bracelet worn on the left ankle, for men that are unaware, yes there is a difference between an anklet and a bracelet, please learn the difference before you end up hitting on someone from church.
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I would like to know if here in long beach CA dose exist a place fir swingers or should I say newbies
I think the anklet/braclet thing is bunk…at least in today’s day an age. Used to be a good way of knowing, but now lots of women wear them without any idea of the lifestyle meaning…the BEST way to spot a swinger is to just go to a lifestyle party – then you don’t have to worry about flirting with the wrong wife or husband.
I read a lot of conflicting info on the web about this, sometimes it’s an anklet with charms, if it’s on the left leg or right makes a difference that the wife is into black guys. There is a lot of “code” out there but ultimately you’ll have to have a little common sense and couth and try to feel out the situation with subtle questions, remember the lady might just be wearing jewelry and be totally unaware of the lifestyle.
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There are no words to describe how bdocaious this is.
Alakazaam-information found, problem solved, tahnks!
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So excited I found this article as it made tihngs much quicker!
So that’s the case? Quite a rveeltaion that is.
I thank you humlby for sharing your wisdom JJWY
While wearing an anklet on the right ankle is indeed an indication that the woman is a swinger, it should be noted that many, many women wear anklets without any knowledge of it’s meaning. And since most people are right-handed, they usually end up on the right ankle. Several of our vanilla friends wear anklets on their right ankle (which I always point out to my wife with a wink, since she’s wearing one there on purpose).
That said, anytime I spot an attractive woman with an anklet on her right ankle I compliment her on it and then ask, “So is there a meaning to wearing it on the right ankle or is that just a coincidence?” while my wife and I exchange knowing glances… good times
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TYVM you’ve solved all my prboemls
I like to party, not look artilecs up online. You made it happen.
I am froveer indebted to you for this information.
TOTAL BS, IM A SWINGER & KNOW MANY FEMALES THAT DON’T WEAR ANKLETS OR TOE RINGS, JUST ASK IF THEY ARE IN SLS, ANYONE IN SLS WILL SAY YES, NOT IN SLS…..WOULD ASK WHAT’S THAT? NOW U KNOW!
I’ve been in the lifestyle for 12 yrs and I think this is one of the biggest cocks of crap I’ve ever heard. If you act on this advice you’ll embarrass yourself.
Although these may be signals from swingers, be aware they are also popular in mainstream America. I know several vanilla girls that enjoy these fashions and would be insulted by an approach to swing. ALWAYS be cautious, and don’t be suprized if they say no!!
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If these were the distinguishing marks for swingers nearly every European women would be one.
With the new age of social media, even though more people are openly into swinging, it seems we are still in the closet, so to speak. My wife and I have been in the lifestyle since the early 1980´s. Back then, it was all hush hush and invite house parties only. EVEN TODAY, it is difficult to identify swinger couples outside the normal social media for swingers (Clubs, web sites etc).
I WISH, as this author has identified, our Swinger Community would invent and ADVERTISE specific items that, when worn, would allow swinger couples to identify each other.
We are going on a 10 night cruise this December. It is a vanilla cruise, however I would expect at least 10% of the other 2000 couples on the ship are in the lifestyle. PROBLEM, how to find those other 10% without being forward. Remember, we/ you will be on a ship with these people for 10 days so socially, one would not want a miss step. Plus, we are professionals. I am a Doctor and my wife a nurse. So professionally, where discretion is very important.
We have a very good friend who is gay, and I mean she is 110% lesbian. On her car bumper, she has a blue decal with three white lines in a specific pattern. One day I asked her what the sticker was for and she said ¨OH, thats so other gays here in the metroplex will know I am gay¨. I thought the idea was great. Unless you had been told or were gay, there is no way anyone would know what that sticker meant. I actually thought it was some type of ID for corporate parking. This sticker was a regional thing, not the multi colored gay pride flag we are all used to seeing.
So how about it? Anyone have any ideas on an INTERNATIONAL symbol that is will allow those in the lifestyle to identify each other without it screaming to the vanilla crowd ¨Hay, we swing¨? It could be put on a ball cap, visor, T-shirt, etc. And advertised ONLY on swinger subscription web sites.
SO; Your thoughts?
Be careful about the wedding ring on the RIGHT HAND rule. There are countries in Central and S. America where the wedding ring is traditionally worn on the RIGHT hand. My wife is from one of those countries. In fact, we got her a gold wedding band for her right hand to satisfy her culture and she wears the ¨Western culture¨ diamond set on the left hand. However if you cross paths with a couple who are just visiting the U.S. they (Both the husband and wife) will be wearing their rings on the right hand.
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I typically wear an Anklet that either says HOTWIFE on it or has a Queen of Spades symbol on it. I’ve seen more and more info out on the internet stating that swingers wear anklets so I’m trying to do my part. Some people just wear them to be fashionable but as swinging gets more main stream perhaps the anklet will be more of a swinger symbol.
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Artciels like this make life so much simpler.
I can’t hear anything over the sound of how aeswome this article is.
Free info like this is an apple from the tree of konlwedge. Sinful?
A woman swings because she wears a toe ring or an anklet? That’s like saying swingers wear high heeled shoes, or a watch. Sure they do, and so does everyone else. That’s a bold (and totally inaccurate) statement to put out there. If you want to be able to identify a swinger, go to a swinger party. Discretion, remember?
FYI please be aware that if the lady is an Asian Indian, a toe ring signifies that the women is married lol. So don’t be confused if they don’t appreciate the advances.
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