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The Swingers Lifestyle Top 3 Sexual Fantasies Explored

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Having sexual fantasies is completely normal, and exploring them in ‘real life’ might be intimidating for a first time indulger. Some of the most common desires individuals want to fulfill include sensual massages, threesomes, domination and submission play, outdoor sex and making intimate videos. While there are numerous wild and sane fantasies, we’ll address the top three and offer tips to ensure they are fulfilled as ‘safe fantasies.’ 1. Domination and Submission Fantasies Taking an intimate experience to the next level with a bit of sub/dom play is a sexualRead More


Sexting – Tips & Tricks To Keep Your Partner Engaged

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Feeling a bit horny when separated from your partner? Give sexting—also known as sex texting—a try! You don’t need to be a part of a swingers club or in the lifestyle at all to partake in this form of sexy distance play. If you’re a newbie to this form of play, we offer these sexting tips and tricks to keeping it engaging. Relive a Special Memory Together Take a fast drive down memory lane by sex texting your lover with a reminder of “that time when” using arousing words. BeRead More


The Benefits of Morning Sex for Lifestyle Swinger Couples

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While waking up in the morning to a cup of coffee is the biggest reward to some, having morning sex with your partner is a great way to get your day started. The morning sex drive is very real and experienced by most couples, vanilla or otherwise. Getting busy in the early morning hours right after you wake has a number of health benefits, and there’s also no denying the perks of an orgasmic day. Let’s explore a few of those remarkable (and scientifically proven) reasons why we indulge inRead More


What Curious Couples Need to Know About BDSM

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If you’re curious about what lifestyle couples involved in BDSM relationships are actually doing behind closed doors, we can only dare venture a few ‘guesses.’ However, that curiosity about the BDSM lifestyle is fairly common, as the Kinsey Institute reports that: And they wrap that survey up with a rough estimate that more than 80% of Americans admit to fantasizing about being in BDSM relationships. That being said, let’s explore a few basics to fuel your fantasies. What is BDSM? A loose acronym for play time terms like bondage/discipline, domination/submission,Read More


Getting Creative as a Couple at Home – Tips for Some Hot Home Fun

As we find ourselves spending more quality time with our significant others, it’s important to carve out time to reconnect as a couple. Finding new and erotic ways to keep our partners turned on and fulfilled is one way to take advantage of extra time together. One way to add some spice to your relationship is by being creative with things that can be found at home. From touching and teasing with hot and cold, to using sensual foods to heighten the senses, to using ties, tapes or other “householdRead More


The BDSM Lifestyle — A Punishing Look at Sadism and Masochism

BDSM Lifestyle

BDSM…four letters lusciously getting more attention lately. So what exactly does this acronym mean? We’re going to tell you what BDSM couples in the lifestyle predominantly think—particularly about the realms of sadism and masochism—but before delving into the wit and wisdom of those ‘in the know,’ here’s the Webster’s Dictionary’s definition: Masochism: “A term that refers to various forms of play including bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.” For this post, we’ll focus on sadism and masochism, or S/M or S&M as it’s often called. What isRead More


FFM Threesomes Debate: She Wants a Butch…He Wants a Fem

Even the strongest couples amid the swingers lifestyle can run into differences concerning their preferences when it comes to play time. Fortunately, most of them can be worked out, including situations in which the couple wants an FFM threesome but their tastes in women varies tremendously. It’s more common than you think, and it’s typically that she wants a butchy woman while he wants the ultra-hot fem. Read on to explore some ways to find resolution acceptable for everyone. Who’s Sleeping With Her Anyway? In an FFM arrangement, there isRead More


Flip Flopping Swayers: Students of the Swingers Lifestyle

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While swinging on a swing set, one propels themselves back and forth across a starting point axis. However, swaying is when one only moves gradually across that same threshold, only to return to the axis point as the motion ceases. The latter is the methodology of individuals known amid the swinging lifestyle as ‘flip-floppers’ or more commonly, ‘swayers.’ Swayers are typically ‘vanilla’ but may dabble with soft swapping types of experiences on special occasions or as they feel the inclination to sway across their normal sexual boundaries for a shortRead More


Using Toys at Playtime? Here are a few Cleaning and Safety Tips

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While spreading the love is the goal of a play party or other it is important to properly clean your toys at playtime; before and after would be recommended just to make sure your love items are properly cleaned before the fun begin. Unfortunately, as sexy as using toys at a swingers party can be, they do present a challenge concerning sanitation and cleanliness when multiple partners are involved. Besides using a fresh condom for each partner using the toy, you should take time to clean the toys at playtimeRead More


Polyamory New Relationship Energy Explained

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New relationship energy (NRE) is a feeling that pretty much everyone experiences when they begin a new and exciting romantic or sexual relationship. Essentially, it’s a state of mind that includes intense giddiness and a heightened sense of arousal and feelings towards a new partner versus a former or current one. In the polyamory lifestyle, the current partner would likely be somewhat understanding, as they likely get NRE when they play with other partners in the lifestyle, too. That being said, there are some risks of uncontrolled new relationship energy,Read More